I'm costarican, I'm in costa rica right now and I'm married to an English guy. We have a four month old baby boy. my husband has been in cr for 18 months now. He's parents and bros came to visit last september but not for long. Now my husband says that he would like to go and stay in england for three to six months. He says he wants to work there and save some money and bring it here to set a business and try to get a house. But I'm just so sad about leaving even when I know that it's not permanent I'm sad. Am I being selfish??? I feel like I don't want to stay there for that long but I also feel that it's good and the right thing to do. I'm just so confused and it's so f****** hard for me to just go. What would you do if you were me???
Thanks for taking the time and answer my question. Have a nice thanksgiving day
2006-11-19 09:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would go, I think it would be fun to travel and see different places. Look at it as an adventure. He's got family out there so hopefully they will give you help with the baby.
2006-11-19 09:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go and remember when you feel confused or sad that its only for a short time. The few months that you are there should pass by quickly since you can spend time sightseeing new places.
Look at the positive, you are visiting a place you may have never gotten to see otherwise.
2006-11-19 17:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are just so many questions you've left unanswered. IE: Do you have a place to live there, here.Does he have a job, what's his position like what does he do. To many questions to warrant an answer I feel.
Families or I should say, you get married to start a family. Once you get started you settle down and start having babies. People, my daughter spent $18,000.00 to get pregnant and had only one baby, to Cherish and love, raise.
This is what it's all about. Running around, chasing that rainbow was suppose to stop when you got married, I believe anyway.
2006-11-19 17:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand by your man. Go to the UK as a family. You'll be back to CR soon enough.
2006-11-19 17:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try it out u dont like just go back home
2006-11-19 17:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by hotmail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋