what would you do if you caught your husband having some"alone time"?
2006-11-29 08:07:29 · 54 answers · asked by I'm laughing WITH you 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd ask him why he didn't invite ME
2006-11-29 08:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How on earth do you get caught? You need to plan better in the future to make sure that you are actually ALONE durring "alone time"
I would think that my husbands an idiot for not planning better.
2006-11-29 08:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would giggle to myself and try turn back before he saw me. If he did see me I'd smile and say "Oops sorry to interrupt, please do continue, hon". I hope he would do the same if he ever caught me LOL. If I was in a healthy, happy marriage (which I'm currently not) I would ask if he needed any help (lol). I believe the saying that goes "99% of all men masturbate and the other 1% is lying." so, I think it's perfectly natural and normal.
2006-11-29 08:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing!!!
Cu's obviously if he was caught it means he thought he was alone so I figure he was in need and I was not around. I rather he is having alone time then time with someone else Cu's that I would not tolerate!
2006-11-29 08:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by calimexgirl!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just 'alone time' and nothing more? I see nothing wrong with that. I like MY alone time as well. My hubby works very hard and deserves to spend some time doing what he wants.
2006-11-29 08:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by TexasRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a typical answer from any girl would say "baby what is bothering you? can i sit with you?
but researches had proved that men sometimes need to space out in their cave without their partner bothering them. a woman is a woman and will deal with her bf the way she'd like to be dealt with. but, men, in their nature, need to sit alone and ALONE. it;s hard for women to understand this because women inherently have passion for strengthening relationships through talking !!
2006-11-29 08:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by sara_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught my bf I was kinda hurt that he would rather look at a magazine and do that and not be with me I would have helped him. I understand if she is not home or if she wont give it up but otherwise I don't see why you would do that rather than have the real thing.
2006-11-29 08:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for him. Everyone needs some alone time from time to time. What's wrong with that?
2006-11-29 08:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men have high sex drives and, if the woman isn't interested, are recommended to relieve themselves. So, is this what you mean by "alone time"? Are you wondering if this is bad? I hope you clear this up....
2006-11-29 08:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the circumstances! If I was in the next room, I'd be P.O'd, and want to know why he didn't just come to me and get the real thing!
If I wasn't home, and walked in, I would probably just say nothing, or ask him he needed help!
2006-11-29 08:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kailey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean pleasuring himself, I wouldn't care. We all need some alone time from time-to-time. Besides, I'd rather he do it this way than with another woman.
2006-11-29 08:12:59 · answer #11 · answered by gee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋