Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2006

I have been apart from my husband for 11 years

2006-11-19 03:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by Paul H 2

a friend of mine had this problem in august and we only advised him to go for DNA check and report to police but upto now the out come is still uncertain what is your advise and can he still continue with that relationship?, what will be the effects of such problems.

2006-11-19 03:35:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandfather's betrothed wife who is also my best friend told my grandfather last night that she doesn't have a hymen and that she lost it riding a horse one day. I know this is true because I was there. She was crying so much because she thought a man would never want to be with her because of it. I remember holding her hand and telling her not to worry and that i could tell the truth about happened to her future husband. Well, my grandpa found out and he is so upset because she thinks she might have been sleeping around on him. I know this isn't true and she isn't that kind of girl. We have no secrets between us and she tells me everything, i know she is a virgin. My grandpa is talking about writing her a certificate of divorce and sending her away, but is still debating it. I have told him about what happened and he doesn't know what to believe. My best friend is so upset right now. How can I convince my grandpa of the truth so they can still get married and be happy?

2006-11-19 03:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

that he is having an affair with. Is there any way to get a hold of his cell phone records even if his work takes care of the bill?

2006-11-19 03:30:06 · 7 answers · asked by gowiththegut 1

We hardly ever doing anything maybe once a week ,my wife is content with this,why do women loose interest.Yahoo deleted my last question so i had to word this different

2006-11-19 03:13:54 · 10 answers · asked by skinme123 1

Every thing that goes wrong in his life is my fault(even at his work)
He does dishes 1x a week and had a fit and threw the pots and pans in the garbage while screaming obsenities at me.I havent been this unhappy since I was a child.
What can I do to make him see that its HIS problems and he shouldnt take them out on the rest of us?

2006-11-19 03:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Addie B 3

I am completly devoted to my DH, but latley I have been having feeling for my husbands friend, His old boss and I am going crazy. I would never act on anything, is it normal if you are happy to have feeling so strongly for another person? I do think he has flirted with me a little, but maaybe it just in my mind

2006-11-19 03:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by rxing 7

The kisses are limited and also the hugs. I love my husband but the love is not there anymore. Also how do I spark the love again?

2006-11-19 03:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been separated 7 months and divorced 4. My ex had an affair so the divorce went very quickly. My son has just found out that his Dad's friend is actually his girlfried and he is a little angry right now. He has refused to talk to his Dad. Yesterday something very exciting happened in my son's life. I called my ex to give him a heads up that his son would likely call him. Something I thought they both needed. So...my son called his Dad repeatly over 3 hours on his cell. He was very disappointed that his Dad did not answer. So I went in another room and called the other woman's cell and guess what - he answered. He has call display - he chose not to answer his son's call. I got angry. I told him to call his son and hung up. Then he called me back and said the most hurtful things and even threatened me. Why? Maybe I should not have got angry but I am tired of covering for him. Is it right for a father to be our of touch completely? What if it was an emergency?

2006-11-19 02:57:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's really interesting that how many percent of girls are virgine when they marry, what do you think?

2006-11-19 02:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by bravio 1

The wife went out and did some "early Christmas shopping" and spend 2000 dollars yesterday. This was totally without my permission, luckily I ended up finding out when I checked our online banking statement this morning. She knows better than this, should I lay down the law? Take away the card? Make her take the stuff back?

2006-11-19 02:49:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our kid is 2yrs old and he stays with me right now. His mother has filed for divorce and is only seeking visitation on everyother weekend, but I am conserned for his safety because the guy she has left me for is a convicted child abuser, that is fresh out of prison and on probation. He's not a sexual abuser just that he beat his own kids. The last time I let my ex have our son over night at his house she told me on the phone that she had let our son take a shower with the guy. I went and picked up my son and am refusing to give her visitation while she is living with that guy because I dont want my son around him. She also has a history of violence towards me, and sees a counseler for depresion. She does not work only draws SSI, and she is 20yo and I am 25 college grad with a full time job, and the guy she is with is 40yo. We were both swingers when we met the guy she is with. He has kicked out his wife of 10yrs to be with her, and she is in and out of clinics for being suicida

2006-11-19 02:47:09 · 8 answers · asked by jcntx 1

I am from Bangalore in India and my wife is from Calcutta. The marriage was registed in Calcutta. So if I have to file for divorce, can I file it in Bangalore or do I need to file that in Calcutta court only. Please share your experiences or knowledge on this matter.
Thank you.

2006-11-19 02:28:51 · 10 answers · asked by blore b 1

2006-11-19 02:25:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 02:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my second attempt to have a relationship and continue with my career path which includes travel. I love my job and I also love my boyfriend. Is it possible to have both? If so, how?

2006-11-19 01:56:41 · 8 answers · asked by Kathleen L 1

to work till 12am and we had 2 kids he use to drink a lot and I would fine him drunk on the floor with a line of beer cans all over when I got home I got tried of it, but we went out all the time we go to the beaches and the movies, restarant, vacations, anywhere, I wanted and what ever I wanted. but I got tried and found some one else and threw him out and both of us remarried to someone else well I been married for 6 years and he been married for 4 but my new husband doesnt like to do anything or go anywhere he tells me I can go If I want to, and he dont drink . one day I had a dream that I wanted to go back with my ex I dont know what happend but I want to go back with the father of my kids we are friends he tells me he loves me cause Im his kids mother but hes not in love with me anymore I know I messed up and now Im just missable sometime we talk and he tells me try to get me back and I say how he says I dont know how to get him back can someone help me.

2006-11-19 01:53:03 · 17 answers · asked by nancy o 4

My husband is an amazing and loving person. He's a real romantic, the way he speaks to me, kisses and handles me. But, whenever it came to the aspect of approaching each other, maybe for sex or a more intimate time together, neither of us seem to get it right. Maybe it's the shyness or something, from our new marriage? I'm not sure. He seems to be figuring out how to start, and i think that i should try to take matters into my own hand as well. I'm kind of new to this. How can I approach him, any advice?

2006-11-19 01:51:07 · 22 answers · asked by Nitha 2

Trying really hard to remember what I am grateful for and get through it. I cannot remember the last time i was so alone.

I am grateful for my children, my home, my ex husband, my soon to be ex, my inlaws, my parents who passed away 17+ yrs ago, my dog who never stops barking LOL anyway what are you grateful for ?

2006-11-19 01:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by bayoubelle98 3

2006-11-19 01:38:14 · 15 answers · asked by vIdYa 2

2006-11-19 01:34:34 · 7 answers · asked by . 1

My child is 14 and lives with her Dad in another state. I am very worried about her because she is lonely and not doing that well in school.

I was thinking of going to visit her over Thanksgiving. I would stay in a hotel and rent a car. I would also have to take time off from work.

My friend is saying that this is a burning issue in my life and it would help me to take this trip and be more emotionally involved in my child's life.

I am unsure if I will be able to see her though. My ex and I have been trying to get back together, but now he says that I am selfish and not marriageable material. So, I think that he is ready to move on.

My mother-in-law lives in town and the last time that I went to visit I stayed with her. Now my ex does not want her to talk with me. He says that I cause destruction all around me and am not worth talking to.

I want to do what is best for my child and me, but am unsure what that is.

2006-11-19 01:26:20 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2006-11-19 01:12:54 · 18 answers · asked by nicole b 1

My Wife And I Are Embroiled In A No Compromise Arguement. I Absolutely Insist On Wearing A Condom.....and She Absolutely Insists That I Do Not. I Told Her Do Not Take It Personally. No One Controls Biology So I Feel Its Better That We Both Be Safe Than Sorry. She's Far From A Virgin And I Learned Many STD's Stay Dormant For Up To 10 Years. Sure, She Checked Out Okay....For Now. But I Dont See Her Being Willing To Take Various Tests Every 6 Months (Although I, Myself Would Be Willing). I Am Willing To Divorce A Loved One If I Have To When It Comes To Securing My Health.

2006-11-19 01:08:27 · 39 answers · asked by ur_main_man2 2

My fiance of 2 years is leaving me because he believes I have cheated on him. I HAVE NOT!! He said if I tell him why and that I did it he would stay. Well, I tried that before. He has a recording of him and I and the TV. He says that it is not his voice and that I had two guys here. I am not that type of person. I have been cheated on and know how it feels. I couldn't demean myself nor could I hurt him. I have done everything I could to help him and us. He had major surgery at the begining of our relationship and when his disability ran out I supported him financially and encouraged him to do good for himself. He finally got a job 3 weeks ago and now he is leaving. I know he is just insecure because in all of his major relationships the woman cheated on him. He thinks I am into weird stuff and I am not. I just want to spend the rest of my life with him and have a normal happy relationship. I am heart broken as I can see his is because of what he believes.

2006-11-19 00:55:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for divorce data by state, and the number of women filing versus men.

2006-11-19 00:54:26 · 1 answers · asked by Dominic N 1

is he feeling inferior, what ?

2006-11-19 00:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by Chi-Girli 3

1) My close friends are all married, so I guess it's time for me to settle down as well

2) We need to get married so we can buy an apartment

3) Both our parents are bugging us to settle down

4) Opps! I got pregnant!

5) He got down on his knees and proposed!

6) Better get married before my partner starts diverting interest!

7) We both know we are the ones for each other.

2006-11-19 00:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by citrusy 6

Usually I start each and every Sunday morning out with amazing s e x (since this is the only morning hubby and I are up at the same time) Well he is hunting this week and I am having a heck of a time getting myself motivated...how do you do it?

2006-11-19 00:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by BiancaVee 5

I have been married for 8 years and for 5 of those i havent really been happy and have stayed for the children, i feel so guilty about wanting to leave my husband the kids will be devistated. i simply do not love him anymore, we have had money trouble in the past that we argued over, then we won some money and he hasent been back to work for a year all he does is sit and watch the tele and tell the children off . Just lately he has been really nice and everything should be fine but for me the feelings have just gone. please help all my friends are happily married and do not understand.

2006-11-19 00:37:49 · 40 answers · asked by mum n 1