Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2006

My x pulls up in front of my house honks for our daughter to run out to the minivan. If I step out on the porch i get my picture taken and just lately she was videotaping me?? I had to call the police the last exchange because she had someone watching the exchange from across the street in the dark. Should I be concerned?? The police said it is a public street and they couldn't so anything. My daughter cries on the way to the van...Any suggestions??? Dad just wanting to see his daughter without exwife interferrring

2006-11-29 09:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by dad f needs help 1

they r buying assets for themselves and their elder son .we don't have any savings b'coz of that .My husband is really caring and loving and he never says no to them . He thinks that when he will need it they will give him back but i know its not possible as they r making house and they don't have that kind of money . .We already had so many heated discussions about that and he always becomes so emotional.
my problem is I don't work I stay at home coz of my immigration status but this whole situtation makes me so insecure for our future .
other than that he loving ,caring,gentle and so much more.

this whole situtation sometimes make me feel why i m worried about his money when he doesn't thinks of securing his wife and
kids future ..please help

2006-11-29 08:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by sassy_girl 3

My husband went to another state for his work, when I was pregnant 3 months ago. He was gone for 5 days. He went with other men from his company/industry. Well the last night they were there, my husband turned his cellular phone off and he did not answer his hotel room phone until about 5am. I stressed out so much, being pregnant too made it even more emotional. To this day he swears he was in his room asleep or passed out whatever. I want to get back at him so bad now. I want to make him feel the way he made me feel. I don't think he cheated, because our realtionship has been good. But who knows? Should I try to forget about it? Or plot to go out with my friends and turn my phone off?? I know it sounds horrible, but I don't like the fact that he got one over on me. Please help. Thanks!!!!

2006-11-29 08:49:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone on her swap partners
or are there anyone interested in swapping
has any one ever been to a swing club

share ur thoughts and opinion

the reason i ask i went to a swingers club and i had a blast
and i m hook on it

anyone interested

2006-11-29 08:45:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf asked me to marry him last night and i said yes, but i'm 17 and so is he, we both know we're the ones for eachother. we were planning on getting married in February when i turn 18...and having his mom sign papers saying he can. she already said she would. i know i want this, but my family would kill me, so i was thinking do it secretly...lol. but is our age to young..should we wait a while longer?

2006-11-29 08:43:03 · 72 answers · asked by Manda89 1

2006-11-29 08:41:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been in love for 6 years now but her parents want her to marry a rich and older man they dont know about me yet and I was plamnning to marry her in 2 years now everythings gone wrong help plz im 18?

2006-11-29 08:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by lewis jones 1

my husband has givin me permission to start a porn site and i dont want to get in to trouble with the law?what do you guys think?
sex does sell

2006-11-29 08:37:41 · 12 answers · asked by shoshoni b 1

this will be our first xmas together

2006-11-29 08:35:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do men cheat in marriage? i mean if they aren't satifised with something in marriage than why can't they just talk to there wife and try to work it out? why do they cheat?

2006-11-29 08:31:09 · 35 answers · asked by Kelly T 1

A boyfriend/spouse who gets along very well with his ex-wife or one that does not get along with his ex-wife at all? How would you feel if she does not acknowledge your existence because you had an affair with her ex while they were still married? They have a child so he still has to communicate with her. However, she does not call your house when her son is there - she calls your boyfriend/husband at work only. My boyfriend keeps saying she is a great mother and she has handled the affair and the divorce very well. She always puts their son first. Would I feel better if they did not get along?

2006-11-29 08:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Umm...I like your fire !!
I do not like it when you are rude and YOU know when you are being rude. You have high barriers around you, which you refuse to lower for fear of getting hurt. You dont trust people very much. All of this is fine....people have different personalities some open, some closed. You tend to lean to the side of closed. Its hard to read what is going on in your mind. That is an obstacle . This part explains your attitude. You are presentable and sociable when you choose to be....so your personality is usually nice. Yes you are turn-on is a lot more to do with the mind than it is do with the body. You dont sleep with some one just because they have good body or great legs. The mind needs to be stimulated for the body to follow. Even then its speculative. Our relationship has a lot of spark....and I suppose all that energy will be positive in a physical sense of union. But then I could be wrong, maybe we will fail to excite each physically. But mentally i like u.

2006-11-29 08:22:06 · 23 answers · asked by julia1975 4

I have gone to weight watchers with her. I have cooked the meals. Invited her to go for walks, work out and take dance classes with me. She has gained a little over 40 pounds in 4 years of marriage. The weight and lack of activity make her tired all the time. Our sex life hasn't really suffered that much yet. I worry about her health, she had cancer some years ago, but the big problem is I get up in the morning and go to bed at night trying to figure out how to get her to lose weight. I should also mention she is the kindest and best emotionally put together person I have ever met.

2006-11-29 08:18:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I got married young 21/23 when I graduated college and while he was still in the Military (both in NY). He had more time off, more friends, but didnt make a lot of money. He decided to get out and wanted us to move back home...to Louisiana. I was not thrilled with the idea since I am a total Yankee. We have been down here for almost 2 years and he has had 2 jobs that involves LOTS of traveling. He love it and makes good money..we have everything we want. But I am in a job I hate, have no friends and am usually the "Yankee" outcast far from home. I only moved down here to be with HIM but spend all my time alone with the dog since he travels 6 months out of the year. I always feel like I'm the one missing him and feel neglected. We've had several talks lately about me needing more attention and thoughtfullness from him, but he still doesnt seem to get it! I'm to the point of going back home. It already feels like we are divorced. I'd rather be with my family,not alone

2006-11-29 08:16:24 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer 1

so she cheated i caught her confessing to the guy on a voice recorder.i forgave her but she wasnt allowed to speak to him again.she got caught a month later still talking to him everyday.i checked her phone bill.now im gonna give her one more shot befor i give this guy's wife the recording along with phone records.so if she is serioius this time whaty do you think she should do to make me feel more comfortable with her.and feel like i can trust her again.what things do you think she should have to do.should she be allowed to go to her christmas paty where this guy is probaly gonna be.c'mon world good answers.

2006-11-29 08:16:21 · 34 answers · asked by MR. IM 1

2006-11-29 08:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by mikesmom 2

I was at a party on Saturday night. I got a little drunk, and I was talking with a guy friend that I have known for about a year. On Monday, we exchanged some funny emails about things that happened at the party. One of his emails made reference to me saying some things that he surprised him. I knew that I was being bold and flirty, so I emailed him back and asked him if I propositioned him and apologized if I said anything inappropriate. He emailed me back and said the following :
"I don't recall any propositions...but it is flattering to know that the risk was there."
How do I interpret that, and how do I respond ? I might be interested in having fun with the guy. I know he is married, so please don't read me the riot act, just interpret for me.

2006-11-29 08:12:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have a question or actually I have an issue that I need advise on. To start out I have been in my first lesbian relationship going on 6 years in January. Last year 2005, in April she left me. She stated the reasoning for this was because she didn’t feel loved and I didn’t show enough affection, she was overwhelmed with school there were multiple reasons given. I am guilty of the affection part. The same day she left she ended up sleeping with her friend of 2 years. To be honest I had suspected that there were feeling involved for a while but dismissed when I tried to address the issue and was told different. She was away for 3 weeks and I was told that she wanted to work things out with me. She moved back into our house however the phone calls, secret meeting with her friend and emails continued for 5 month. When I found in September I left for 2 days then ended up returning to her after all of the “I’m sorry’s” were said. I knew she was sorry and realized what she was doing was wrong. It has been a struggle ever since especially with trust. I don’t trust her when she is out of my sight (I know this is bad) I don’t trust her with her other friend either because I know that the friendship line in the past has been broken. This has put a huge strain on our relationship. Just recently (14months from that time) I found an email (in her email address) that indicated that that flirting might be taking place between her and her other friend. When I brought it up, once again was told that I was making stuff up in my head so again dismissed it. A couple of days later when I tried to get into her email the password had been changed. Now granted I shouldn’t be snooping, and never have until everything happened last year, but we have always had each other’s passwords to our emails addresses. And on occasion check each others emails. This again was another issue to who was hiding what and why was the password changed. In my eyes it indicated that she didn’t want me to see the emails between the 2 and that she might be hiding there talks. Am I just crazy? I have never ever been like this. But the past year I have just been so paranoid that everything is going to fall apart again and I don’t want to get caught off guard like last time. But in the same token I am not giving things a chance……
This past weekend we went out and she drank quite a bit and no matter where we were or what we were doing she was always looking at this same friend. This bothered me but I left it alone. I didn’t want to ruin a good time. The next day I brought it up and yup crazy again……and I only see what I want to see I was told. Now she is telling me that she doesn’t think that things are going to work and I don’t pay attention to her and show affection enough…dais a vu or what? Please help… any advice would be helpful.

2006-11-29 08:10:14 · 15 answers · asked by fk1001 1

Do you believe that men and women can be just friends?
And if all they do is talk, do you wonder why they can't just talk to you?

2006-11-29 08:07:56 · 26 answers · asked by TooCute 3

what would you do if you caught your husband having some"alone time"?

2006-11-29 08:07:29 · 54 answers · asked by I'm laughing WITH you 3

Still married after 14 years. 2 children. I am not divorcing him. I do not believe he see's the other woman - no physical evidence. I just feel so angry at him at times and would love to get his goat. He cheated on me with a girl who was only 20. Better yet, she was one of our employees.

2006-11-29 08:04:16 · 30 answers · asked by ParisCharleston 1

if your wife's stepson is living with you, i want to know about your experience

2006-11-29 08:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by yoube72 2

If you found out from a reliable source that your husband and another married woman kissed and just made out 6 months ago and this happens to be a woman you are commonly friends with, would you confront her about anything? Lets say your hub and her still email about some general things since you happen to see some mails. Since you know that even now, would you tell this woman friend to stop emailing your man, would you tell her you know of their kiss and making out session, would you tell her not to come to your house and not invite her or her hubby to your parties? Would you say anything to her if you knew her fairly well among your married group of friends?

2006-11-29 08:01:47 · 25 answers · asked by richards_tr 1

Our 10th anniversary is tomorrow and I have heard it is the alunimum year. any suggestions,I want to show him how special he is to me.

2006-11-29 08:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an argument with my fiance on friday night, on sunday he goes to mysisters house and says "dont tell your sister I told you thid but..." I think tha it is a violation of trust...of course my sister is going to tell me!

2006-11-29 07:55:46 · 12 answers · asked by Elizabeth E 2

2006-11-29 07:55:01 · 22 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4

By trophy wife, I mean a woman who is more attractive than her husband. The husband is often older and wealthier. For me, the perfect examples would be hugh hefner and donald trump with their women. male feminists can answer too: don't be shy!

2006-11-29 07:49:18 · 26 answers · asked by parthenophilast 2

Yes it is true, research that women speaks 20,000 words a day,6,000 for men, but What if the wife only speaks 20 words a day, and no more! And when she is confronted by an attorney not for divorce, but other legal issues, she begins to speak, the husbands tells the wife shut up, I am talking! In groups, he saids to the wife, I am talking. Should I just not say nothing to him at all, and keep my words down to 10 words, and just let him figured out what my mind is thinking, I know he has not got the gift to read minds, but I am really getting really mad at him, and all this submission to him and giving sex to him at his needs, when he does not meet my emotional needs, He is the only one working, and having 3 special needs children, I am really getting stress!
AS a wife, what would you do? in my situation? We don't talk, all my talking goes with my frineds only, and usually the time we have is quiet! Please good advice for submissive Godly wife!

2006-11-29 07:48:47 · 8 answers · asked by ourjacobdavid 4

Is it possible for a woman to stay single for the rest of her life? My husband and I are divorcing and I don't want anyone else. There has never been another man for me but my husband and I don't want there ever to be anyone to replace him in my heart.

2006-11-29 07:47:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 07:45:14 · 52 answers · asked by squirewill2005 1