divorced fathers right with child?

Question

can my boyfriends exwife stop their child from being around me

Answer 1

She can only say that she doesn't want the kid around you but she really can't stop it unless you are a danger to the kid then she could put a restraining order on you...It's normal for an xwife not to want her kids around the new woman b/c she doesn't know her...Don't take it personal! Mothers know that another woman can't take the place of them. But She doesn't want confusion if the kid is young. There will come a time when my kids will have to meet their father's woman but when the kids get older, they will know the difference... Plus some women out there are crazy and try to hurt their boyfriend's or xboyfriend's kids just to get back at him so we tend to be careful about that...

Answer 2

not with out a court order..and even in a court of law she better have substantial proof that the kids are at harm being around u..

Your boyfriend has just as much right at their mother , he is the childs father and has just as much say over the child as she does.. , as long as your boyfriend is fine with u being around the children then thats all the permission u need, unless she can prove any harm being done..

Thats like saying she cant take his child to her best friends house cause he doesnt like her and only based on that fact.. a judge would laugh at him in court.. She cant refuse his visitations by any means with out Just Cause and a court order..

If its his weekend with the child and say he has to go run an errand for a hour or two and asks you to watch the child for him while he's gone.. She cant do anything about it, during that weekend he is the responsible Parent.. and he can pick and choose whomever he pleases to watch the child, just like she can as well ..

She's being spiteful.. NOW on ur end.. please be well aware if this is a new seperation, divorce, realize that the child is going to have problems seeing their dad with another woman, and u should respect that, try to keep PDA down to a minimum untill the child gets to know u.. as its very hard on a child to see their parent with someone other then mommy.. so id hope u would both handle this relationship like grown adults whose main concern is whats best for the child.. other then that.. She cant do a damn thing with out a court order, just like he cant do a damn thing about who she has at her house with out a court order..

Answer 3

Well, she can't really stop it but she can make life miserable for the father, you and the child. You might until things cool down, stay away from boyfriend when the child is around. The child should not have to pay for the adults insensitivity.

Answer 4

Yes. Legally she can. She can because it is her child. She has the right to say who can and cannot be around her child, even if the father objects it isnt his decision b/c the woman is the primary care giver. She probably just doesnt want her child 2 mistake u 4 mommy instead of her. She is a mother she is gonna be territorial, she feels like that is what she can control about it so let her at least have that. You have her ex man and his love, let her @ least keep her child to herself

Answer 5

If the father has visitation then he can do whatever he wants with his child EXCEPT put that child in danger. The ex has no say.
Here is something for you to think on...my ex has used ME as an excuse to not introduce our child to women he's dated, saying I will not allow it. That is not true, and not even legal for me to do so!! But, I don't mind because he just doesn't know how to say he wants to wait. We both agreed to wait at MINIMUM 6 months to introduce someone we are dating. That's more for him...I won't introduce a guy until I am sure he will be in my life permanently.
Just thought I'd give you something else to think about!! It could very well be that his ex is trying to control him and is a total b%&#ch, OR he could be using it as an excuse...
Good luck!

Answer 6

If he has visitation rights granted by the court, she can't prevent the child from being around you. If she prevents the child from seeing him because you are around, then she is in violation of the court order for visitation. In these circumstances, she would have to get a specific order keeping you away from the child, which he would then have to obey during his visitation. It would require some extreme case though for her to be able to get a restraining order against you, such as endangerment or the like.

Answer 7

Not unless you do something extreme that she can prove in court. But she will most likely make your, his and the kids life hell. Been there and the thing is the were divorced for over 10 years before I stepped in the picture.

Answer 8

If your boyfriend has visitation/custody---NO the ex is just being a b****! And if things are serious between the two of you, the ex might as well get use to it. I bet the ex has her man friend around the child!!!

Answer 9

Not during his court order visitation time. Unless you pose a threat to the child and she goes before a judge to request supervised visitation.

If there is no court order for visitation, she can do how ever she pleases.

Answer 10

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