2006-11-29 08:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by mikesmom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes she can do that
2006-11-29 08:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The widow should do whatever she wants. If that is a way for her to grieve, she should definitely do it. However, the reason for the flowers is so that others typically can offer their condolences and the widow with something beautiful to have around her, to let her have a visual of the people that care and are there for her. It is also so that other people can pay for the flowers because the family is paying for the other expenses. Sort of like bringing food to a pot luck so that the hostess doesn't feel she has to provide everything to take stress off after working like hell to clean her house up. However, if the widow wants to have her own flowers, or a certain kind of flower.....that is completely her choice. It is no one elses place to ask or wonder how someone should grieve and how they shouldn't. If she wants to send flowers, encourage her to.
2006-11-29 08:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there .......im sorry for this loss ,i cant imagine what pain you are going through at this time .........if you want to send flowers to the funeral of youre husband then thats okay to do ,in fact anything that feels right to you ,you should do as you are dealing with the loss ,and if that helps you in any way then it is right ,and why should you not have flowers for youre husband at the funeral with what ever words you feel that you should say on the card ......i hope you find some peace and take car of youre self xx
2006-11-29 08:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the widow can do whatever she wants to do, but i think more often than not, other people would be sending her the flowers to comfort her and sympathize with her instead of her having to send them to herself.
2006-11-29 16:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to her... She's probably paying for the funeral so if she wants to she can also throw in some flowers.
2006-11-29 08:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The widow can do whatever she wants to show respect and love for her husband.
2006-11-29 08:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there will be a casket cover that the family sends.If she wants to put a ribbon or other item with the flowers, that's a nice touch.I've seen beautiful doves and bows with the spouses nick-name on it.
2006-11-29 08:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the daddy did,nt move to his sons funeral how unhappy.do a similar to the sister at the same time as something occurs ,being bedridden is one ingredient yet in the experience that they are able to vacation its in simple terms an excuse Sorry on your loss
2016-11-27 22:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. she paying for the funeral anyways
2006-11-29 08:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by babie919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a widow. The widow can do anything she wants.
2006-11-29 09:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by marie_roberts2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Usually the large floral arrangement on top of the casket is from the wife and kids. She also usually buys the boutineer that he can wear.
2006-11-29 08:31:55 · answer #11 · answered by KC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋