to keephim from coming in the house anytime he wants.? i told him i want the keys back but he wouldnt give them back,saying its my house too,but hes left on his own and m tired of his lies and broken promises and i jst cant trust himwith anything i dont want him to take my son,he stopped in today he still had not changed clthes in the last three days"this is a first in the fiteen years" its odd to me
2006-11-29 15:51:31 · 14 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well first of all unfortunately, the law will not allow for you to keep him out of the house, if it belongs to both of you. Unless there is some type of abuse, in which case you can get a restraining order and that should keep him away until you go to court and figure things out. Entrainment in this case would only be a temporary thing though, so if you don't want to try and make it work then I suggest you get a good lawyer. Oh, and don't worry about him taking your son, if he doesn't have a job, and isn't stable not a judge in the world is going to give him custody! Just watch your "P's and Q's" becouse divorce court is tuff!! I have been there!
2006-11-29 16:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have the locks changed, and inform the state that he has left & no longer lives there. I believe you can actually claim abandonment. Speak to them about a restraining order, because he is entering the house, & you do not feel safe.
2006-11-30 00:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks first of all and seek out a solicitor pronto!! Be storng for you and your son, you are better of alone. Sounds like he could be affected by drugs. Be wary.
2006-11-30 04:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by souldancer70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change you knobs and locks.. stay away from your home and have a vacation for about a month or two..
ask somebody from your neighbor to watch over the house for you or advice the police that u r staying out for 2 months, tell them that nobody should come close ur house while ur gone.. even ur husband.. (u should tell ur story about him)
and while in the vacation, file a divorse!
2006-11-30 00:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Home Depot and buy a Kwik Set lock set.
They are very easy to change yourself.
2006-11-29 23:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks on the doors. ALL of them, even if you have locks on inside doors, change them all. and file for divorce. That may wake him up.
2006-11-29 23:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your locks, get a lawyer ASAP!!!!!, tell the police U just want them to know, he needs a shrink!!!!!! Something is wrong11
2006-11-29 23:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit threatening!!!
change the damn locks already and get on with it. if he breaks in call the cops. get a restraining order if he threatens you. this guy doesn't live there. you owe him nothing. get your balls back lady!!! stop letting him make the rules up as he goes along!!!
2006-11-29 23:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Legally he's right, you need to file for divorce to keep him out or at least a legal separation if they do those in your state.
2006-11-29 23:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change locks.
2006-11-29 23:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋