A boyfriend/spouse who gets along very well with his ex-wife or one that does not get along with his ex-wife at all? How would you feel if she does not acknowledge your existence because you had an affair with her ex while they were still married? They have a child so he still has to communicate with her. However, she does not call your house when her son is there - she calls your boyfriend/husband at work only. My boyfriend keeps saying she is a great mother and she has handled the affair and the divorce very well. She always puts their son first. Would I feel better if they did not get along?
2006-11-29 08:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay out of their business. They have a child together and this is what they should concentrate on. You shouldn't even be concerned if they get along or not, because you are only the girlfriend.
2006-11-29 08:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are getting paid back for having an affair with a married man. Why would she want anything to do with you. You want one big happy family when you were the reason , the marriage end in divorce. She is being a good mom putting her child first. She does not want to be part of your life , good for her. When you wrong someone they do not have to kiss your a**** to make you feel better. Remember you did the ultimate wrong you dated a married man and caused a divorce. What if this would happen to you an another woman started dating your husband and caused a divorce would you want to have her staring at you across the Christmas dinner table or calling you all the time . Think about it your are getting what you deserved payback.
2006-11-29 16:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have one that doesn't get along with his ex-wife. However, I get your point. If he gets along really well because of their son only then good but if it goes beyond that then I would be very uncomfortable especially if I took him away from her. Who is to say that what they felt for each other isn't still there? Think about it.
2006-11-29 16:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dream Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You had a hand in breaking up a marriage. The child has to come first. It is the most mature respectful thing for them to get along.. Anyway, would you really want to answer the phone when she called? Wouldn't you be embarrassed?
2006-11-29 16:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Putting the cart before the horse is a poor way to conduct a relationship of any kind. If you love your man then get used to the ex.
2006-11-29 16:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. My man and his ex do not get along.....and I hate it. I get along with her 100 times better than he does. And sometimes I feel in the middle.
2006-11-29 16:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband gets along well with the Ex He just didnt want to scr*w her anymore. She was boring so dont worry He loves you now.
2006-11-29 16:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... Sounds like there isn't much you can do in this situation besides accepting things as they are. This was the reason why I never even considered dating a guy with kids - all these complications that arise from a situation like this.
2006-11-29 16:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she acknowledge u? you helped to destroy her marriage, and she still feels hurt over it. u need to mind your own business, haven't u done enough to this woman? your the one who stole her husband, and now u wish they didn't get along, because u don't want him around her because u feel threatened by her.
2006-11-29 19:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your BF and his X are just trying to handle the situation, which is painful enough in itself, with as much maturity and dignity as they can. Let them to their own devices to keep it a pain and stress free situation! You have already won-relax!
2006-11-29 16:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by SayWhat? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋