My divorce has been finalized this year. I filed for divorce because he cheated on me. We have one child. He cost me $$$ with attorney fees and stress. My parents don't trust him. I don't know if I can trust him again.
Recently he emailed me to see if I was interested going to his work's Christmas party because he doesn't want to go by himself.
What is your opinion?
2006-11-29 12:19:37 · 15 answers · asked by Cathy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't bother going after what you have been through in the divorce combined with the drinking that will be going on, will only open the door for more bull **** to happen. politely say no because its no longer right .
2006-11-29 12:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stick the phony b*****d. He cheats on you and then asks you to pretend for his bosses that he's still a family man? Maybe after the party he'll ask you to make love with him and pretend you still care and get turned on. (And I sure hope you don't.) I agree with the earlier answer, he went out and found his own party girl, let him take her to the party. At least you can be glad that she's apparently the kind of tramp he's ashamed for his workmates to see him with! Merry Christmas to you and not to him or her!
2006-11-29 20:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by David W 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's just a party, nothing will happen. I go to things like that all the time with my ex-husband, now that we're both single again (my 2nd husband died, and his 3rd wife left him). Don't let the past get in the way and enjoy yourself.
2006-11-29 21:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra C. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell No!!! let him be lonley! freakin cheater.. he made the mistake of cheating he gets what he deserves. Dont hurt yourself anymore. I say do not go!
2006-11-29 20:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by michelle b 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is just as stupid ...
did I actually read that you don't know if you can trust him again ?
I think you need to look at those divorce papers again....
2006-11-29 20:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Only if you want to get married again, if not then no, it would be a waist of time and energy.
2006-11-29 20:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by brp_13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for a million bucks i would tell you to go other than that tell him you have a date that evening with a 24 yr old....
2006-11-29 20:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by iloeta1164 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go by himself. He is your past not your future.
2006-11-29 20:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lore 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would forget about it. You did what you had to do and its over, don't get roped in with him again. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-11-29 20:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you need to wake up and smell the coffee.
What a dingbat.
2006-11-29 20:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋