2006-11-19 10:48:09 · 22 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can not say that one is good and one is bad, or one is better than the other. I've known friends who were deeply in love before they got married and ended up divorcing in a few years.. other couples who feel in love , got married and still are happily living together. I've also known friends who's marriage was arranged by family and after they got to know each other are deeply in love and fully committed to each other. and a couple who's arranged marriage did not work out on and so on..
Marriage is an experience.. it needs to elements to work.. husband and wife and how much effort they are willing to invest in that relationship. Best of Luck
2006-11-19 11:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange marriage is better than love marriage. in lovemarriage love ending after marriage and arrange marriage love started after marriage
2006-11-19 11:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
2006-11-19 10:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whether it is arranged or love marriage...as long as you do not get difference of openion and continue to love and live together....its better.
There are break downs with love marriages and even arranged marriages. There should be understanding, and should have compatibility, respecting each other. Others may call it compromise.
2006-11-19 15:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a marriage to be all it can be there must be love. From what I understand love can come to an arranged marriage but I would think that it would have many obstacles to overcome. In a love match the love grows before the commitment. This makes the marriage stronger from the start. The first year in any marriage is difficult but I would think it would be almost impossible if there was no love to start with. So for me a marriage that is made from love and where love can continue to grow is the best .
2006-11-19 10:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love marriage is better but arranged marriages can sometime work out better than love,they'll eventually fall in love maybe
2006-11-19 11:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kappy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No marriage!!
But if you must, I would think a love marriage is the way to go...Arranged marriage is so much like a business contract - it doesn't sound very romantic
2006-11-19 11:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to tell you about me, my marriage was an arranged marriage, it was arranged by parents and later we fell in love such a way that we cannot live without each other, so the whole moral of story is, there is nothing wrong in either an arranged or love marriage, the thing what really matters is how you receive it. there are people who got seperated inspite of Love marriages, and there are people who stays for years with arranged marriages, everything depends is upon compromises should always be there between both, sometimes i like to Eat Pizzas and she likes to eat Pani Puri. I get adjusted to her needs and she also, this is how a healthy relation goes further.
2006-11-20 02:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personal I would say that a marriage out of love is the best.
2006-11-19 11:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love period...marriage is just a ceremony for people who love each other, so it has no bearing on this question. True love is the best thing ever, and once you feel true love you'll know. Arranged marriage is convient, but if it never turns into love then what a sorry life you'll have, never knowing what true love is.
2006-11-19 10:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋