She's a so-so friend (still, she's a friend) and she's having an affair with a married man. This guy has 2 toddlers. He even cheated on my friend and his wife with his ex-girlfriend but he still lied about that. He came up with the story that she's crazy and psycho and that he never slept with her when his wife was out of town. So, his wife and my friend stick with him. He doesn't know my friend looks at his wife's pics online-I don't know how she found out her yahoo name. She drives by his house all the time. I believe that he's tried to stop calling her but she threatens him with blackmail if he doesn't come to see her. The thing is-I feel for the wife, I've been through this before. I've talked with my friend and there's no getting through to her. Do I say something to his wife? I have her email address because my friend has shown me pics of his wife while talking bad about her. Again, I don't know how she was able to see their family pics unless Man Ho let her.
2006-11-29 02:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get a new friend to replace this sleezy one. Hell, tell his wife. It is sick to be ******* someone elses man let alone black mailing him about it just to get him to come over. Although if she already heard about it and didnt belive it or forgave him its her stupid fault. Once a cheat always a cheat and he sounds like a real loser to me!! He is no better then your friend. Are you married? Watch your man if you are!!
2006-11-29 03:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Sounds like this guy is going to get his due pretty soon, if your friend is threatening blackmail. He is obviously not going to leave his wife, your friend will become pissed and she will tell all. No need for you to get involved. Just sit back and watch the train wreck.
2006-11-29 10:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be friends with someone who is cheating with a married man. I would not say anything to his wife - DO NOT GET INVOLVED. If you are smart, you will stay as far away from these people as possible as they are all obviously messed up.
2006-11-29 10:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As well meaning as you mean to be. Stay out of it. The less involved you are in this situation the better. You don't know his wife, and you do not know what kind of person she is so stay out of the deal.
2006-11-29 11:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get VERY far away from the whole thing. Situations like this is what Springer is for.
2006-11-29 11:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her that you dont want to be associated with this behaviour and if she stops, you will be her friend.
2006-11-29 11:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting....
2006-11-29 10:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋