Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2006

i just don't get it. i know a guy who's so hot and all the women are after him and he's alone. he's been divroced and has a child but the little girl doesn't live with him.

why do you think he's been single all these years

thanx

2006-11-29 17:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Almost a yr ago I left my husband because I had feelings for another man. That relationship was short lived although I still find myself thinking about him constantly. My marriage was difficult alot of the time and although I feel that my husband has changed i am not sure whether i given the opportunity, i wouldnt stray again.
We also have 3 small children, which of course is important. Either way , my husband and I will always be close, but I 'm just not sure because 'forever' is such a long time and I feel its such an unfair promise to make to someone.....Help....I'm stuck

2006-11-29 17:09:32 · 26 answers · asked by Christine B 1

Should I let her win at checkers once in awhile, without being too obvious?

2006-11-29 17:06:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

been married 12 years, together 19. he lies, blows me off and won't even hug me anymore. He just walked out on our conversation and went to bed. I'm so depressed. what do i do?

2006-11-29 16:55:35 · 23 answers · asked by mati 3

2006-11-29 16:54:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is truly evil, she threatened to slap me on our wedding day, she cut our cake and served our food before we even got there! We left the wedding reception after 30minutes, she smashed my centerpieces and tore my bouquet apart and threw them in front of my front door! She has my husband wrapped around her finger, and acts like we can't make it w/out her in our lives. I am at a loss, because both of our families dislike each other, but his mother is 10x's worse. How do we make our marriage survive? I know i can't say well she can't be apart of our lives at all, because i tried that, and we both need our families in our lives. But how do I get her to back off? Simply talking to her doesn't cut it. HELP!!!! She lies, makes up stories, name calling you name it. HELP!!

2006-11-29 16:47:22 · 20 answers · asked by justadream 2

My Dad and my Step Mom have been together for about 8 years. My Step Mom has always been pretty inside and out, but she has been loosing weight and my friends have been noticing her, and I guess I have been noticing her a little more too. She isn't that much older than we are, and with her improving appearance I really think she is attractive. My Dad doesn't really pay attention to her and I think he's an *** for not noticing the changes in her, but I guess my question is, how do I handle my friends lookin at her and more importantly how do I handle my growing attraction to her? It is getting a little uncomfortable cause I don't want her to know, cause I think it would cause issues between us. HELP!

2006-11-29 16:44:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I held you close to me every night, even though we may be apart. If I stared into your eyes until I broke down and cried. If I told you and showed you that you are my everything. If I love your children like I love my own. If I kiss you instead of being mad. If I made love to you without having sex, If we took long showers together as I washed your hair. If I wiped away your tears and held you until you felt better. If I made it home before you, cleaned the house, and made dinner. If I told you how beautiful you are even in the defining moments of the early morning. If I teased you about something we both thought was funny yet you acted like it got you bent. If I knew God created me for you. If I could smell you even though we are hundreds of miles apart. If I sent you voice mails with me singing along to love songs. If every time you walked by a garden of roses, they bloomed. If all our pain and heartache went away when we were together, would you marry me?

2006-11-29 16:43:15 · 23 answers · asked by hookiejr 2

2006-11-29 16:42:53 · 21 answers · asked by teresa w 1

Do you find that many, not all, parents are dearly, yet simply, raising their child, yet are not focusing on the fact that they are also raising a future adult. Raising their child with the thought that they are raising someone's elses (in the future), lover, spouse, co-worker, room-mate, neighbor, in-law etc. Raising a future adult who is relatinship savy, financially savy, intimate (tender hearted) savy . . . etc. Have faith, yet concern of this awareness.

2006-11-29 16:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by onelight 5

i have posted other questions which i have received answers for but now its serious i made some serious mistakes and now i have lost my wife and kids she went to florida where her parents live and i am in ny. i know i have made mistakes but i am willing to go the distance and pay someone to really help me out to get her back. i will try marriage counseling when she gets back to ny. i have even started seeing a regular counselor now. i just dont want to spend christmas alone and i want to prove that i truly am sorry for the mistakes i have made. when we talk she sometimes says she wants to work this out and she even says she loves me then other times she is so mean and says she doesnt. like i said if anyone can provide me with real help i am willing to pay you. my email is draconixtechnology@yahoo.com or aim s/n is rwb9900

2006-11-29 16:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan B 2

2006-11-29 16:37:47 · 10 answers · asked by William T 1

My wife cheated on me, we had been marrien for 10 yrs, I found out 2 wks ago I am so depressed, we have 2 kids, we both are in our 30's, I gave her everything she needed, she was (at least that is what I knew) so happy with me, our sex life was incredible, I thought we were the ferfectcouple, and I am right now in a unbearable pain, cannot describe how dissapointed I am, I want to stop loving her, heal and move on but it is harder that I thought, please HELP!!!!

2006-11-29 16:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 16:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by JACK V 1

I have been bisexual since i was 12 years old....my husband and i have been married for two years and i still havent been able to tell him. I am not sure how he would react....i want him to be open to trying new things when i tell him but how do i do it....please help

2006-11-29 16:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by Mama Meg 1

Sometimes at work, crippled people ask me for help to get around. I have no medical training. I dont know what to do. I dont want to hurt them physically by giving them bad help. How do i tell them they just have to wait longer than everyone else because i have to go find the guy who knows what hes doing without pissing them off???

2006-11-29 16:31:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm from Honolulu and I have friends/family there too. I went to college in the mainland, and that's where I met my wife.

My wife is pretty social, smart, and easy to get along with, a big part of why I married her. But I'm wondering, if she doesn't have any pre-existing friends/family in Hawaii, will she still be okay moving there?

She's a pediatrician, so she's already planning to work for one of Hawaii's main hospital clinics. I don't think my wife will have much trouble making friends/social connections in Hawaii. What I'm wondering more is, will she be fine here, even though her family reside in Northern California?

2006-11-29 16:29:56 · 3 answers · asked by humstu 1

2006-11-29 16:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by Pepper 1

OK! I know I posted this before but I still need advice. My hubby was my first but he's been with 4 other women before. I can't bear the thought of him sharing the deepest most personal part of him with someone else, even though it happened a long time ago. Is it normal to feel this way? Why do I feel so angry and jealous?? Is anyone else here obssesed with spouse's past sex life?

2006-11-29 16:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by Vixen 1

Marriage seemed great and loving. No preliminary signs. Just
came outta the blue. Husband was older.

2006-11-29 16:21:11 · 26 answers · asked by Jeepster 1

2006-11-29 16:06:53 · 5 answers · asked by alien police 1

recently my wife left me to move down with her parents this was over a month ago. its pretty much my fault i have been a complete a*shole at times. my point is i talk to her often on the phone and online and sometimes she says she wants to work it out other times she says she doesnt i am confused. i want this to work so bad i just dont know what to say or do. i know i have made alot of mistakes any suggestions on what to say or do to help us get back together. please help

2006-11-29 16:06:03 · 23 answers · asked by Ryan B 2

Here is the deal. My lady redecorated my master bedroom. Man there is nothing that indicates a man also sleeps in that room. I mean it is all feminine! Comfortable, but feminine.

Share your experience with this. How did you feel? Did you argue about this?

2006-11-29 16:03:33 · 15 answers · asked by Belize69 2

my boyfriend is married and his not with her becuz she left him and how would i know that he doesnt want her back and besides how do you deal with your other half being married while you r pregant for him he buys you stuff care for you what do you do when she wants to come back to him

2006-11-29 15:58:47 · 23 answers · asked by native 1

Always been a career woman , completely dedicated to work ,now married and living in an extended family .Husband does not approve of my traveling to places for work(which ofcourse I found out after marriage) and no one at home cares or wants me to work.
Take a good look at my evaluation this year...............
these were the issues discussed:

1.your not travelling is going to be difficult. as a designer you need to explore outside the country and go for site supervisions to other countries..Your husband needs to be more flexible with this since you have such a good educational background.

2 your taking off from work each time you have a project deadline and not sticking to the deadline worries me about your commitment to deadlines. Can u not take work home like X and Y do?
3. When i first interviewed you i thought you were a career woman and wanted to work towards developing your career but i am afraid i am not seeing that. you seem to be prioritizing home more than work

2006-11-29 15:55:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

to keephim from coming in the house anytime he wants.? i told him i want the keys back but he wouldnt give them back,saying its my house too,but hes left on his own and m tired of his lies and broken promises and i jst cant trust himwith anything i dont want him to take my son,he stopped in today he still had not changed clthes in the last three days"this is a first in the fiteen years" its odd to me

2006-11-29 15:51:31 · 14 answers · asked by resigned 5

2006-11-29 15:51:14 · 8 answers · asked by X Anonymous 1

I am currently getting my masters in counseling, and in the future I want to work as a marriage/couples therapist. I'll graduate in about 2 years.

I also work as a cocktail waitress at a nice restaurant...sometimes customers ask me about myself, and a lot of times the men laugh when i tell them I want to be a marriage therapist, and say things like "There's no way my wife would let someone like YOU be our therapist, it would make the problem worse! hahah."...I think meaning that since i am an attractive female, married women won't want me to be their counselor. Do you think this is true??? Or is that ridiculous? Men and women, please both respond with what you would think.

Here's a link to a picture of me...be honest with what you think. No big deal, problems, etc. (Obviously I won't be wearing anything low-cut or inappropriate when seeing clients! Keep that in mind).

http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i7/kujayhawk3eb/02_01_8.jpg

2006-11-29 15:50:12 · 33 answers · asked by EllisFan 5

i have a friend who is going through a divorce and the guy she is leaving has a car that is in both of their names but the loan is only in hers and now that she left him he is refusing to pay the payment and she is stuck paying for a car that she doesn't even have and if she doesn't pay for it she will ruin her own credit. is there anything legally she can do to get his name off of the title? or any other solution any of you can come up with

2006-11-29 15:41:28 · 12 answers · asked by bcuda27 2

My ex-financee is a Brit. He is a liar. He played my 9 yr old daughter, telling he she could call him "Daddy". Telling her he loved her, just to get to me. I persume for a green card. I discovered his lies and now my daughter is hurt beyond words, wanting not to believe he is wrong that she still loves him. He is partying right now with 2 other women. I seen his hotel reservations. I am now the bad guy, taking in all my daughters hurt

2006-11-29 15:39:13 · 22 answers · asked by kitty cat 3