I continue to say no and its putting a strain on our marriage. She trying to force feed religion on me. What should i do?
2007-04-02 08:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by RARE AIR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk with her and see why she wants you to pray with her. Let her know that your not comfortable doing it. Maybe you two can come to a compromise of some sort. There is nothing wrong with praying, but praying twice a day, is a little too much. Maybe let her know how you feel about it, but tell her how much you love her and that you will compromise and pray with her either in the morning or at night. Good Luck.
2007-04-02 09:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Proud mommy of 2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good woman. Who is not cheating on you, Who loves you and is worried about your soul. You have a woman who will be faithful and loving to you in your marriage. Go to her minister and tell him how you feel and work this issue out. Or are you afraid of God, or what God know you are doing. No one can force feed you religion. You know where you stand , but go to the minister and tell him and discuss it with your loving and good wife. Would you rather have a tramp that wants to take you to the bar each night and have you watch her go after men.
2007-04-02 08:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
To me that is taking religion a little to far , no one wants to pray in the morning and pray at night with someone. I tell her look if you want to pray go right ahead but I'm going to watch TV or mow the yard. She sounds a little out of range and out of service to me.
Tell her look you do what ever rocks your boat, but I'm not going to go along with you while you rock.
2007-04-02 09:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why she doesn't respect your right to believe (or not believe) as you do. If you can't come to an agreement about this, you will both have to decide whether you can just agree to disagree, but continue to treat each other with respect and love, anyway.
2007-04-02 09:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A family that prays together stays together...
I think that's something that you both should have addressed in marriage counseling or in the process of you both becoming one... That should have been first!
2007-04-02 09:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple that prays together stays together. let her know not to force it on you. but maybe you should give in once and a while and you may even enjoy it. give it a try, tell her that you will try it for a couple of days. that is your wife and youre in forever, dont let praying tear you apart.
2007-04-02 08:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to stand your ground. You shouldn't be made to do something you are not comfortable with. Tell your wife to stop asking you to pray with her. Let her know that you respect her choice to be religious and that you need her to respect your choice not to be.
2007-04-02 08:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Has she always been this way? Didn't you know each other well before you married? I'd get an "I Love Satan" tattoo and watch her faint with shock! After that, I think your problem will go away.
2007-04-02 09:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by stony1111 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her " You are my Goddess, please bless me with good sex every night, good home cooked meal every day, and love and affection every moment. Amen " Only if she answers your prayers, then only God will answer her prayers. At least she can hear what you are praying for, but we are not sure if God can hear hers.
May your Goddess bless you !
2007-04-02 15:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try it. i believe theres nothing more important than god himself. (remember its just an opinon of mine.) god is what helps hold things together in life itself and one day your going to find yourself on your knees without your wife praying for something.
2007-04-02 10:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋