Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2006

Is it normal for 30 yrs old guy to be afraid of his coworkers to think that he is a good husband (whipped), and instead go around talking how he would f** some particular bystander girls, how his wife has no saying in what is he doing in his friends-get-together and swearing and call names his wife if she forgot to add salad in his sandwich.

2006-11-29 13:05:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in HI right now and on his ship.. is coming back a few days after his son is born in WA.. can he sign from over there and is it ok if its a few days later... or how does that work

2006-11-29 13:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by miss_nevin 1

I am devastated.do not know what to do?

2006-11-29 12:59:37 · 45 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

If so anyone have suggestions on how

2006-11-29 12:55:14 · 16 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

2006-11-29 12:51:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 12:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by rufthumbs 1

2006-11-29 12:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by rufthumbs 1

2006-11-29 12:44:34 · 12 answers · asked by gjfdgoperjgoljerojgoirejj 1

I've been married to my husband since May of this year. We have been together for about 4 1/2 years. We are both 21 and have 2 kids together. I love him dearly and do everything in my power to make things work. But I recently found out he was lying to me about smoking and taking lortab. He isn't working and is relying on me to make income even though I'm a stay at home mom. (I buy and sell horses on the side). I believe he is still lieing to me because he refuses a drug test.
What should I do? I really want what is best for my children.
And I also found out that he hasn't been depositing my checks fully, he has been keeping some of it.

2006-11-29 12:39:15 · 13 answers · asked by Chantel H 2

Have a new girl and had just given birth to a baby boy, am hundred miles away from home. Experiencing difficulty in where I am and the place and lots of stuff here reminds me of my ex. I am tempted to mail her just like the old times when something is not going on right, we used to talk and console each other , is it okay? is it fair?

2006-11-29 12:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

right i started going out with my bf in november last year, and in may we broke up for 2months im not really sure now but it seemed stupid. anyway we got bk together but he had slept with anoth girl in between. i asked him not to speak to her anymore but it was hard coz she was at his work. but now she lives in bath...an he still makes the effort to speak to her even tho he knows it super hurts me, but its like he digs his heels in coz he feel like im making him not speak to her coz he still likes her as a friend. but i found message on myspace and they had been talking flirty n said they missed each other and were talkin bout me. we nearly split up and he promised to delete his myspace and get one together. its only a stupid site but its his way of contact to her and for a month he still hasnt deleted it ive hinted but i dont know what else to do coz we have sorted all are problems out now and i dont want to cause another argument, how do i make him delete it without being weird?

2006-11-29 12:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What makes a marriage is a commitment, a ceremony in front of God and witnesses, and sacred vows creating a covenant. A ceremony is important. It declares to the world that "you take this man/woman to be your lawfully wedding wife/husband." The ceremony demonstrates to the world your commitment to that person. This is a true "common law" marriage. This is the way marriage should be, but without the license. You shouldn't have to pay Uncle Sam to be married!

2006-11-29 12:23:26 · 11 answers · asked by Heatmizer 5

My divorce has been finalized this year. I filed for divorce because he cheated on me. We have one child. He cost me $$$ with attorney fees and stress. My parents don't trust him. I don't know if I can trust him again.

Recently he emailed me to see if I was interested going to his work's Christmas party because he doesn't want to go by himself.

What is your opinion?

2006-11-29 12:19:37 · 15 answers · asked by Cathy 2

The divorce would be final this month, but they got married in August in Peru before the final judgement was ordered. Would their marriage in Peru be considered official or invalid?

2006-11-29 12:19:03 · 8 answers · asked by AnswerWhore 2

Do you like being married? What is it like compared to single lonely life? How do you feel about marriage?

2006-11-29 12:14:54 · 22 answers · asked by dreamz 4

she had an affair with someone at work for 6 months until I caught them in-fraganti

2006-11-29 12:12:40 · 30 answers · asked by denonvillier 1

"Listen, 97% of marrages end in divorce...so buying a used ring is like buying your teenager a used car. You know that damn thing's just gonna end up around a telephone pole"
This was said on a Fox sitcom: Happy Hour. When i heard it i personally thought it was hilarious. But my female friend was very offeneded by it, she said that it was an insult to the institution of marriage, and that buying a used ring was an insult to personal marraige. Is she taking this to hard, or am i just blind?

2006-11-29 12:12:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband can't get me pregnant and we aren't made of money so we found someone else to do the deed with me so we could have children. We now have 2 beautiful girls and I'm expecting a boy in March. Since he and I both made the choice to have children this way, why does everyone think I'm a cheater or that we don't love each other and respect each other? It's only sex people, nobody expects you to make the same choice. I was happy to sleep with someone else to give my husband children, is that so bad?

2006-11-29 12:09:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 12:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by neutral 2

Here's watz up. Scooping thru the cell phone bill, don't even ask where's the trust. It's there ,but sometime one get the need to confirm that the other is still playing fair. No one wants to be played the fool. Anyway I notice a call made at 1:04am 3:00mins duration. So I called, and a woman answer she claim to not know who he was. So when he got home I ask him who number that on the bill at 1:04am he had no idea. O:k long short his version I girl at a party he went to gave him her number. And he only called her to let her know he was married. and the call was made at the party.Would u believe?

2006-11-29 12:03:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

His wife thinks he is an angel and he and i have had sex more than once and even our 20 year old daughter knows . Should i tell her ? She was responsible for our marriage breaking up. I hate her guts and but i don't want him back .

2006-11-29 12:02:16 · 43 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7

2006-11-29 11:53:09 · 8 answers · asked by hiletsparty69 1

I'm going through a divorce say I speak, I let my soon to be exwife, do,say,have and anything else you can think of.I was told that I SPOILED her, If I had to do it over I would not have treated her like a queen.I'm the type of person that it's hard for me too tell someone I'm close to NO...My Question is what would you have done differant in your marriage to make it better?

2006-11-29 11:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by cra r 1

Hi all I have a question becuz I am confused?
I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years & yes we have had our ups & downs. My first problem is her friends, they have been a bad influence on her & she has admitted that that they have in some way. Also durin a stint of us bein mad @ each other she went out w/ nother man which mad me furious, now my trust has fallin with her & i found out some things with her and this guy that i didnt like...ie she send him a sexy e-card. With this bein upset i went off on her and us cryin ensued but I then jus stop speaking 2her altogether(this all happened w/in 3 weeks) she later shows up 2my house 2talk because i was ignoring her....i told her i didnt want 2 be back in this relationship becuzt has 2 hange &i dont think shes ready 2 change fully...i know she cares about me but i dont kno if shes ready.... in order 4 it 2 work she has 2 get rid of her bad influential friends and cut communication w/ his guy who she works with

2006-11-29 11:46:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did that make you feel? Did you feel bad?

2006-11-29 11:42:22 · 13 answers · asked by lab_monkey5 1

So, I have a child with the woman...aka satan. we own a home together. we get engaged. all within less than 2 yrs. First mistake. I fight for custody, she refuses and gets sole. I have an order of protection on her. She takes our child and moves t oa different city. When I see her she either says she will call the cops on me for trespassing when I try to see my daughter, she isnt home at all, or she is all nice and says she still loves me. Meanwhile, she still drives by everyday, is on her 3rd man in 6 months, has him call me from her phone in the middle of the night to talk trash when he is 10 years older than I am mind you. She send s me emails from accounts she makes up under my name and writes them in my perspective. How and when do women get over things? I never cheated, was completely faithful and loyal. Helped get her off drugs and out of debt, and now she is suing me for the house too. Always jealous and untrusting. I couldnt even hug a female cousin.

2006-11-29 11:42:13 · 19 answers · asked by James C 2

I have always wanted to live in NJ near my family and work as a HS Biology teacher. In fact, while I was in the service I worked in a Master's in Education. I got a teaching job offer but turned it down to earn a higher income. I have been doing my current job for more than a year but I am still willing to give up the pay to do what I want and teach.

The problem, my wife loves our home, our town, and our lifestyle. I would give it up to live a more modest lifestyle and live near family. My wife has no significant family that she cares to live near.

She drives a Volvo, lives in a $400,000 house, and has a ski condo all supported by an inheritance from her mom and my higher salary. She is a secretary makes half the income I do. She doesn't want to give up some luxuries and move into a small house in my hometown.

Am I being selfish for cutting my salary in half and asking my family to live a more modest life so that I can do the job I have always wanted to and live nea

2006-11-29 11:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by Robbie D 1

Its been 9 months now since my ex cruelly left me and my kids for someone else- totally over it and getting on with life, having usual arguments that crop up with exes but something came to my attn the other day. His Fiancee turned round to a mutual friend of ours and said..."i can understand she hates me i am with her guy"- now its been 9 months- he left me for her, am i the only one who finds it odd that she called him my guy?? what do you think and why please. Really confused.

2006-11-29 11:34:40 · 12 answers · asked by sugar 2

If filing for divorce and want a Private eye or an attorney to retrieve deleted emails could they?

2006-11-29 11:33:48 · 6 answers · asked by staydee 2

Anyone Know?

2006-11-29 11:13:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous