I have been bisexual since i was 12 years old....my husband and i have been married for two years and i still havent been able to tell him. I am not sure how he would react....i want him to be open to trying new things when i tell him but how do i do it....please help
2006-11-29 16:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by Mama Meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Invite her over for Jello shots...?? He'll be okay....
2006-11-29 16:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your husband if he would be interested in a threesome. Invite one of your girlfriends that you are sexually active with. Be sure to show your husband how passionate you can be towards a woman but do not exclude him from the fun. If by the end he hasn't figured it out mention to him that this is not the first time you had sex with a woman. Talk to him about all your feelings. If the threesome was good he will probably accept your bisexuality and want to do it again. Good luck !
2006-11-29 16:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is NOT necessarily every guy's dream! Cheating with a girl is still cheating. And you can't expect him to be open to try new things with you. If he married YOU, he loves YOU! He may very well leave you, when you tell him. Be prepared for that possibly. But you have to tell him already, don't wait, it's not fair to either of you.
2006-11-29 17:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by econ476 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is every guys dream , but its a very difficult situation , the next time he has a bit to much to drink , just put it to him as a question , make it out to be a joke , and see what he say about it , if he say hell if it could happen , then i'm all for it you are home free , but if he say hes not into that kind of stuff then you have to find another way to try and turn him ...lol , its a damn difficult thing to do , and you must be very discreet about it ... damn i can just dream of stuff like that ... good luck , and keep well ..
2006-11-29 17:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just sit him down , and say "honey, I love you, but there's something that I need to tell you. I've been bisexual since I was twelve. Now, this doesn't change our relationship in any way, but I'm interested in us trying some new things, and I'd love your support" Then take things from there. He might be shocked at first, but he'll get over it eventually, and might even be interested in adapting some new bedroom practices into your lifestyle now that you've come out. Hope that helps!
2006-11-29 16:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter if you are a bisexual anymore! You are married to your husband and you belong to him. You gays, lesbians, and bisexuals place too much emphasis on sex rather than love. And, you people are more concerned about fulfilling your sexual needs and place them above any relationship that you so happen to be in. Does that answer your question?
2006-11-29 16:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by rustyshackleford_sha_sha_sha 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No easy way - do you love him?? and want to stay married? Those are the questions only youcan answer. You must tell him, openly and honestly. He will ask if you have been faithful and you must be truthful. If he accepts it - you are OK but be prepaired for a divorce. No man wants to share his wife even with another woman.
2006-11-29 16:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the sake of your happy future and comfortable life, yet to enjoy, do not share this secret with him , just play and allow him and encourage him to use his own new positions for his satisfaction , first make him addicted for your body & I am sure you will know , and one day smartly ask him if he wants to bring one of his friend to join you both . You have to put in a way , that he is only asking for another experiment and you are there to fullfil his one desire .And you will find your self in a win win sitaution without spoiling your future .
2006-11-29 16:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you made a choice. You got married. You promised to be faithful to HIM only. I'd say that partying days are over. Woman up and be honorable. The issue isn't your bisexuality, it's that you already made that choice when you married.
2006-11-29 16:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is something you should have talked about BEFORE the wedding. You have basically decieved your husband this entire time and your marriage has been based on a lie. I can't imagine that you actually tell this man that you love him because obviously that is not true.
2006-11-29 16:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should have told him before you got married. But then if you have a hot girlfriend who wouldn't mind him being in the middle, he might just think it's a win win situation for him.
2006-11-29 16:36:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋