Guys,how will you know if the person you love still love you?

Question

i just have a feeling that he still loves me.even we broke up,i can see it in his eyes and his action,he was very sad and speechles everytime i see him and my friends,we have only a 1 month relationship,but it was full of love we almost talk everyday,but he end it up,he just want to be friend with me that i cant accept bcoz it hurt's.but i think hes just controling to spead his feelings to me.bcoz we cant be bcoz his already married.i know we two have mistakes.he said he developed his feelings so fast to me,thats why he wants to end up before its more deeply.we cant be bcoz were christian,w/ the same religion,and were two are church worker,if we will be together we two will expel to the church.and theres no divorce in philippines.but its hard im suffering and i know he too.he said im still in his heart and if he is not married yet he will marry me.but its too late now we really cant be.someone experience this difficult situations?

Answer 1

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I will know the day she comes back, if that day ever happens. Until then I am waiting for her.
-NmD!

Answer 4

He's married? Better let it go.