right i started going out with my bf in november last year, and in may we broke up for 2months im not really sure now but it seemed stupid. anyway we got bk together but he had slept with anoth girl in between. i asked him not to speak to her anymore but it was hard coz she was at his work. but now she lives in bath...an he still makes the effort to speak to her even tho he knows it super hurts me, but its like he digs his heels in coz he feel like im making him not speak to her coz he still likes her as a friend. but i found message on myspace and they had been talking flirty n said they missed each other and were talkin bout me. we nearly split up and he promised to delete his myspace and get one together. its only a stupid site but its his way of contact to her and for a month he still hasnt deleted it ive hinted but i dont know what else to do coz we have sorted all are problems out now and i dont want to cause another argument, how do i make him delete it without being weird?
2006-11-29 12:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Typical game playing. Pack his things and send him packing. There are many, many more people to enjoy than someone like this. Good Luck!!
2006-11-29 12:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by spag 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk about having your cake and eating it too. Somebody is definitely lying here and Ill bet its not female. Hes jsut telling you what you want to hear to keep you and chances are hes lying to the other girl too. Time to give him the ultimate choice; drop her or youre gone, and stick to your guns. This is your life and basically youre wasting it on him. You can do better and you dont need a guy like this. Time to think of moving on and find someone who will treat you as a princess. Good luck
2006-11-29 20:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's being a jerk! I say get rid of him and find someone who is mature enough to be in a relationship. I know it's easier said than done, but you deserve MUCH better. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't dig his heels into the situation. Don't set yourself up for hurt again!!!
2006-11-29 20:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with him. Clearly he seems like he can't make up his mind between you and this other girl and if he keeps on talking and flirting with this girl and it is going to cause dramas between both of yous. He obviously isn't considering your feelings and how you feel about this whole situation so if I was you I would tell him straight it is either you or the other girl and then he might think twice about what he is doing!!
2006-11-29 20:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he knows that it matters that much to you about the my space. Then he would of deleted it as soon as it was brought up to his attention. If he still has it up, then don't fall to hard for this guy. Go out and find another fella that would treat you the way you want to be treated. Stop wasting your time.
2006-11-29 20:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Speedy 8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly your should delete him out of your life; why is he hanging on to the ex? If he misses her then tell him to go be with her. It will hurt at first but thier are plenty of men who deserve the loyalty that lives within you.
2006-11-29 20:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tonne B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is not worth your time or the effort to try and maintain a relationship with him. He is a cheater, once a cheater always a cheater. Go for the Gold not the coal.
2006-11-29 20:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave this guy. If it doesn't feel like lightning strikes every time you see him, it wasn't meant to be. Let some other girl deal with this waste of a time problem. You deserve SOOOO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-29 20:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by eh! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't. Let him go. He's not worth the stress. Sounds to me like he still wants something with this other girl. Get out before you get cheated on.
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION.
2006-11-29 20:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by D S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't break your little head over a stupid man, close your door on his face and look for a better partner.
2006-11-29 20:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋