i wanna understand him, with his behaviour. i wanna know everything without asking him. i wanna make him happy the way he wants to be. tell me how can i do this ?
2006-11-29 19:27:11 · 12 answers · asked by achops7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't try to understand him,if there is a person to beunderstood I think it must be you for thinking so deeply against a man who closes himself to his so kind wife.
2006-11-29 19:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by pepticulcus 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really can't know this without asking him. If you feel you can't ask him how he feels or what he wants & needs then you have a serious communication problem.
The best way to make somebody happy it to ask them what they want. There is no way you can do something without knowing what it is you need to do. Unless youre psychic.
2006-11-30 03:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Evil Ameba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about his behaivor? Anyways you probably won't know EVERYTHING there is to know about your spouse. If you want to make someone happy you just ask what are their expectations. Sometimes people think what they are doing SHOULD make someone happy, but it may not be what he really wants. Hell just ask if there's anything you can do to make him happier. Are you assuming that he isn't happy when he really is. Tough to answer without some more info. But for now just ask if he's happy...he may be.
2006-11-30 03:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Frevel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first impression of you is that you're scared of your husband. this is not a healthy relationship anymore. you should both be open with each other. the way i see it is that you are the one desperately trying to make your relationship work. a relationship is a two way street. you should talk to your husband if you want to fix things and get things right. discuss with him everything that's bothering you. not even becoming a psychic will resolve your problem.
2006-11-30 03:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by SURVIVOR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
direct request/question is the best way to know. you are not a mind reader. communication is the key. never assume. have a direct talk that you want to spend time with your husband, say for example i really like it if we go to the woods after dinner tonight, say it directly not like its nice to walk outside isnt it?
2006-11-30 03:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never understand your husband if the two of you do not communicate.
2006-11-30 03:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How are you going to know, if you don't ask? Ask him anything he's your husband. Sounds like you're the unhappy one.
2006-11-30 03:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just observe him and listen to him when he does talk. You can learn alot about a person just by watching their facial experssions, gestures, etc and by really listening to what they are saying .
2006-11-30 03:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
listen and observe and talk to others about his behaviour
2006-11-30 03:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by rxkbird 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever tried asking what he wants?.... It seems like it's always "I WANNA".....
2006-11-30 03:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Morena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋