Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2006

I am a complete idiot!!

2006-11-29 02:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by blcrshr 1

When we are laying in bed. I try to comfort her...but she won't let me, and she won't tell me what's wrong! What should I do?

2006-11-29 02:26:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm engaged to be married. The deposits paid anmd the date is set for next august. I moved out for a bit as he seems to get really angry and nasty after a drink. this has stopped though and i've moved back in but feel like something has changed, think it will come back to what it was like before but not sure. Things are good but the trhought of him doesn't excite me. is this normal after being with someone for a while or should that gooey exciting feeling last forever??

2006-11-29 02:24:05 · 20 answers · asked by bobog 1

My friend, a psychiatrist, says that kids always forgive the dad even if he beat the mother, gave her an std or killed her. They never forgive the mom for minor trangsgressions and always say that something the mother did made the father do it. Are we just that chauvinistic in society, in the world?

2006-11-29 02:17:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband befriend this girl, the have known each other now for over 2yrs. He said he was upset with me one day, and saw this girl walking and got her #. At that time she was 16 she is now 18
he say he never had intest in this person. They both say they never had sex. Can I believe him. He did however give 2 cards for her birthday, the reason for that is because she brought him one for his b-day. Now at the point the have known each other for over a year. Do you also think if he had feelings for her he would have actually brought her a gift? I do know for a fact that they no longer talk. But I don't know for a fact if my husband was having affair of a fling with this person.

2006-11-29 02:15:11 · 11 answers · asked by confused 1

2006-11-29 02:08:47 · 26 answers · asked by 28March2007 1

2006-11-29 02:08:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

have the same problem other women seem to have. just saw hubby's email and discovered he has been talking and emailing his ex. she tells my husband she misses and loves him. i don't have a problem with him communicating with other women cause he knows a lot of people and i know those women but never knew about his ex. i also managed to "decode" her phone number from his phone book and now i have access to his email p'word which he doesn't know. he doesn't even know that i know about his ex let alone her name, which i doscovered years back befroe we got married from a letter she wrote him but it never bothered me. now i am thinking of calling her and maybe she will tell my husband which he won't believe. hopefully she will llook like a liar and hubby will lose interest in talking to her. what should i do, cause i don't want to confront him with this as he has denied stuff before.

2006-11-29 02:03:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are in love, and planning to get married.. hes the type of guy that has ALWAYS gotten the attention he wants-never been rejected, always been wanted by every girl, etc, bu hes not a SNOB at all.. hes very well centered and modest ... he still gets that attention and DAILY recieving comments on his gorgeous looks and how he looks like a celebrity (its kind of pathetic sometimes), and i try not to tell him that much because he KNOWS hes hot and another person telling him is like whatever... but how will these positive comments affect his ego? will he wake up one day and want to take advantage of those comments? or will he be very secure- maybe overly? how do i react against all these flattering comments he recieves.. protective, happy, what?

2006-11-29 02:02:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I adjust my attitude with a woman like this? OK so I have been married for 13 years now. 2 kids. It was not so good, I am a sexual person and she is or was too. Sex occurred about once a month and we were drifting apart until this summer and for 2 months it was great. We held hands, slept in the same bed, sex at least 3 times a week it was just great, the way I always wanted it to be. Well that is over now. We still hold hands and stuff like that which is still a big improvement over the way it was but the sex is gone back to the way it was. When I bring up the subject she gets defensive or mad at me like it’s my fault sometimes. At night I get the “I am so tired” and in the morning it’s “oh I have to get up soon”. So in return I get grumpy and feel like there is something wrong with me. I don’t think she is cheating due to her schedule, just no time unless there are a bunch of quickies, but I get an attitude and then she gets one and even though I try to tell her what my problem is, it seems she doesn’t listen or believe me. She doesn’t even take hints. Is there anyone out here that has gone thru the same thing woman or man that could help me out with this? I am not looking to cheat on her but the fact is I need sex at least 3 or 4 times a week weather or not she is involved, if you know what I mean. I would much rather have her involved believe me

2006-11-29 02:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Andy S 3

I am a happily married woman with a not so clean past. Thought I have always been faithful to my husband I did some stuff before we got to together that i'm not really proud of. Well to make a long story short..... My past is comming back to bite me in the ***. I bumped into an ex while Christams Shopping last weekend, Now he won't go away. He is stuck on revenge. He wants to ruin my marriage just like I ruined his. He has showed up at my job twice this week. He has contacted my sister about where my husband works. How can I get rid of him without letting my husband know all the details. HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 01:58:48 · 18 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4

2006-11-29 01:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by kiss 1

My soon to be ex husband was telling people that he moved out because I was a bad mother. When I told him, "OK, fine, you can have the kids and I will see them on every other weekend" he says that he didn't mean that. He is now angry with me because I have told the same people that the real reason that he moved was to be with another woman, who he invited to his birthday party (of course I didn't attend and neither did the kids). He is now angry because I exposed his deeds and he has lostythe respect of some of his friends. I say, can't pay, don't play. He apparently had no respect for me when he invited his "woman" to party that included mutual friends. He says that no one would have known that she was other than a friend if I hadn't said something. Am I missing something here?

2006-11-29 01:56:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is 19 and i am 17 and we want to be together during the pregnancy and when i have the baby. who do we need to call and get in touch with in order to get married?

2006-11-29 01:56:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 01:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Taiwo A 1

My boyfriend of 2 years is a very very nice guy. Hes also VERY handsome and very wealthy (if that matters somehow). Im a very relaxed girl, but constantly there are girls trying to get him, flirting with him in front of me (including some friends), making up rumors that were going to break up, telling him bad stuff about me, etc....
its getting really annoying..... how do i deal.. i dont want to be all jealous and possesive but i feel if i lay back, something might go wrong..

2006-11-29 01:49:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband but sometimes I want to have sex with him and sometimes I don't. It's like when I come home from work I want to have sex with him but then he does something that bothers me and it slowly dims...The sad part about it is that what he does is so small that it shouldn't have a part in whether we're going to have sex or not. Its like he almost aggravates me to the point where I don't want him to touch me...Is there something wrong with me? Or am I just be selfish with husband?

2006-11-29 01:48:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW, & MY MOTHER N LAW TRUE COLOR HAVE BEEN SHOWING, SHE DON'T LIKE THE FACT HERE SON IS MARRIED.(WELL SHE GOT TO SON'S AND SHE DON'T LIKE ME OR THE OTHER GIRL) SHE HAS TO BE AROUND MY HUSBAND ALL THE TIME SHE TELL HIM CRAP(LIES) LIKE I'M CHEATING ON HIM I DON'T DO THINGS LIKE THAT. I BELIEVE SHE IS TRYING TO HOOK HIM UP WITH THIS GIRL; MY MOTHER N LAW IS EVIL ( THIS IS THE WORST PART WE LIVE WITH HER COS WE CAN'T GET OUR OWN PLACE YET) BUT I WANT TO LEAVE THAT'S THE ONLY WAY OUR MARRIAGE WILL WORK. OK ME & MY HUSBAND ARE ONLY 20 &21YRS OLD I KNOW TO YOUNG BUT SOMETIMES IT DO WORK...... WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET BACK AT MY MOTHER N LAW, SO SHE CAN LEAVE MY MARRIAGE ALONE SO IT WILL WORK

2006-11-29 01:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by Latashia S 2

Just curious about this.

2006-11-29 01:44:40 · 22 answers · asked by unionjack07 2

We have a little girl together so we have to see each other regularly. She doesn't even like me, but I'm still in love with her for over 3 years now. How do I fall out of love with my daughter's mother without dating, forinicating, or having other women in my life.

2006-11-29 01:41:35 · 17 answers · asked by babydaddy 1

I'm in a relationship with the man that I love and he loves me and he has been separated from his wife for two years and hasn't gotten a divorce and he has three children with this women, they talk on the phone three or four times a day, and also he's very attached to the jewelry she's given to him in the past and he won't take it off what should I do? I’m feeling very insecure about this and should I be?

2006-11-29 01:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by Wendy 2

Women or men....how would you feel if your ex started dating someone else when there is a child involved and there is nothing but an amicable relationship between the two b/c of your child? Im involved with a man that has a child and he wont tell his ex or the child about me b/c he does not want this to ruin the good relationship he has w/the mother with regards to the way they deal with their kid. I know he doesnt feel anything for her but he admires her as a mother. I understand and support him in his decision but how long is enough and what would you want the person ur ex is seriously involved with to do to make you feel more comfortable about who your child is with? I know that as long as the child is not in danger and both parents have custody there is not much one parent or the other can do to prevent them from being w/the person they care about but as an added bonus would you want to meet the person ur ex is with to see what they are like? I know...a lot of questions. thanks!!

2006-11-29 01:29:35 · 17 answers · asked by mandysmith789 1

It seems like alot of questions in the divorce section revolve around women marring a divorced man and thinking that his ex is now the enemy? Why if you were married and had children with a person would you hate them so much now, I can see in some instances of abuse or whatnot why they diserve that but alot of people get divorced over things that wouldn't make them your enemy.

2006-11-29 01:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by haileybeth79 3

2006-11-29 01:26:40 · 19 answers · asked by vincent n 1

2006-11-29 01:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by alper m 1

I've been reading on here alot about lying to each other or spouses or hurting your so called best friend, cheating on each other , sleeping with whom ever being a groupie sleeping with someone best friend etc...people morals seem to have changed alot in years. Is it really all about you the person and to heck with others and whats good for just that person best interest. I feel like im in a time warp zone i feel like I'm not from this era. am i really that behind in thinking . its seems more people on here think opposite of me. Am I too up tight , cause im shocked by alot of things I read on here. I feel like i've been hiding under a rock

2006-11-29 01:23:49 · 18 answers · asked by For ever in my Heart 7

We have been married for about 5 years now. The past 3 years, it has been me going to him for sex, but I have stopped going to him. I want him to come to me, to want me. He rarely hugs or kisses me, and when he does kiss me, it is a little peck on the lips. I am a blunt person, I tell it like it is, so he knows my feelings about his lack of affection towards me. He has said for the last 2 years that he will do better and I have yet to be approached or desired. I gained weight, a lot of weight, but have been working out and lost 4 sizes so far (I am a 14 now). Anyway, I just want to know what I should do. I brought up counseling several times, but have had no results from him about going. I am seriously considering finding a man on the side for my needs of affection. What do you think I should do?

2006-11-29 01:14:13 · 29 answers · asked by mystic_red_06 1

i have met a girl who i am really fond of but due to abuse as a child im finding it hard to give all of myself too her and find it hard even to cuddle and kiss what should i do no counceling though it is too hard to talk about

2006-11-29 01:11:56 · 15 answers · asked by Ricky S 2

DOB 12.08.1975
Place- Ranchi, Jharkhand, India
Male

2006-11-29 01:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by bhoomivikas 1

I dont know why. We now have a nice house that they would look so pretty on. He just refuses. So, is this grounds for an argument or just let it go and be happy?

2006-11-29 01:10:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous