2006-11-29 03:52:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he agreed to marry you as a shy type gal, that's what he wants. Don't change yourself in a good-intentioned attempt to give him what you think he wants -- he wants _you_, the person you are now. That's who he fell in love with, and that's who he wants to marry.
I sense an undercurrent to this question, and feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. Is your real question about being sexually inhibited? Are you wondering if you should learn to be wilder in bed? If so, yes and no. Your fiance's marrying a shy girl, so odds are he doesn't want to suddenly find himself in bed with a filthy whore. But there is nothing sexier to men than a woman who is comfortable with her own sexuality and who genuinely enjoys sex. All you need to do here is to let yourself enjoy your sexual relationship with your husband, and to let him know that you enjoy it. Being vocal in bed helps, but simply telling him in words afterward (i.e., "That felt sooo good.") also works. You don't need to learn to pole dance, just let yourself have fun in bed. Chances are he'll be thrilled with just that.
2006-11-29 04:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are about to marry soon, obviously you found a man who loves you just the way you are. Drastic changes in your personality could possibly harm your relationship, you should just be true to yourself and talk about this issue with him.
2006-11-29 04:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The person marrying you is marrying you thinking you are a shy
type gal..Don't change...He likes it...Or he wouldn't be marrying you.
2006-11-29 03:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You wont have to change yourself, marriage will automatically change you. Thats just how it is! You need to try and be a little less shy though!!!
2006-11-29 03:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change yourself. especially if the person you are marrying you fell in love with you that way.
2006-11-29 03:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say just be ur self..Cause if the guy really likes you then he will like the way u r n accept you the way u r...
2006-11-29 04:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid when you are having fun. Go with the flow on your wedding night.
2006-11-29 04:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋