i have posted other questions which i have received answers for but now its serious i made some serious mistakes and now i have lost my wife and kids she went to florida where her parents live and i am in ny. i know i have made mistakes but i am willing to go the distance and pay someone to really help me out to get her back. i will try marriage counseling when she gets back to ny. i have even started seeing a regular counselor now. i just dont want to spend christmas alone and i want to prove that i truly am sorry for the mistakes i have made. when we talk she sometimes says she wants to work this out and she even says she loves me then other times she is so mean and says she doesnt. like i said if anyone can provide me with real help i am willing to pay you. my email is draconixtechnology@yahoo.com or aim s/n is rwb9900
2006-11-29 16:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've done something pretty bad I take it, and here is your first problem in trying to get your wife to give you another chance- you keep calling whatever it is - a "mistake". Big no no.
Your wife wants you to accept full responsibility for what you did. Say "I was wrong", etc. Calling it a mistake is minimizing your role in it. Like maybe you "accidently" had sex with another woman, or punched her, or gambled away your kids college fund, or whatever.
I don't know what you did, but your approach to get her back is backfiring on you. I know from experience.
2006-11-29 16:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what kind of mistakes did u make?? i cant offer real help cuz im not a counselour and im too far. but if the mistake u did is cheating, than sometimes is really really hard to ragain the trust that she once had in u. if u physically abused her several times, im pretty sure she's fed up and no matter what she wont b back. however, yall do have kids so she cant be away forever. u have the right to c ur kids. so dont think too much about her b concern about ur kids, and maybe when she sees how much u care for the kids and that u are willing to travel that distance to c hem dan maybe she'll forgive u.
y dont u go to fl for christmas n suprise her. but do something romantic when u arrive.
good luck!! dont screw up things when u got em good, if u r being sincere than hopefully everything turns out for the good.
2006-11-30 00:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your help in counseling.... spend your money on your kids!
Get off the computer and go down to Florida and spend Christmas with your family... lots of cheap hotels around .... check out hotwire.com for hotels... and then drive or fly down there at Christmas time
2006-11-30 00:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other question. Now you are acting crazy, & just asking for some nut to take your money! Pull yourself together, drive down to see your wife. Make sure you get a hotel room for yourself first! Stay down there in a hotel during Christmas, & spend now til then earning an invitation.
2006-11-30 00:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not see if you can go to Florida for the holidays...spend it with her and the family?_
2006-11-30 00:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep at the counseling, and when you believe you made some headway, let her know, maybe next christmas will be different.
2006-11-30 00:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is your answer!Go to him and ask for forgiveness, submit to him and he will guide you.
2006-11-30 12:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by free 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What exactly is your question? I'm confused....
2006-11-30 00:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋