Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2006

A man has a wife that he wants to divorce ,but since she just got an operation, he's waiting. His he an asshole if he is sleeping with other women before getting divorced. He cannot have sex with her because of what she s going true. So what do you think about it?

2006-11-19 10:22:28 · 10 answers · asked by exotica 2

I confronted him he denied, of course,got sent to iraq for a year I waited, said he wanted to get married but treated me wrong , then said he was just checking out his options,loved me but wasnt in love with me. then said he just wants me to love him with all my heart , and i never trusted him gee wonder why lol. but when i play it out in my mind he says here we go again then turns around and goes to sleep on me . never really snuggles unless its trying to get intimate , got 2 girls with him 11 and 6 i thought he loved me was always there for me , now its like , get over it . also told me could of been with this option if he wasnt with me , says he felt it was fate, I said well you better take it then , may never come again , but says be quite i love you, but i sure dont feel it much anymore just heart ache and tears. that he doesnt even care. and He was so good to me before so iam just soo shocked and hurt,

2006-11-19 10:21:48 · 17 answers · asked by dontcha 2

If God made girls cute sexy and softer then guys, why do the want to do men job like driving truck,lifing rubbish, carrying heavy loads looking like men, it was said once there will be a time when we won't know who are men or who are women .
No before you think I my wife was a real tomboy when she was going up now she is a very sexy women and I love her to bits

2006-11-19 10:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by sparks 1

my wife threw all my belongings out of the house and sue for divorce, do i have to maintain her, and give her alimony.

2006-11-19 09:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by tiger 2

2006-11-19 09:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by righton 3

my relationship has been over for 18months, I'm too soft to leave My son nearly 19 has threatened to leave cos of attmosphere. daughter has overdosed on pills twice. I know I have got to get out, but only wk part time and cant aford private rent. Husband drinks has been rough in bed when drunk. I did have relation with someone else, more of a companion. Husand found out and chased me with a knife, now neither of us trust each other I cant chuck him out of council flat he has no where to go but neither do I. I dont know what to do. I did leave once last year but came back couldnt live with mum and he overdosed said couldnt live without me and kids did give up drink for 10mths but is back on it.

2006-11-19 09:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by bluechickenrunner 1

Thus far most MEN have told me to stay single and enjoy life and stay away from the institution called marriage. And there's been many mature women say the exact same thing. My parents divorced, and same with my siblings. They are the same people people who used to tell me that marriage was a great and most wonderful thing. NOW they say it was a MISTAKE. So please tell me people ,,,,NEVER GET MARRIED??? I especially appreciate answers from those that gone through the gauntlet of MARRIAGE & DIVORCE.

2006-11-19 09:39:32 · 22 answers · asked by chaseki 3

Why cheat on your wife in the first place if you're never going to leave your wife?

2006-11-19 09:34:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

who i know is sort of his type but she's not "fun" and "spontaneous" (which he calls me). he wanted to keep seeing me as friends but i told him that i needed time apart till i've moved on completely too. we were in a serious relationship together so i don't think we'll ever completely get over eachother.but umm... i tried not seeing/talking to him for 5 days, and... i can't say that i miss him all that much. i've also met someone new online (who goes to my college and seems relatively normal). i can feel myself moving on, but... sometimes i wish me and my ex could really just be friends. but also i feel like if he had to leave to see his new girlfriend, i'd feel somewhat snubbed (even if i shouldn't). recently, after i stopped contact with him, he put an away message up that says "depression hurts". i'm pretty sure it has something to do with me cutting contact. the thing is, he JUST started a new relationship with a nice girl, so why's he depressed now? should i talk to him?

2006-11-19 09:30:43 · 7 answers · asked by l_brew0 1

Does anyone have any opinions on this subject? Do you know and websites on polygamous relationships or do you know anyone who is in one? Please, any help will be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-19 09:28:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in an abusive relationship, very controlling, i live in wisconsin and want to move to california. If i move with my baby will i get arrested? There is no court order in affect and we are not married. What if he was in jail or prison, he has 5 dui and is on probation?

2006-11-19 09:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by kandi n 1

I'm costarican, I'm in costa rica right now and I'm married to an English guy. We have a four month old baby boy. my husband has been in cr for 18 months now. He's parents and bros came to visit last september but not for long. Now my husband says that he would like to go and stay in england for three to six months. He says he wants to work there and save some money and bring it here to set a business and try to get a house. But I'm just so sad about leaving even when I know that it's not permanent I'm sad. Am I being selfish??? I feel like I don't want to stay there for that long but I also feel that it's good and the right thing to do. I'm just so confused and it's so f****** hard for me to just go. What would you do if you were me???
Thanks for taking the time and answer my question. Have a nice thanksgiving day

2006-11-19 09:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a new wife who is chaste and submissive, even though I have been with a couple of women before. Is this wrong?

2006-11-19 09:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

club with about 8 other women. I sat with another woman and her husband at the reception, he started drinking scotch and after about 7 drinks he was pretty plastered. At one point, he asked me to dance and his wife was like ya go on so I danced with him which was fun. When we went back to the table he was sitting a little too close with his arm on the back of my chair which was ok, then we danced a couple more times and when we went back he sat right next to me so I was inbetween he and his wife. When they got up to leave, he took my hand and leaned on like he was going to kiss my mouth, luckily i turned my face and he planted one on my cheek. Do you think I was picking up on the same vibe you are with this story? The other woman at the table was shocked when he leaned in for a kiss. I am totally embarassed now cuz she's in my club but I didnt do anything, should I apologize? It was her husband who drank too much. What do you think?

2006-11-19 09:10:54 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2

after you start dating someone again?

2006-11-19 09:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by Lis 1

OK we have been married for almost 10 years....this is a fantasy of mine, as well as my husbands.......we have someone in mind that is more interested in me than him ( he let me pursue so I would feel less threatened).....we are very happy together and trust each other completely, so I know he wouldnt pursue this with her alone, as I wouldnt either....he has also said that if after one time I find out its not something I like its ok, and he wont ever pressure me again.....I also asked him the same, what if I wanted another man with us, and he said that it would only be fair.....

I would like some imput on this, before anything happens...

2006-11-19 09:10:32 · 20 answers · asked by jenniepooh3897 1

I just want to know if my husband will ever want to have a baby with me. He says he does not want another one since he has two from a previous marraige and so do I.

2006-11-19 09:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Kym H 1

Ok, lets say that your ex-spouses' new spouse, worked as a biochemist, at hopital that you had to use to have an important surgery. Do you have the right to ask for that person not to test your blood, because of conflict of intrest. And does the other have the right to upset by you asking that they not do it. Acting as though they would loose their job??

hope i got all that out clear enough..... THANKS ahead of time for everyones helpful answers, and thoughts!!!

2006-11-19 09:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by TamBam 2

Please no sarcastic statements or jokes. This is a serious question.

2006-11-19 09:02:30 · 15 answers · asked by sunny4life 4

2006-11-19 09:02:11 · 12 answers · asked by rache dave h 1

Is it me or is it him? Heres the thing, whenever we get into an argument, he will twist everything around...my words to make me look like the ***** and him the victim.
Just recently we (he) had a bunch of money come his way, we (he) spent most of it on stuff we didnt actually need, and before we got this money I told him he needed to pay the bills and pay people back (he said he would, and never eeally did) now today he is blaming me for making him spnd his money on these things (when I in fact was the one who told him to pay bills and people back) He is making me look like te bad guy and today he is very moody...since I cannot tell him waht to do with his money I couldnt force him to do the bills thing...now he is taking it out on me, and I dont know what to do or say to him, because he is being very snarky and moody to me.

2006-11-19 09:01:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you happy with the person you married, or are you sorry that you married that person and often wonder if you'd be better off married to someone else?

2006-11-19 08:57:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have only just bought a house with my fiance (we've not even moved in yet) and the other day when I dropped my son into my ex-husband's house my ex gave me a really nice shabby chique style candelabra as a house warming present. I told him to hold on to it until we have moved in and yesterday I mentioned this to my fiance, who said that he didn't want it in our house. Admittedly my ex has behaved like a bit of a nut on a couple of isolated occasions about 9 mths ago where he was ringing my fiance and hanging up, but since then nothing like that has happened. I've always tried to remain friends with my ex, especially for the sake of our son & I was very hurt to hear that my future husband has issues with him being kind enough to give us something nice for our new home. My fiance's ex wife is a parasite who only takes & doesn't even allow my fiance to see his little girl regularly or let her stay over until we are married. At least my ex is tring to be kind. It's all so unfair.

2006-11-19 08:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by gwibsy 1

I mean he will go and say something I dont like, to me just to get me angry or in a bad mood...he has even admitted this, he is 32 years old btw.
He will antagonize me to the point where I just start screaming at him and he does it on purpose, I dont understand it.
He actually likes to piss me off and cause me stress, I am 26.
Why does he do this???

2006-11-19 08:45:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 08:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this could be to legalise immigration status, economic reason, beauty, recognition.

2006-11-19 08:43:36 · 10 answers · asked by favourprosperity 2

i dont knw how could people be so evil and use other others for their own benefits.My husband is one of them. He married me for the green card as i found this out after getting married to him. He says he has no future in his homeland as well as in europe as he is just a student here. He is asking for a favor from me like i should take him to usa so he can earn more and provide me with a better life. But since, he has cheated so many times, mostly he is talking with girls on the internet i've become scared and have decided never to bring him to usa. he calls me mean, selfish. He wants my help bt i cant help him bz i want him to do something great for me before he expects somethin from me. What do u think am i being mean or selfish? I'm only doing this to save myself from more troubles. Plus, I want him to grow on his own as everyone else does. If he wants to work hard, make a difference in life he can try anywhere. wt do u think? People do things on their own specially as it is very imp

2006-11-19 08:36:07 · 5 answers · asked by mind 1

2006-11-19 08:30:25 · 18 answers · asked by boywants_girlz 1

What about the young mans who have some professions which couldn't find enough free time to spend to family like scientists

2006-11-19 08:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by peeshro 2

2006-11-19 08:23:27 · 10 answers · asked by happyday to you 7