My Dad and my Step Mom have been together for about 8 years. My Step Mom has always been pretty inside and out, but she has been loosing weight and my friends have been noticing her, and I guess I have been noticing her a little more too. She isn't that much older than we are, and with her improving appearance I really think she is attractive. My Dad doesn't really pay attention to her and I think he's an *** for not noticing the changes in her, but I guess my question is, how do I handle my friends lookin at her and more importantly how do I handle my growing attraction to her? It is getting a little uncomfortable cause I don't want her to know, cause I think it would cause issues between us. HELP!
2006-11-29 16:44:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go muff diving....maybe she'll like it
2006-11-29 16:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
You must be proud of her, and that is wonderful! You are a great step-son.
Your growing attention to her, is also because you have become older, since your Dad and her married 8 years ago.
Find a girl fiend, around your age, join your friends, anything to stop thinking of her in that way. Now, you and your friends are at the age.
Remember, if you or your friends try anything, or suggest anything to her......you could lose her love and trust..tell your friends also.
Hands off!! It is my stepmother!!
And that applies to you, even thou it is hard. Just be thankful that you both like each other. You Dad could have married a real mean one, even thou she could be beautiful. I am sure he does, however, they could be the type that
do not display affection in public, or with other people in the house.
I am sure they love each other........
Hopes this helps, I know the way you write, you already know the answer....
Its a no no.
2006-11-29 16:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CA: Do not even, entertain the idea of scoring with your step mom. You will start a nuclear war in the home and your life will be ruined once word gets out and your father beats on you. Leave the sex to your dad and you just back off !!! Your friends can say what they want but for you, it becomes an issue of what you would DO !!!
2006-11-29 16:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First do not under any circumstance TELL YOU STEP MOM about ur feeling for her. You are right it will cause some MAJOR issues between ur and her and between your father and yourself. As for your friends let them look, lol that all their going to be able to do...they can look but they can't touch, As long as they aren't using vulgar language and junk I don't see a problem with it...I mean you can't ask them to be blind to the fact that your step mom is now good lookin...and as for you SNAP out of it man and get a girl you own age, who's not married and your mother....im guessing your probably between 18-20 there are plenty of us girls around ;p good lucks
2006-11-29 16:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by soulfullilangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without mentioning yourself, tell your dad about your friends . Make him aware that other men and boys find her attractive.It might wake him up to the fact that he has a gorgeous wife. If your father starts paying more attention to her then she should be satisfied. This will suppress any urges she may have to dress sexy and flaunt it in front of your friends. Once your father takes more interest in her she should then be more careful not to dress too sexy and flaunt her good looks in front of you as well. If things don't change after that then talk to your father about your feelings toward your step mom. Your father would probably be happy to know that you approve of his choice. He will probably be proud to know that he raised a son who has equally good taste in woman.Then find yourself a girlfriend your age who has as many of the fine qualities that your step mom has.
2006-11-29 16:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by David C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her alone without your dad and let her know how good you think she looks. Do this every chance you get and tell her how she arouses you. There is nothing better than the truth. If anything happens at least you will be keeping it in the family.
2006-11-30 02:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u say nasty even though she isn't your biological mother she has been a mother of sorts for 8 years.... So find some porn and masturbate but stop thinking of your own mama that way gross
2006-11-29 16:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her compliments and see how she responds. If the response is good then just go from there. Your dad's probably cheating on your step mom anyway. Plus, if you get caught just tell your dad, you wanted to keep it in the family. Good luck.
2006-11-29 16:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Keep ur mouth shut and you will get over it---you do not want to sleep with the same woman who is sleeping with you dad, even if she is close to your age, because that is more than likely the reason he wanted her, because he is old and wants someone young to make himself feel young again, but remember, you should not be attracted to family members! That is incest! Not trying to tell you to control who you are attracted to, because we know that is not possible, but please, please, don't act on it! You will be scarred for life if you do!
2006-11-29 16:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You really need to leave your dad's woman alone, I don't care how hot she is! How would you like it if your dad put the moves on your woman? It would hurt your feelings, and you'd be enraged - which is exactly how your dad would feel if you started going for his woman. So, as hot as she is, she's off limits!
Sorry dude!
2006-11-29 16:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! Is she OK to say ok? Find out first, by asking her different questions. Oeherwise, having with relatives is ok in Muslims and Shinto religion.
2014-03-10 04:10:08 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋