Is this normal?

Question

Is it normal for 30 yrs old guy to be afraid of his coworkers to think that he is a good husband (whipped), and instead go around talking how he would f** some particular bystander girls, how his wife has no saying in what is he doing in his friends-get-together and swearing and call names his wife if she forgot to add salad in his sandwich.

i have just found out about all that from his friend that works with him

Answer 1

This guy is 30 years old - going on 14. Grow up, my friend. If you love your wife - don't play these hurtful games. AND - PACK YOUR OWN LUNCH!

Answer 2

Sounds like these guys are a bunch of childish jerks who are miserable and alone and want you to be the same. At least you have someone to make you a sandwich, they probably don't have anyone doing anything for them EVER, and it will be that way for a long time. You sound like the kind of guy that loves your wife, and she is lucky to have you, and you her. They will be the 40 year old losers hanging out at nightclubs trying to find someone, but looking sad and pathetic to everyone around them, especially the girls. They have a lot of growing up to do, don't be any more afraid of them than you would a 13 year old boy, since thats the level they seem to be operating on. Who cares if they think your whipped? Your getting laid on a regular basis and they are just TALKING about the girls they WANT to be getting busy with. The only sure thing they have at the end of the night is their own hand and some tissues. Hold your head high, you are much better off than they are, and probably always will be.

Answer 3

It should not be normal. Who cares what your co-workers think. They are just probably jealous because you have a better relationship with your wife than they do. And your wife did not forget to add salad to your sandwich...she knows that if she adds salad, the lettuce will wilt, and the beetroot and tomato will make the bread soggy.

Answer 4

Don't be a butthole! Merely talking that crap can cause some real problems in a marriage... FOOL! A better way of handling that is to play up the fact your marriage is wonderful and you have no reason to think about other women.

Sounds like this person is a complete idiot!

Answer 5

WOW IT IS TAKING HIM A LONG TIME TO MATURE,,,MY HUSBAND IS IN HIS 30'S AND COMPLIMENTS EVERY THING ABOUT ME TO HIS FRIENDS, BUDDIES, CO WORKERS, ETC YES HE IS WHIPPED, AND HE IS PROUD OF IT, AS HE TELLS ALL HIS FRIENDS IF THEY WERE MARRIED TO ME THEY WOULD BE WHIPPED TOO, BECAUSE I AM JUST THAT GOOD, HE IS VERY HAPPY TO HAVE ME AS HIS WIFE AND WANTS EVERYONE TO KNOW IT,,NEVER SHOULD A MAN KNOCK HIS WIFE DOWN!!!

Answer 6

This is not normal for a respectable and positive person and husband and possibly a father to be. This kind of behaviour is normal for someone who is insecure, has low self esteem and has very little respect for people. I suggest counseling.

Answer 7

It is not normal for a man to do that. He is just showing off to his co-workers and eventually it will end up hurting someone you care about. He should be happy with what he has and shut the hell up.

Answer 8

loser!!!!! not good - he should be bragging that he has a wife at home that satisfies his every need and that he has finally found the one - he should feel sorry for them that they don;t have what he has, tell hubby that they'll respect him more if he admits these things

PS they are probably lying too - boys grow up will ya

Answer 9

This 30 yr old guy is not true to himself in front of his coworkers. Tell him to tell his coworkers to stick it and be who he really is.

Answer 10

Sounds like an episode of Raymond.