Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2006

I think alot of ladies say that they would love a man secure enough to let his wife's career take the lead but it seems that many of these relationships fall apart. From my expierence it is that the wife stops respecting the husband. When he protests feeling emasculated he is being sensitive and insecure but if he bears it in silence he is seen as passive. Do you guys think that this is why some men try to not let thier wives careers supass thier own? It seems as if the husband is now in "competition" with his professional wife for her respect. Is this right? Is this happening? is it normal?

2006-11-29 04:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by Magnus01 3

She has a carrer and lives in Minneapolis MN. Tall blonde

2006-11-29 04:02:11 · 17 answers · asked by Lorenz N 1

some more. What can you do to have some alone time with out going to each other's house? Due to the fact that we don't drink coffee we can't go to a coffee shop, and having drinks were covered at dinner what can you do to have a more initmate seeting where the two of you can just talk. We can't do a walk in the park because it's 33 degrees here at night. Please Help.

2006-11-29 03:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 03:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by runzwsizorz 3

2006-11-29 03:52:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have recently got back together. There were a couple different reasons that we split, but one major problem I had was her inability to manage her money well. We've only been back together for about a week, and I see that not much has changed. I love her so much, and want to make things work. Any advise on how we can compromise? She calls me a tightwod, but I feel like one of us needs to be! Please help!

2006-11-29 03:46:43 · 11 answers · asked by "B" 3

girls , they tends to nag and nag and make a fuss over a small simple matter... is this a way to attract mens attention?

2006-11-29 03:42:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 03:40:35 · 24 answers · asked by blossom 1

2006-11-29 03:35:58 · 12 answers · asked by Spade Jr. 1

I sold my home and everything in it 6 months ago to live with my wife. She pays the mortgage because she makes a lot more money than I do. We had a deal before purchasing the home that I would only be responsible for the electric bill. I have done that. I keep the house up, I keep her children for her, and I give her money on top of that. I feel it is unfair for me to have to go because now she is unhappy.

2006-11-29 03:32:49 · 22 answers · asked by doster27 1

Husband keeps threatening me to make me love him but I don't love him anymore. He threatens to kill me if I don't tell him or change my lifestyle thinks I'm cheating on him consistently.

2006-11-29 03:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by csdqop 1

I have remarried but want to retire and collect on first husbands ss due to amount of income

2006-11-29 03:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by Ann 1

me and my husband are haveing problems he resently cheated on me and we are trying to get over it. he has told me he still has feelings for her but he loves me and it wont happen again. well I wanted to know if anyone has any ideas on how to relite our fire or maybe just how to make sure he sees what he would loose if he did it again to me. maybe somethings to make life for fun

2006-11-29 03:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 03:23:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

in a relationship not in marriage...what day do it start

2006-11-29 03:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Imani♥ 2

My husband is coming home today. Luckily he was only in New Jersey and was never overseas. He was able to come home once a week for a day or two. I really miss him but a lot has changed in the year and a half that he was gone. (He is in the reserves and his unit was activated) The biggest change is, we had another baby who is now one. I am just really worried that we are going to be at each others throats while he is home. Don't get me wrong, I am so happy that he is coming home but I am worried what it will do to our relationship. He is a really easy going guy and is very laid back. He is the best husband in the world and I love and adore him. Any pointers on how to make this transition easier?

2006-11-29 03:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by TRUE PATRIOT 6

can my boyfriends exwife stop their child from being around me

2006-11-29 03:10:52 · 19 answers · asked by plynn 1

Just curious. :)

2006-11-29 03:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Confused kitty 1

My husband an i have been married for 8 years. I had 2 kids when we met, then he and I had another. He had some bad things happen to him as a child from an older step brother. He is a wonderful man to me. He says he doesnt believe in cheating..he treats me like a queen, he just doesnt ever want to have sex. We did alot when we were dating, and after we got married. But 7 years ago, it just stopped. I wrote about this 3 mths ago, and its gotten worse. He refuses counseling, docs etc. He has initiated mayB 6 times in 7 yrs. He usually says he is to tired when I try. We only have sex maybe 3 to 6 times a year. Now, He says he wants to work on the marriage, but insists i dont initiate. And he gets angry and Yells, and says "I DONT KNOW", when I ask why he has rejected me. Well his reasoning for the past 2 yrs is cause I dont touch his penis correctly, either I tickle or its to hard. I need some help. Am I a fool? Ive tried EVERYTHING! I really am giving up, and I live a fake life.

2006-11-29 03:07:20 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 03:04:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 52, he's 57 kids are grown we've been seeing each other for over 2 years . he moved into his own apartment almost one year ago. Today , he's going to divorce court at 8:30 am . He seemed so stressed out last night. Married for 38 years but has been totally unhappy for around 10 years and told me he's in love with me for the first time and has never known such bliss.Says he's NEVER been with another woman besides me and his wife if you know what I mean and as shy as he is, I totally believe him.
Question is: Its 10:00 am and I haven't heard from him. Should I be concerned? Please don't answer unless you've been there also. Serious inquiries only. Don't throw rocks please.

2006-11-29 02:56:31 · 19 answers · asked by CryBaby 2

My soon to be ex husband was telling people that he moved out because I was a bad mother. When I told him, "OK, fine, you can have the kids and I will see them on every other weekend" he says that he didn't mean that. He is now angry with me because I have told the same people that the real reason that he moved was to be with another woman, who he invited to his birthday party (of course I didn't attend and neither did the kids). He is now angry because I exposed his deeds and he has lostythe respect of some of his friends. I say, can't pay, don't play. He apparently had no respect for me when he invited his "woman" to party that included mutual friends. He says that no one would have known that she was other than a friend if I hadn't said something. Am I missing something here?

2006-11-29 02:56:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He never saw the chick nor met her. So he doesn't even know what she looked like! Just an exchange of ph numbers and a few short conversations on the phone, but I caught him by archiving his instant messages. He was im-ing her behind my back. I would walk into the room and he would immediately sign off. So anyway I keep thinking about it and can't get it out of my mind. He says he is very sorry, he would never want to hurt me. He even got sick and cried. Any ideas that will get this out of my head???

2006-11-29 02:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by chatterella 3

my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot over his drinking,he goes out and parties with his friends and his daughter and i stay at home.he tends not to come home when he drinks,he has disappeared every weekend and some times in the middle of the week.he will say he will be back but he never is,he wont come home til the next day.he lost a job over it,and has almost lost this one.i tell him leaving because i cant handle being so lonely,he wont take me anywhere all i do is work and come home.we made a deal,he can go out on saterdays and come home sunday morning as long as he shows me some attention once and a while,and takes me to a movie or somthing edleast twice a month.he said okay,but he still wont and i still allow him to go out every saterday.i keep forgiving and i dont know why,i know i can get some one who will treat me soooo much better,he said he loves me and he will try to show me but after 4 years should i still hope or walk out

2006-11-29 02:49:02 · 23 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1

She's a so-so friend (still, she's a friend) and she's having an affair with a married man. This guy has 2 toddlers. He even cheated on my friend and his wife with his ex-girlfriend but he still lied about that. He came up with the story that she's crazy and psycho and that he never slept with her when his wife was out of town. So, his wife and my friend stick with him. He doesn't know my friend looks at his wife's pics online-I don't know how she found out her yahoo name. She drives by his house all the time. I believe that he's tried to stop calling her but she threatens him with blackmail if he doesn't come to see her. The thing is-I feel for the wife, I've been through this before. I've talked with my friend and there's no getting through to her. Do I say something to his wife? I have her email address because my friend has shown me pics of his wife while talking bad about her. Again, I don't know how she was able to see their family pics unless Man Ho let her.

2006-11-29 02:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I make the credit card companies wait till my divorce is final to figure out who is oaying what? All of the credit cards are in my name but he charged on them also. I don't want to ruin my credit!! Is there an attorney out there who can answer this??

2006-11-29 02:44:59 · 10 answers · asked by dallasboy 1

2006-11-29 02:44:55 · 13 answers · asked by Just another guy 1

this might sound a little crazy... i dunno? anyways, my husband and i have been married a yr and 1/2... we have a 9mo son together... he was in iraq for 12 months of our marriage... i guess he thinks our relationship is fine b/c he doesn't think we have any problems... i know we do b/c i can feel the heartache and pain he's causing me... i don't even want to have sex with him anymore... i don't want to kiss him... i don't even want him touching me... he's selfish when it comes to sex... and he doesn't put in any effort to learn how to please me... he doens't know how to control his temper (he's not physically violent.. just verbally)... and here latley, he's been lying to me about silly stuff... makes me wonder what other things he's lied to me about? he masterbates EVERY morning regardless if i give him sex or not... and he does it in the living room on the couch... to these stupid mtv and vh1 videos... can we say, CHILDISH???? omg... i'm sick and tired of this... what should i do?

2006-11-29 02:39:51 · 21 answers · asked by brandiamour 2

A couple of wks ago he was on vac.for 15 dys straight and I wanted him so bad I mean it was our chance to have a normal life while he was off and I kept on telling him I want you he deer hunted all day then by the time he came home he was out and I was mas so out of the 15 days only 3 of them were nights I had with him. Then I told him today that I am going to buy something sexy to wear for him for christmas and he said he didnt want me to because he would just rip it off anyway and hes not going to waste the money on something like that. I dont get it I am trying to spice things up a bit and he doesnt sound interested. He seems to like these things on other women so I thought I would give him something to enjoy but obviously he doesnt want to see it on me he doesnt even act intersted in me like he use to as far as in the bedroom goes. Maybe I should let him get a hooker or something heck she might have crabs but at least he would enjoy it I am free ONLY to him.Whats going on?

2006-11-29 02:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3

1. Do you think she will bounce back from this relationship with Kid Rock?
2. Do you think she will go back to her ex?
3. How do you feel abut her 4 mouths of marrige?

2006-11-29 02:31:42 · 16 answers · asked by thinkpink4u101 2