2006-11-19 10:59:50 · 19 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes its possible, my wife cheated four years ago, I do love her. Our marriage is different, no more blind trust, and the love is not as deep as it once was.
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2006-11-19 11:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he truly can if you still love him, and you arent still cheating. Ive been there looking for support i wasnt getting at home an heavens knows it wasnt the right answer for me but my man never left my side, now together 7 years and are preg with our 2nd child. IT can only be if thats what him and you truly want though. Good Luck........it takes alot of work
2006-11-19 11:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he can still love you, the trust is broken, but just because you don't trust someone doesn't mean you don't still love them. Trust is something that is VERY hard to earn back, explicitly after someone has cheated and you may never get it back 100%, but if you want to make your relationship work then you both have you work hard at it.
2006-11-19 11:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you love him if he cheated?
It is possible that he may still love you, however it is very unlikely that he will be able to trust you. If he doesnt dump you you will have a very long and hard road ahead in order to win back his trust. Keep in mind that you brought this on yourself. Best of Luck
2006-11-19 11:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO offense but why would he want u back if u cheated on him? Maybe u should go find a man who knows nothing about you and u can never cheat again and keep this man.
2006-11-19 11:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty "N" Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubbie cheated on me 3 yrs ago-i love him and i hate him and i will prob. never forgive or forget right now i am trying to find a way. But keep in mind i am a bitter, mean, jaded old hag. It will always cause him pain and he might want to get back at you the same way-I know I do.
2006-11-19 11:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by jennie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be! But you have to be at least 'HONEST" with him in say all truth; and promise him that your would compensate him with deep LOVE and would never happen again.
IF he became angry or does stupid things your must not take it seriously, as long as he does not hurt you.
Usually after few week he would forgive you; in this period, you should give him the BEST services in the bed and kitchen!
2006-11-19 11:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my Question is why the heck did u cheat? if u love him now u must have loved him deep down when u were cheating on him.so u nedd to do some major appoligizing to both of them
2006-11-19 11:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by M e g a n * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know. going through this with my wife. The big things is I have lost all trust for her. If you can figure out a way a round that you might have a chance.
2006-11-19 11:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can. He just needs to feel like hes the one now and forever and youre not going anywhere else again. Show him if youve been given a second chance and you want it.
2006-11-19 16:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋