Some mother N law's should burn I know mine should?

Question

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW, & MY MOTHER N LAW TRUE COLOR HAVE BEEN SHOWING, SHE DON'T LIKE THE FACT HERE SON IS MARRIED.(WELL SHE GOT TO SON'S AND SHE DON'T LIKE ME OR THE OTHER GIRL) SHE HAS TO BE AROUND MY HUSBAND ALL THE TIME SHE TELL HIM CRAP(LIES) LIKE I'M CHEATING ON HIM I DON'T DO THINGS LIKE THAT. I BELIEVE SHE IS TRYING TO HOOK HIM UP WITH THIS GIRL; MY MOTHER N LAW IS EVIL ( THIS IS THE WORST PART WE LIVE WITH HER COS WE CAN'T GET OUR OWN PLACE YET) BUT I WANT TO LEAVE THAT'S THE ONLY WAY OUR MARRIAGE WILL WORK. OK ME & MY HUSBAND ARE ONLY 20 &21YRS OLD I KNOW TO YOUNG BUT SOMETIMES IT DO WORK...... WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET BACK AT MY MOTHER N LAW, SO SHE CAN LEAVE MY MARRIAGE ALONE SO IT WILL WORK

Answer 1

Uhm sorry to have to tell you this but as long as you are living in here house, she can say and act anyway she wants. You and your husband need to move out asap if you want to keep your sanity. Good luck

Answer 2

First of all, you shouldn't be trying to get back at her. That's immature. If you want your marriage to be respected, you need to act like an adult. Tell your husband he needs to be a man about it and talk to your mother in law. Then you need to get out of her house and have your own life with your husband away from his mother. If your husband trusts that you wouldn't cheat on him, then he should see that his mom is only trying to cause trouble between the two of you. Alot of people get married young and it works out. But maybe you should have waited until you could afford your own place. Get out as soon as you can.

Answer 3

first of all trying to get back at her is a total waste of time. it will only come back to bite u in the end. talk to your husband and make sure none of these lies are sinking in to his heart. then you and your husband get out of her house asap. till then try talking to her VERY CALMLY and confronting her with the things she has been saying let her know that none of these things are true. act like a grown up when u tell her these things. tell her u want the relationship that u two have to be better but if that cant be then u will do your best not to antagonize her and that u are sorry she feels this way. before u have this talk with her, let your husband know what u want to do and get on the same page with him. after that then its all up to your husband to handle anything else she does or says. when u talk with her ask her what u could do to make things better with the situation u are in here. don't expect alot of good results but she will know where u stand and so will your husband. the best thing would be to get a place of your own but remember she will always be his mom no matter what so she is in your life as long as u are married to her son. try your best to maintain good relations with her but stand your ground. good luck.

Answer 4

This will be very hard, but honestly what you need to do is tune out her negativity! Just don't give her any reasons to be any meaner than she already is. Speak to your husband, 'tho, and say that you would appreciate him standing up for you in this situation. As long as you are living in her home, it's best if you all can get along as well as possible. But don't let her treat you badly. If she starts treating you that way now, it could continue indefinitely. Ask her (with your husband there, or not, whichever way you feel more at ease) why she dislikes you so much; tell her you love her son and that it hurts your feelings when she behaves so rudely.

Answer 5

Kill her with kindness!! Be the best wife you can possibly be to your husband. Help her around the house, cook meals, grocery shop.....etc..... Doing things to "get back at her" will only make it worse for you. Don't talk badly about her to your husband either. If she does that, let her. Eventually he will realize that she is the one that is trying to cause trouble.

Obviously, you need to try to get your own place as soon as possible! It is never easy to live with your mother-in-law. You will always be under the microscope, and may never be "good enough", in her eyes, for her son. However, that doesn't matter. He chose you to be his wife. He loves you and wants to be with you. Remember that! The more you allow her to get under your skin, the more control she has over your relationship.

Good luck to you!!

Answer 6

Get help. Getting back at her will only make things worse. You do need to get out of her house. You and your husband need tosuck it up and rent or buy some hole in the wall of your own or you will not make it to your second anniverary. If he doesn't want to leave mommy, then drop his ***...take what is yours and get away from that toxic evironment.

If the little boy connot leave his mommy now...he never will and you will never be able to have a full and healthy relationship..

Forgive me, but this seems like something Doctor Phil would do a show on...give him a call...he'll take care of her, on national TV, if she is as bad as you say...that will get her.

Answer 7

Is your mother-n-law married? If so, start telling your father in law some lies about her to get her back. Tell him that she is cheating.

If she is NOT married, then I see why she is trying to get rid of you, she probably thinks that her sons are her companions and should always be there with her and nobody else. She is jealous that they have fallen in love and gotten married, and left her behind. She's just down right jealous.

Yes, you are young, but oh well..you are already married and you need to make it work.

Get outta there as soon as possible, and fight for your relationship with your hubby.

Even if you have to get a one bedroom trailer, do it, just so you can get outta that beyotch's house!!! SOON!

Good Luck, hun.

Answer 8

Wow, im going to assume you got married because you got pregnant when you were a teenager. If not you are married way to early, and should have stayed engaged until you both passed 23. You are too close to the mother in law. She can't live too far away from you. You need to move or this is over in my opinion.

Answer 9

Woa woa woa.ok so your declaring that your 17 and this guy is twenty one and also you're prego such as his youngster and hes beating on you? in view that your seventeen your nevertheless categorised as a baby so that you've him charged or probable arrested for baby abuse and for sexual acivity with a minor! i understand the way you experience. Its each and every females dream to have a loving family contributors of there personal some day yet this guy isnt so loving. If i the position you i'd deffinetly no longer enable this guy round your youngster as he will probually beat she or he too. you ought to deffinetly get a legal professional for this situation and would charge him for baby abuse and sexualy interest with minors and would charge both the mummy and babys father for harrassment and get finished custody of the toddler.

Answer 10

Don't get back at her because that will give husband ammo and wonder if what she is saying is true. Always try to be better than the people who try to hurt you. Tell him it truly hurts your feelings. I know I have thought about kicking my in-law's *** a few times, but the reality is it won't prove anything to your husband except insecurities. Hang in there and good luck!