I've had it, but we have 2 young kids so I am thinking one last time together would be nice. Yes, been to counseling too.
2006-11-29 19:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you can get along and be pleasant until then, it would probably be more enjoyable for your children. after all who wants the wonderful present of divorce for christmas? if you can make it a month ish i would say go for it.
2006-11-29 19:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? What a perfect give to the person whom you share kids with. Nothing says Merry Christmas better than being served with divorce papers. Hope things work out for you Eben Ezer. Cold hearted. You are a parent ? Glad I'm not one of your kids, and definatly glad to not be married to you.
2006-11-30 04:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't work out this relationship,(your marriage), you won't work out in any relationship.Your children will be hurt,as many children of divorce parents.I know you have probably tried, but take a good look in the mirror,it takes two, but only one to start changing.Love is why you married.
2006-11-30 05:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah if nothing else out of respect and decency to some one you once loved.
My divorce was finalized on Thanksgiving Day a couple of years ago and I have no idea when or if I will ever celebrate it again. It would not have hurt her or her dirt bag lawyer to wait a couple of months. C'est la guerre
2006-11-30 04:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your wife "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husband's".
That will help any marriage out there.
I guess you are giving up on your family and yourself.
What a shame. Your kids will not have a good outlook.
At least wait until after the holiday's.
And stop expecting her to change, you need to change first.
Good luck, though.
Sorry to hear about it.
2006-11-30 03:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
look if you r sure you wont the divorce ok ...but wait until the holidays is over i did last year but i told the grown ups that we where over so they would know ...please don't spoil it for your kids you will fell better about it in the long run i do...
2006-11-30 03:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been to counseling and you've tried to talk it out, but it just isn't happening, of course you should wait until after Christmas.
2006-11-30 03:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anon Tom 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes of course for the kids
2006-11-30 03:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by kally m 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, it make a difference. It would cause too much sadness. now if it is an abusive, get out.
good luck
2006-11-30 03:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do what's best for your kids and for you. I can't make that kind of decision for you. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 03:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋