Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2006

He likes games and role play and has done alot, but myself have only had sex with one or the other on top...what should I do? I am embarrassed....

2006-11-19 12:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by dnlmndyr 1

2006-11-19 12:19:29 · 14 answers · asked by josie 2

Just a reflection...It seems it is always you women who are the ones suffering because of what he sais or does. Have you not got a foot? To kick him out with? Where are all of you men asking for "help, how shall I manage without my wife, I think she is cheating on me, I cry and I cry but she does not take any notice, she just keep hanging out and around with her friends and leave me to take care of the children"?
Yeak!

2006-11-19 12:15:26 · 14 answers · asked by ullis 1

Met my husband when we were 9 he had just been transfered from another school and we declared ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend at 10 yes i now dumb but true.We went all the way through middleschool and highschool. I got pregnant senior year of highschool with our daughter Isabel we got married 3 months after she as born. We have been through so much including being a burden financially to both our parents we did go to college and working sometimes never seeing each other.He graduated a year and half ahead of me and i thought things were getting better i will graduate this year and we were seeing each other again and getting along well. Then last week he sat me down and said to me that he needs to be by himself and single!ending the conversation with him giving me the paper work!

2006-11-19 12:03:18 · 24 answers · asked by Cally M 1

In a custody battle, you have a father, who does not own a car but other thain that can prove he is a devoted and caring parent. Verses a mother who admitedly is anorexic, bulimic, has a habit of cutting herself, (in fact has carved the "F" word into her own leg.) She is currently living with her new boyfriend even though she is still married. Also through the advice of her attorny has not let the father see his child for over four months.

The father has two reliable witnesses that can vouge the fact that he is the better parent for the child and that the mother is more interested in her personal life thain that of the childs welbieng.

The father has no lawyer, the mother has highered an attorny, both parties criminal histories are quite minor and negligable.

There is no spousal abuse or child abuse from the father.

who wins?

2006-11-19 11:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by whatukno 2

She is a very busy person. She works nights while I work days. When we do have sometime she just wants to get to it. This usually is fine but she wants no foreplay. She says there isn't time for it. The last time we had sex there was some bleeding that occured. I am pretty sure it is because she was not ready yet and got some friction from the condom. I do try to touch and rub her to get the juices flowing. She won't even let me go down on her or her on me. How can I get her to let me prepare her for pleasure? Serious answers only please.

2006-11-19 11:55:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have bipolar and part of that is I react to emotional pain very strongly. I feel overwhelmed just now with things to do for Christmas etc and yesterday my husband brought a lot of stuff that had been in storage to our small apartment.
We went shopping for food and came back. I felt very stressed because of all the stuff to put away and the food that we had bought aswell as the dishes from the meal I had made the night before. My husband has a very physical job and so is tired a lot when he is at home. He wanted to take a nap and I needed to deal with the mess. I got mad at him and he left and hasn't come home or phoned me. I am hurt because he knows about my mental illness and I don't feel he is being very kind or understanding.

2006-11-19 11:52:21 · 17 answers · asked by JAM 3

We are in agreement in what we want to do with our things and we have one child together and are in agreement with custody and visitation. I have read that you can have the divorce paperwork done online and then file it with your local court of course paying the filing fee. I was wondering if anyone else has done this and how it went and if you actually had to go to court.

2006-11-19 11:51:10 · 4 answers · asked by SHOP GIRL 3

buys you stuff... but doesn't say "I love you."
What if he pays your rent.... but doesn't kiss you.
What if he talks to you about stuff, but doesn't care to meet your family or friends and doesn't want you to meet his.
What if he pays the bills... but doesn't touch you.
Says "no" all the time, but later does what you asked.
Is cold and removed, but doesn't want you to go.
What if you adore him and can't stand feeling like a fool for staying, but can't leave because you adore him.
And this goes on for years.
What would you do?

2006-11-19 11:48:09 · 19 answers · asked by Ade 6

Cus mine sure is and I'm about to lose my mind.

2006-11-19 11:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by Kelli D 2

I love my fiance so much but her refuses to see the truth. He is leaving me and I have done nothing wrong. I hurt so bad....

2006-11-19 11:29:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex wife is threatning that our said child now 6 is not mine. We were married at the time she was born. Now that we are divorced she does not let me see my said child. I have went to full links to make visitations possible. So now that I have made arrangements to go and get my child for the holidays and not taking no for a answer she is not mine and I have no rights. I know in Illinois that your automaticly considered or assumed to be the father if married to the mother when child is born. I was gone during my said childs birth due to basic tranning. Illinois also has a aknowledgement of paternity you have to sign for your name to go on the birth certificate. My ex put my name on this without a power of attorney.

My question is what are my rights and if a paternity test shows that I am not the father what steps can I take.

2006-11-19 11:29:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating the guy who was my doctor. Weird I know, but true. He's a lot older than I am. I'm having a great time with him. I'm only 22. He's been great. We both are taking things slowly cause we think it's the best way to make it work. He's divorced. I told my family we're dating and they are not happy at all, saying that he's too old for me and that he was my gynecologist and that what he's doing is taking advantage of me when I know he isn't. He wanted to come home and meet my family but that's not possible now cause of what they think. I don't want to tell him what they told me cause he might feel bad. I really like him, I know he likes me, he loves my child, and I think we have something good here, but it makes me feel horrible the reaction my family had. I've found much more support in yahoo answer than in my family. I'm so confused. I want to be with him but I want my family approval. I want to think that they might change their minds with time. I need an advice

2006-11-19 11:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine is in the process of getting divorced. His soon to be ex-wife keeps postponing it just to make him mad. How long can this go on before he takes matters into his own hands and files? She is moving out of the state, and refuses to take care of the issue. This is in Michigan. He can't even buy a house because of the Dowry laws in the state. Shes getting away with it because shes the one who filed first.

2006-11-19 11:16:28 · 2 answers · asked by chestr22 2

If I give a 3 day pay or quit, and she doesn't leave can I move her stuff out, or do I have to start eviction?

2006-11-19 11:10:49 · 20 answers · asked by deepfriedspit 1

First I am not married but I am in long, serious relationship, with the talk of marriage coming up frequently. My boyfriend and I are 5 years apart in age, I am still finishing up with college, while he has a stable job etc.. We both love eachother very much but there is one "problem" and it is on my end. When I first met him, I was a virgin, and he was/is my first "real" boyfriend. Well, because of the age difference, obviously, he has been with other women before me. It bothers me a bit, but because of my lack of inexperience, I find myself very jealous of some of his ex's-for different reasons. When I get jealous, I take it out on him, which is killing our relationship. Also, sometimes I feel like its not fair that if we get married he would have been with five women while I would have only been with him. Im not against just being with him, but because of that I get VERY insecure. I feel like I'lll never be sexy enough, good in bed, etc. Any tips, advice, stories would be helpful!

2006-11-19 11:10:25 · 19 answers · asked by Ash_082 2

i have a steady job and he doesn't for the last past two months,he says he has a dream that we will be wealty one day but now we are staying with his mother and just recently lost our place due to lack of funds. so i decided to get a checking account to save money for a new place. but seems to me as if he's mad about me putting money in the bank. what should i do

2006-11-19 11:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by big bone 1

2006-11-19 11:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by myownmailbox2003 2

I am so hurt and depressed right now. He got upset at me for not dropping the subject of a conversation we were having which I only didn't because he was assuming something to be true that wasn't and I wanted to be more clear with him. He then started cussing at me and called me a b**** about 10 times and was screaming in my face to where I felt his saliva on my face, he said he was sick of my s**t, and its over b***h multiple times. He then ran into the garage and I went to see what he was doing he then slammed his hand on the hood of his truck, punched his side mirror and still yelled on top of his lungs. I then left the situation. Later that evening he said he didn't know what to say because he knows he hurt me. He said we can talk about it the next day. Well here we are going over the events of last night and he explodes on me again this time by only yelling at me. I basically have no means of any communication with him right now. I can't say anything that sounds like complaining..

2006-11-19 11:03:54 · 21 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1

2006-11-19 10:59:50 · 19 answers · asked by Lilly 1

I've heard social workers use this term many times. It seemed so strange I thought it would never touch my life so I never bothered to find out what it was. Now I've been very ill and in and out of Doc's offices/hospitals for 11 months now. I've brought no money into the home. My husband works 100+ hrs per week, always did even when I had a job. His 20 something son works full-time and the 18 yr old part-time. We all live in a small apt. When rent/utilities are due totally $850 monthly (or $280 each they all struggle to pay). It's thrown in my face that I'm not "contributing". I'm given about $3-5 per day to eat, get gas to take sons to work, etc. I'm never allowed to see any paycheck stubs or bank accounts. If this isn't financial abuse I don't know what is OR is it? Does anyone know for sure?

2006-11-19 10:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by zoe_southernusa 1

2006-11-19 10:48:09 · 22 answers · asked by hello 1

visit a real web site that offered advise on dating mostly how to get over a heart break and start new what kinds of things would you want to see on it? I am starting a web site and looking for public input. thanks for all your help!

2006-11-19 10:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by buster 2

2006-11-19 10:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by rinnie 1

I don't see any good in my situation in my life.

I divorced my husband and he has custody of my child who lives in another state. My child is not doing well in school or emotionally or mentally. She needs help and says that she needs a friend and help with school.

I have started a new job that I can't stand. Each and every minute is terrible. There was no training provided and they have already asked me to work on Saturday when I just started on Monday. When I interviewed, they said there was work/ life balance.

I am living with my parents, but do not want to discuss my feelings with them. They say that I will have to sacrifice my life if I go back to live with my ex and child.

My ex constantly sends me mean and nasty e-mails.

My child was here for the summer with me. I promised her that I would come back and live with her, but decided not because I saw my ex being abusive and controlling again.

2006-11-19 10:40:13 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2006-11-19 10:32:34 · 5 answers · asked by ajappe 1

My husband says he's going through a mid life crisis. I have feelings he might have had an affair but can not prove it just yet. One day we talk he says he loves me then the next day he says he doesn't think he wants to be married anymore. He's swaying back and forth everyday. So at this time I feel like a legal seperation might give us both the time to decide what we want to do. But I have a problem, we have 2 cars and both cars are in my name (loan and title). He has one of the cars right now. But if I give him the car in a legal seperation I won't be doing the payments or insurance anymore. Problem is that his DL is suspended and won't be fixed untill he pays off over $5000 in fines and spends 30 days in jail (which he won't do). So if I give him the car and he has an accident will I be held liable? Even if I have a legal piece of paper saying he took full responsibility? He's offering to pay both car payments as long as I keep the insurance. What do I do? Where do I stand?

2006-11-19 10:29:37 · 7 answers · asked by icesweetp 1

have one really big vein on his penis. also is it normal for a guy to have a brown line under the head???

2006-11-19 10:28:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and i have on and off since freshmen year of highschool we met in middleschool but hated each other till the end of 8th grade. I will be turning 24 years old soon and i really want to get married and to start a family. It took months of convicing to get him to ask me to marry him. He does not believe in it his parents went through a nasty divorce.When we first started talking about wether we wanted kids or not he said no and i said yes i wanted kids then he said well maybe i have to think about it?I found out last week he had a vasectomy done last year and never told me.I feel heart broken i have always wanted kids and i have been getting the baby itch recently. Make matters worse he does not even seem into getting married says he just gave in to shut me up what do i do?

2006-11-19 10:28:10 · 15 answers · asked by Jessie L 1

Me and my hubby married for 8 yrs with 2 kids. We have trouble with our marriage for 15 mos. Last yrs my hubby always on the computer play pokerparty until 7am. He didn't care about me and the kids. We always have a fight in the middle of the night. I asked him not to play pokerparty b/c i know that it will end our marriage.
But he never listen to me. And I checked his email and I found out that he thought about cheating on me early this yrs. I read some email that he wrote to other women. so now I don't have any feeling with him. So I told him that he could have other women out there but he have to promise to me that he will not get divorce until the kids is older. So we have an open marriage. But after I told him that He was online all the time search for women to have sex.
I just know that he will meet a lady on NOv 28 for a drink.
Do you think that he will have sex with her? If he still love me would he do that.

2006-11-19 10:23:04 · 15 answers · asked by prettysweetrite 1