He likes games and role play and has done alot, but myself have only had sex with one or the other on top...what should I do? I am embarrassed....
2006-11-19 12:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by dnlmndyr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Invite your best friend into the mix..that will liven things up..
2006-11-19 12:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I don't personally think games and role playing is kinky....whips and chains, handcuffs...that stuff is kinky...but you should just remember that this is between you and your husband, there's no one else there or watching you....just let yourself go...it's a lot of fun if you give it a chance, try to have an open mind, start with smaller less uncomfortable things for you, maybe oral sex for both of you, maybe toys, then move on to games and role playing when you're more comfortable with yourself, and show him just how happy you can make him;-) Good luck....Have fun with it.
2006-11-19 12:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DN, Sweetie, don't be embarrassed! Kinky sex varies in degrees, and it looks like your hubby is on the mild end.
Get some nasty books or magazines and read the stories. Put yourself in them.
Or, dress up in a nuns outfit (or whatever suits your taste). Play the role.
It's fun and not degrading. Have a good time with it. But, by all means, do NOT be embarrassed!
2006-11-19 12:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation.. I was with a man that I never wanted to have sex with, you know eyes closed, lights off, completly dark. The I met someone else. At first I was skeptical about him because he knew a lot more than I was ever exposed to. But with him, he made me feel secure and that there was nothing to be embarassed about. If you really love your partner, you 2 are the only 2 people in this world and nothing else matters. I love my man and get get to that point in a relationship you must be able to have adult conversations about sex and trying different things. Believe me if you are not trying at least one new position or trick a week you are missing out of a lot of fun.
2006-11-19 12:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by mga1550 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He' your husband, it's legal, and don't be embarrassed! In the bedroom all men want their wives to be whores! Although I never beleive that there is a reason to cheat, men look outside for what they can't get at home. Me personally, there is only one thing I won't do, he know's it and doesn't ask. I do however make up for it in other ways!
2006-11-19 12:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to be embarrassed he is the love of your life. Try some of the things he likes and also think of things you would like to try yourself. If your not comfortable with certain things then do not do it. Have fun we only live once.
2006-11-19 13:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be embarrassed too, But i figure what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom! Now i am more kinkier that my husband is!Just let yourself go,and have fun! start slowly and do what feels comfrontable to you, and your husband will notice and you'll start doing more and more! Just enjoy yourself
Have fun!
2006-11-19 12:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Shem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it isn't just about pleasing him, it's also about pleasing your self. If you find that fantasy inside yourself and live it out; then you may accomplish satisfying both of you at the same time and that is the ultimate goal......
2006-11-19 16:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by mountaintrvlr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're half way there, just by asking what to do... now the other half is to just know that it is OK, to have fun with sex.
Go have fun!
2006-11-19 13:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have know this before you got married...have him show you.. dont be embarassed..with time you will overcome that...you could do some reading and maybe even suprise him...but having him teach you would be the most fun...and rewarding
2006-11-19 12:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by diane b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋