Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2006

I'd like to get an unusual surprise gift for my husband for Christmas. He's a golf addict but I'd like to get him something he'll appreciate not necessarily golf related. I'd have to if I'm stuck. We,ve been married for 7 years and we set a budget of £30 for each each other. Ideas please!

2006-11-29 20:23:01 · 13 answers · asked by scallywag 4

2006-11-29 20:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just asking?

2006-11-29 20:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by Nurse Raina 1

2006-11-29 20:02:09 · 28 answers · asked by Distant V 1

2006-11-29 19:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by Nurse Raina 1

I have been up all night checking out my boyfriends phone records. He says he isnt talking to anyone. Well he Has talked to "her" (his ex wife- married for 10 years) since April every month except July. Should I even care? They were married after all- and we arent. Why do I care that he talks to her? And HOW do I stop checking into it? I hate this!! Please help me stop!!??

2006-11-29 19:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by tbaby 3

I've had it, but we have 2 young kids so I am thinking one last time together would be nice. Yes, been to counseling too.

2006-11-29 19:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by Nick 1

My ex g/f finally told me why she broke up with me This is what she send to me in myspace ". u didnt hurt me at all. just our relationship if u really think about it...like common think....it wasnt funcitoning all that great. i mean we had fun hanging out sometimes. just like when there was a problem or something u wanted to talk to me about...we never could talk in person. and i thought it would go away after a while cuz i thought u were just shy..but after a while it just never did...i just didnt like how our relationship was...end of story...i dont have anything else to say about this..im sorry. I am really confused about all this We loved each other and she told me she loves me and wants to break up because of that!!! because we couldn't talk about important things person to person I wasn't really shy I just didn't want to fight with her while we were together so we solved our problem on msn or on myspace.. I really love this girl and I just dont know what to do.. anymore......

2006-11-29 19:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by realsync1 1

2006-11-29 19:33:53 · 14 answers · asked by pramela d 1

my name is caris 28 years old and an english teacher who works in a korean company in my country philippines. for 8 years i had a loving boyfriend he's not so rich and handsome but he loves me truly. but i don't understand why i didn't feel that love for 8 years i just stayed with him for the reason that i need him to survive in life. after then i met one man whom i fell inlove with i broke up with my 8 years boyfriend and choose him. we were happy and i love him, he loves me too coz he choose to stay in my country and work here to be with me each day. he became my manager in a company that i worked for about 4 years. our relationship is not illegal so we choose to keep it from other people except close friends who also works there i let them know. after each day, i always hear so many rumors about him and the other people outside and inside the company. and it began to have so many more problems after that.though there's no proof i had a mistake that i believe those people instead of him because of that i didn't notice that i forgot to care about him i took him for granted by telling those people about his background which is just a make up story. when he got to know about that he feels betrayed from me. then he decided to stop our relationship. i can't accept that so i tried so hard to explain and do him good things each day in the company. but he regect it all. but i didn't give up so i still serve and run over him everday to win him back. but, there's was a time that i decided to sacrifice that job to start my relatioship with him again in legal without those people aroud us who tried to destroy us. i resigned from that company knowing that he will be there for me after. but that thing didn't happen. until now im still trying to win him back but he became so tough and so strong his heart became like a stone so hard/no feelings. i asked God for so many times please give me signs if i should continue this feeling or not anymore coz my heart keeps beating and its only him who i want to be with. last night i saw my 8 years boyfriend suddenly i saw him with a new one whom he wants to marry at that time? i felt so weak i ask God did i made a big mistake of choosing him with my 8 years boyfriend? did i choose a wrong man? before that I ask God if this new man is really for me and you want him for me? please let him stay and work here with me. that's the sign i asked and it did happen but what is this? what's happening now? im infront of my 8 years bf which i knew that i didn't love at all but why am i hurting? and seems like regretting what i did? now that i saw my 8 years bf happy with someone unlike me alone and despair.i tried to talk to my 8 years boyfreind and ask him if he still love me? he said maybe that love will stay there and cannot change anymore but, we have our own life now. For God Sake! suddenly I told my x bf i love you choose to marry me than that girl. and he said what? but i still said, were destiny not that girl. he said give me two weeks to think about that if i still love you after that? i got confused and ask God again what is this? he's already happy with someone why i did that? God please if you're real give a sign again that before that two weeks fix my relationship with my second bf which i really love but if i wouldnt it means i will try to love my 8 years bf again. please ms hallie help me to answer all my questions i fel so heavy, confused and starting to hate life please help me...thanks~

2006-11-29 19:33:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna understand him, with his behaviour. i wanna know everything without asking him. i wanna make him happy the way he wants to be. tell me how can i do this ?

2006-11-29 19:27:11 · 12 answers · asked by achops7 1

just curious, I don't want to ask too much of my partner...

2006-11-29 19:12:18 · 23 answers · asked by neogriff 5

2006-11-29 19:03:42 · 22 answers · asked by mexjay 2

My mom and stepdad have had a rocky 18-year marriage. They are cold and barely talk to one another. Yesterday she discovered he's cheating on her. The catch is, she's American and he's a foreigner, and they live abroad. She loves living there but will have to leave if they split up. At 50 it's not easy for her to just move to the States and be a single mom of four, including 2 dependent teens. She's looking to me for advice...

2006-11-29 18:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by empress83 2

I thought I had this awsome relationship with my landlord even thogh she,s going throgh a horible time with her husband & basiclly life in general, we have become super good friends & she has had drunken problems with her husband.co workers, friends ect, well the rath of her anger finally hit me, & well she was the maenest person in the whole world, to the point where if I do,nt like it I can just move out, now this lady & I have become very close, but last night I,d taken all I could take with her B.S & well I let it be known this morning, & well her response was if I don,t like it I can just move out, that just goes to show me she really never cared.I,m at a lose how one can be so caring, & the booze got the best & crap out of her, horrible things came off her f...in mouth & now I,m a bag of nerves gone bad, what do I do

2006-11-29 18:57:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 18:49:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married since last year and want to have a kid now but my hubby wants after one more year.But I am not happy with this and I have pressure from my family and friends too to have a kid soon.what do I answer them and how do I convince my hubby to agree with me.Is it right if I dont agree to him and be stubborn on my point or should I agree to what he says.I want that both of us should have the same opinion and not a one sided decision and also that our relation remains the same.can someone please help me and give me good suggestions.

2006-11-29 18:44:31 · 13 answers · asked by dreamz a 2

2006-11-29 18:39:39 · 4 answers · asked by ckgene 4

2006-11-29 18:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by LATHA GOVARTHANAN 1

i just have a feeling that he still loves me.even we broke up,i can see it in his eyes and his action,he was very sad and speechles everytime i see him and my friends,we have only a 1 month relationship,but it was full of love we almost talk everyday,but he end it up,he just want to be friend with me that i cant accept bcoz it hurt's.but i think hes just controling to spead his feelings to me.bcoz we cant be bcoz his already married.i know we two have mistakes.he said he developed his feelings so fast to me,thats why he wants to end up before its more deeply.we cant be bcoz were christian,w/ the same religion,and were two are church worker,if we will be together we two will expel to the church.and theres no divorce in philippines.but its hard im suffering and i know he too.he said im still in his heart and if he is not married yet he will marry me.but its too late now we really cant be.someone experience this difficult situations?

2006-11-29 18:39:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to children a 3 year old and a 8 week old. My husband has been out of work for a month and is about to get a operation. I have been working 50 hours a week to try to get the bills paid. Our kids stay with family, I spend as much time as possible, but if I am home and everyone leaves my daughter says," who is going to stay with me?" she now is not used to me staying with her. My son barley sees me because of course he sleeps. My husband is in pain, is there a way to keep us stronge and together?

2006-11-29 18:37:47 · 4 answers · asked by lizzysmalls4114 1

Man, c-mon, This is a site to ask and answer questions. NOT to search for other peoples "Racism-Tendencies" or to get people worked up. GO AWAY!!!!

2006-11-29 18:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by hookiejr 2

It's a little scary when this happens and it's starting to become a distraction which is not good since she loves giving and I love receiving.

2006-11-29 18:22:17 · 8 answers · asked by Clayton B 2

My lady loves massages. It puts her in the mood. I enjoy giving them. I'm sure you all agree. So tell me....

If your SO was going to give you and erotic massage with the pleasure focussed solely on you, what would you like him to do.

I'm trying to be more creative here. Unfortunately looking at that body causes me to lose focus all the time.

2006-11-29 18:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by Belize69 2

i fall in love with someone on the internet ,we have been talking for a long time.it is like i found my other half,should i trust my feelings? he seems to be serious,he wanna come to my country and marry me.

2006-11-29 18:09:26 · 8 answers · asked by runner 3

i am a divorce

2006-11-29 18:08:56 · 10 answers · asked by BUS B 1

When I married him, I told him I wasn't sure if I did. Now, I'm sure I don't. I don't like the idea of giving up my career for a child I wouldn't even like (I don't like children, period,). Also, the idea of pregnancy and childbirth absolutely revolts me (even though physically, I'm very healthy) He basically said that if he can't have a child that's his own flesh and blood he'd no longer have a purpose in life. He won't even settle for adoption. What makes it harder is that in every other respect, he's sweet, kind, does everything he can for me. Except for this one issue. Apparently, his ego is more important than my reproductive choices. Also, I have depression and I'm on 3 medications for it and he knows this. Please help, I'm at my wit's end. I love him, he's been nothing but kind to me, but he told me that he'd "never back down" on the kids issue.

2006-11-29 17:49:14 · 18 answers · asked by dineria 2

I was curious as to how many wives shave their husband's back for them?

2006-11-29 17:42:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it is time to move on,for the last year 1/2
it has been all going down. I can't take his lies one after another, and then his betrayal with other women and the wrong choices he has made that have taken a toll on me. I used to cry every night and ask god why me what did i do wrong when i have given him three children,take care of my body nobody believes i have kids and
dont apear my age. I think of me as a responsible woman,funny,sexy and smart. I have forgiven him 5 times he's done me wrong after 13 years of marriage for the kids sake,but i
found out i think i don't care for him anymore. He is invisible to me know,he is unatractive to me and when im around him all i think is about going out for the whole day,his presence just don't say anything to me anymore. I think the attachment has finally broken ,but i still feel afraid of freedom where do i start,what should i do with it.

2006-11-29 17:39:57 · 17 answers · asked by flaca 2

What do you think? can you actually marry the wrong wife or husband and not be compatible in the bed?

2006-11-29 17:30:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous