we are in love, and planning to get married.. hes the type of guy that has ALWAYS gotten the attention he wants-never been rejected, always been wanted by every girl, etc, bu hes not a SNOB at all.. hes very well centered and modest ... he still gets that attention and DAILY recieving comments on his gorgeous looks and how he looks like a celebrity (its kind of pathetic sometimes), and i try not to tell him that much because he KNOWS hes hot and another person telling him is like whatever... but how will these positive comments affect his ego? will he wake up one day and want to take advantage of those comments? or will he be very secure- maybe overly? how do i react against all these flattering comments he recieves.. protective, happy, what?
2006-11-29 02:02:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs to hear what are telling him from you in private moments.
You are competing against the daily barage of compliments from others. Also you need to be more secure in your love for him and his love for you if you are planning on getting married.
2006-11-29 02:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister and nephew were so good looking that everywhere we went it was amazing the attention they would get ! The gals at the checkout would fight for my nephews cart to go thru there ilse and my sis would get asked out at least 3 times just in the store.I grew up with seeing all this.They are not concieted and it doesnt go to there ego .They have had this since birth and so its the oppisite of what u think.So u will need to get use to your dude getting attn,Just smile and be glad you have em cause he likes u.So this wont stop esp.in the men that are goodlooking!
2006-11-29 02:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and have been for 8 years and I still get those coments. but I do nao react to them and that makes my husband feel better. he knows I am with him only. try that believe that and watch how he reacts to those comments. If he does start to react to the comments than he is not worth keeping there are other fish in the sea.
2006-11-29 02:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. If you love him, then you have to at least give it a shot. Really, no matter how hot or ugly anyone is, they can still get big headed and arogant or cheat and stuff like that. If he has never given you a reason not to trust him, then don't worry about it.
2006-11-29 02:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by hope_a_long52886 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be extremely cautious and discrete, till the time you are able to fully judge him. In these sort of situations, it is very difficult to predict the future accurately. For that matter, not only in these kind of situations, but in all situations, it is NEVER possible to predict the future. Even you or I, cannot predict our own behaviors a few years from now, unless we accept the Lord genuinely in our lives, and make equally genuine "spiritual" commitments, in the name of our Lord.
2006-11-29 02:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is to not think about his ego, but yours...
Go ahead and be happy for him, but he wants his girl to be secure with herself. Joke with him and tease him about it. This tells him that you aren't bothered or threatened and even makes light of the situation, and he'll sense you are secure and strong.
2006-11-29 02:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by untitled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone says your man is hot, and they say it right in front of you, Just wrap your arm around him and say with a smile "Yes, that's why I MARRIED HIM." and kiss him gently on the lips, and tell him you love him.
He'll know that you are proud to have such a yummy man and you love him dearly!
2006-11-29 02:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife tells me the same things your thinking--she is convinced that all these women are checking me out -I don't really notice it.I love my wife and she is the one I try to look good for-I 'm sure he won't just wake up one morning and think"why not"remember he has a choice and he chose you!!
2006-11-29 02:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy that he gets them. You may want to talk to him. Maybe--just maybe he's very in love with you and eventhough he gets all these comments--his heart is truly with you.
2006-11-29 02:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take them as a compliment...he's your man so be proud as you walk away with him. You say he is grounded and modest, in that case I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2006-11-29 02:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋