Ok, there is more to the story. Yes, there are more signs than just the call, that was deep and sounded like they were in love. They would go swimming at the lake house every weekend after everyone went to bed (just them) they talk all the time. I found them UNDER the dock at 2AM and they said they were talking. He would lie and say he was going to the store and call her, if its his sister why not call her in front of me or the kids? THey were not only talking like lovers, they were talking ugly about me for no reason....he has pics of her in her bathing suit from 20 years ago in his truck with several others, none of me.....after all this he still calls her everyday and NOT me. I have cried, lost 20 pounds ( I was already skinny) for what? I was not the one telling my new brother how much I loved him over and over again and calling each other BABY ! Last I found STAMAX in his truck, that was not for us because we were not sexual that much, he stopped more and more as the months passed
2007-04-02 09:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by peaches8866 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW! What a saga I've been missing. This is a REAL story!
I mean, it's really intriguing, but I want you to know that I have known my own sister all my life, and have kept in touch, and even though we often disagree, we have truly great and loving relationship. I call her baby, sweetheart, love, honey and all that crap that even makes my wife jealous at times, especially when I haven't been saying those things to her.
I THINK, that if your two have been out of touch for so long, then ANYTHING is quite possible AND THE ONLY WAY you're going to settle it is by sharing your concern with both so they can have the opportunity to appease you, OK?
An accusation is just that... it IS NOT a question but an attack.
And yes, this renewal of an old, lost relationship could take even unwanted directions, but you are just stewing in speculations and not resolving anything. In fact you may be turning something good into bad.
2007-04-02 09:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by forlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness. I think I would just tell him to leave, and not look back. All the signs are pointing in that direction, and you are already stressed to the max. It's time to start the healing process, but you can't do that until he is gone. I know it will be hard. I couldn't even imagine how hard. But there is no way I could go back to my husband who had an affair with his 1/2 sister! My god, that is incest!
2007-04-02 09:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are married to him? I don't know what to say but when it comes to family (doesn't matter if they are step or not) they can be really close. Maybe he is having an affair and confiding in her. I don't know about them being involved with each other but that just plain sick! I would say just open the lines of communication and work it out. If it ends badly or good at least it gets work out.
2007-04-02 09:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by letigutierrez77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is having sexual relations with his half sister then he is a pig. What kind of family is this? I think the half brother and sister have been watching too much Jerry Springer. Incest is so bad, disgusting and is a sin.
2007-04-02 09:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by kitty_loves_cuddles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you describe, it sounds like he's got a twisted relationship with his sister. I don't care if it's his 1/2 sister...it's still his sister and that's just gross.
What are you going to do about it?
2007-04-02 09:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly past lovers? Doesn't sound like a brother/sister relationship...you may have a cheater on your hands
2007-04-02 09:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by Laxbaby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess. You have to decide what is right for you. How long can you go on like this?
2007-04-02 09:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell everything and get the hell out of there .Whats holding you?
2007-04-02 09:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sick, just as she is! Do you really think its worth being cheated on, by a sicko?
2007-04-03 00:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa713 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in trouble my dear...I remember you previous question. Please get out, your relationship is over and your husband needs some serious help. Your husband could be really damaging your children by his continued infatuation with his sister. Please please please get counseling for yourself and your children and leave him.
This is only going to get worse.
2007-04-02 09:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋