Just asking?
2006-11-29 20:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by Nurse Raina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow you already have some suggestions that made me do a double take...I guess I can relate cuz i have been in the same shoes you are in...When my husband did this to me of course I was upset and very hurt and felt betrayed...I made him sit and tell me what I did so wrong to make him do that...Of course he said it had nothing to do with me and he opened up and told me how he went astray...He asked for forgiveness and of course being a Christian I forgave him...In the Bible it says that we are to forgive if we want the Father to forgive us for our sins..He had to do alot to earn my trust again though but PRAISE GOD he never again cheated on me..We been married now for 16 yrs and yes I did start trusting him again...Well all sin but we ask for forgiveness...Then the woman did the same and I forgave her..She stayed away for she felt the guilt and I knew she had to deal with that herself..That was between her and God...One of the apostles asked Christ how many times do we forgive people who hurt us,,and he said 7 x 7...Every minute of every day..Dont matter...How many times do we make mistakes and ask forgiveness prayin they forgive us//? I would talk to him first..Let him know the pain he has made you feel and how your trust is gone...If he really loves you he will ask for forgivness and work hard to regain ur trust..It can be done....I will keep you in my prayers and I pray the Peace of God to be with you..
2006-11-29 21:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by glowworm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick both of them to the curb and divorce him for everything he has. How could your friend(and Hubby) do that to you? That would be the worst person to sleep with. She is no friend and I would let everybody know just how devious she is. As for your husband? A real loser. I could not forgive that. Move on. You are much better without either of them. Good luck.
2006-11-30 04:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, she wouldn't be my best friend, anymore, and HE wouldn't be my husband.
I would look for new friends at a singles' event.
There's a good chance that I would never talk to either of them again, either. If either of them loved you, they wouldn't have had sex with each other. If your husband loved you, he wouldn't have had sex with ANYONE BUT YOU.
A good asss kicking might come in there, too.
2006-11-30 04:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, man, it would all be over. The friendship and the marriage. They would both be well-advised to stay out of my sight. It would be so hurtful and devastating. It would be like getting two knives stuck in your back.
2006-11-30 05:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd know that the person WASN'T a friend. I would get a different friend, and divorce the spouse. I probably wouldn't kill both of them, but death IS what they'd deserve. Our world would be a better place IF every cheater was killed.
2006-11-30 05:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would divorce friend and let her be on her own.
She was never your b/f if she could do something like that. And Karma has a way of getting back to people, I would let karma take it's place.
2006-11-30 06:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were married, i would confront my husband first, because he broke his vows to me. then i would give him a HARD slap (hopefully he wakes up from his deep sh*t) and divorce him... next step would be to confront my friend to tell her i'm totally disappointed that she could do such a thing... and my relationship with her will end too...
but oh, i hope i will be strong for that... i'ld definitely cry my heart out if that ever happened... it's too sad... too heart-breaking...
2006-11-30 04:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
high 5
2006-11-30 04:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of them both, and um bust her in the nose oh yea got to hurt
2006-11-30 06:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have no more dealings with either one! Divorce.
2014-07-07 17:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋