I just want to know if my husband will ever want to have a baby with me. He says he does not want another one since he has two from a previous marraige and so do I.
2006-11-19 09:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Kym H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In time he will... It took me 5 years to get to the point where i wanted one. We are now trying and I can't wait.
2006-11-19 09:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i am suprised two kids each and you want another one? i have two and am having my third at 26??? this was not an easy decision to keep the baby however my husbund loves me and he was happy to have this baby and if it were up to him he would have me having 10 more ;( i think if your husbund loves you then he wouldnt have a problem with you two having a child but maby the fact the two of you both have two each just shows him that it has failed for the two of you and what if your relationship doesnt work then he has maintenance to pay for three children and two sets of children from different mothers this is all going through his mind and plays a big part on him wanting ababy maby you two just need a little more time together
2006-11-19 09:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first husband felt that way. He only offered to change his mind when I was on the way out of the relationship. But at that point it was too late for me.
2006-11-19 09:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew how he felt about children before you married him, then you should have realised that he probably wouldn't change his mind, even if you have. Men don't have biological clocks, per se.
You need to talk to him about how you feel now, ask him how he feels, and ask him how both of you resolve this.....Maybe he'll surprise you, maybe he'll break your heart.
Like I said, if it was understood before you got married that he didn't want more, you can't blame him for standing by his decision, you knew how he felt....GL;)
2006-11-19 09:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE BETTER,HE!!,i know women who are getting there tubes untied to have another baby by there new husbands,you tell him it is only fair if he has one with you.makes the ex feel more important because she has his kids,you better tell him what you are really thinking
2006-11-19 09:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by cool mom32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he might not be ready
2006-11-19 09:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Flower_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋