we have been in love for 6 years now but her parents want her to marry a rich and older man they dont know about me yet and I was plamnning to marry her in 2 years now everythings gone wrong help plz im 18?
2006-11-29 08:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by lewis jones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When we a born Allah decides who our other half is, its up to Allah not us. Inshallah who ever Allah gives you will be the right one. Sometimes people dont get their other half first time maybe because they dont be patience or because its a test from Allah.
However brother dont just control your love and Inshallah Allah will reward you for your patience
2006-12-03 08:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Farhan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advice... leave it! if the girls not willing to tell her parents then why you worrying for?? if she loves you then she surely will tell her parents....
If she was having a arrange marrige ... then she should have thought about it before falling in love!!
Because in our religion everyone knows there limits! and yeah this aint no anti- social war or a world war 4 tht u need to start JIhad??? its realli a matter off sitin together and working things out so see what can be done... Good Luck! ;)
2006-11-29 23:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Paki~Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she saying?
Couldn't she get her parents to hold on, until you're both ready to get married?
I'm so sorry that things are so messed up for you, hope it works out. But why do you have to say you're a muslim, could it actually be because of the culture that your gf's parents follow?
A fellow muslim.
2006-11-29 08:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Low profile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad your in the UK and not under sharia law because you would be buggered. You are 18 as long as she is over the age of 18 there is nothing they can do to stop you marrying, except illegal methods.
2006-11-29 09:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Muslim too and i was exactly in the same situation....but the two of us had the guts to speak to my parents and here I am...married to the one i love!
Go for it if you love each other...don't ruin your lives like this...losing your love is awful...
*Everything's worth trying*
2006-11-29 08:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sairax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's gonna have to tell her parents, if she is not willing to do this then I am afraid you're going to have to go your separate ways! If the parents do agree to meet/talk with you make sure you tell them how much you love and will take care of their daughter and what your future plans are.
Good Luck!
2006-11-30 04:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman who can marry who she wishes and is free to choose.
2006-11-29 08:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents they may just be happy that you are muslim too and accept you ,you will regret it if you don`t say anything and lose without trying good luck
2006-11-29 09:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by kristilou69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is quite a predicament. isn't arranged marriages a part of your religion?
talk to her parents.
2006-11-29 09:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give me some petrol money for my trike and I'll carry out a fatwah on the family if you like.
p.s. love conquers all things.
2006-11-29 08:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by KU 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋