Always been a career woman , completely dedicated to work ,now married and living in an extended family .Husband does not approve of my traveling to places for work(which ofcourse I found out after marriage) and no one at home cares or wants me to work.
Take a good look at my evaluation this year...............
these were the issues discussed:
1.your not travelling is going to be difficult. as a designer you need to explore outside the country and go for site supervisions to other countries..Your husband needs to be more flexible with this since you have such a good educational background.
2 your taking off from work each time you have a project deadline and not sticking to the deadline worries me about your commitment to deadlines. Can u not take work home like X and Y do?
3. When i first interviewed you i thought you were a career woman and wanted to work towards developing your career but i am afraid i am not seeing that. you seem to be prioritizing home more than work
2006-11-29 15:55:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow!!! This is a difficult one. Did you ever consider going to see a marriage counselor even if it is alone? I would definately keep my job,for down the line you will resent him and the family. Or since you are very educated what about looking for another that will give you more room and time for your family. Your husband knew what he was getting into and should not try to change your life to meet his needs!
2006-11-29 16:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.....your skill at networking must be terrible....Your goal is about balance. Your drive to excel blinds the goal you set. To be loved by stranger that find you expendable is an oxymoron. Your education has me confused. You ....are you of honor !!! You accepted a relationship. Most can not balance both. The sad part is you do not understand what love is. You understand the need to survive and seek independence but yet you allow a firm to dangle your priorities. NO company on this earth can ever pay you enough !!! You are worth more then money and so is your family. Work smart not ignorant. Work for independence share that with your family. Set a date for the goal. If you come up short....
Remember very few in this world receive love and attention when you grow old.......you will look back and wonder what happened......Live for Love...work for time to be loved.....
2006-11-30 00:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by wonderiswithin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're old and grey, what will be better...
Spending time w/ the man you love and the grandkids that have come your way, or
Re-reading a job review that praises you for taking work home and working even when you were in the hospital?
2006-11-29 23:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CHOSE to get married that comes with certain responsiblities. If you did not WANT those responsiblities then you should NOT have gotten married. The only reason you feel "professionally stiffled" is because YOU did it to YOURSELF. Don't blame your husband because YOU made the wrong choices in your life.
2006-11-30 00:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i say do what makes you happy...we men have been doing it for years..he knew what you did for living..he knew that you traveled..i assume..what changed..a ring on your finger...its a ring not a leash
2006-11-30 00:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by mgibson92804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋