My grandfather's 22 yr. old betrothed wife does not have a hymen, I know she is a virgin, how to convince him?

Question

My grandfather's betrothed wife who is also my best friend told my grandfather last night that she doesn't have a hymen and that she lost it riding a horse one day. I know this is true because I was there. She was crying so much because she thought a man would never want to be with her because of it. I remember holding her hand and telling her not to worry and that i could tell the truth about happened to her future husband. Well, my grandpa found out and he is so upset because she thinks she might have been sleeping around on him. I know this isn't true and she isn't that kind of girl. We have no secrets between us and she tells me everything, i know she is a virgin. My grandpa is talking about writing her a certificate of divorce and sending her away, but is still debating it. I have told him about what happened and he doesn't know what to believe. My best friend is so upset right now. How can I convince my grandpa of the truth so they can still get married and be happy?

Answer 1

You are getting too mixed up in your ridiculous stories - you say grandpa is considering writing her a certificate of divorce, but they are not even married yet. Gee.

I notice that the pork in the orifice story was deleted - toning it down now a bit, are you?

Is this some type of therapy for you to write this trash?

Answer 2

Your grandpa isn't a virgin so he has no business acting that way towards any woman that he gets involved with. And why in the world would a 22 year old woman want to be with a man that is old enough to be her grandfather? If anything he needs to watch out for her motives for marrying him and not act like he's bringing virginity into the marriage himself.

Answer 3

That's disgusting - your grandfather and a 22 yr. old?!?

Here is what you need to do.

1. Tell your 22 yr. old friend to get a real life and that your grandpa is a sick, sick man.
2. Tell your grandpa what a sick, sick man he is.


I'm assuming this question is a joke from a disturbed individual or from someone living in a way backwards 3rd world country.

Answer 4

I am going to assume you are not in the United States by the language you were using. Men, especially ones uneducated about a womans anatomy think of their ego instead of the fact that it is possible that your friend is a virgin even though she lost her hymen. ( but horseback riding is a popular excuse for women who are not virgins but are pretending to be). Your grandfather should be lucky to even be marrying a 22 yr old!!!! It sounds like a sick situation but who am I to kock another persons culture, unless you are in the US and in that case its sick and twisted.

Answer 5

First of all how would you know???? Secondly? Life is short, let him live his life the way he wants. If he isn't hurting anyone. What concern is it of yours. If you stopped worrying about everyone else, maybe you could enjoy your own life a little more because you will be his age before you know.

Answer 6

Ah, your questions grow more hard to believe. Could it be people are reviewing your history before answering?

But to answer your question, you should stay out of it

Answer 7

Your grandfather, no matter what country your in, has no business with a 22 year old, he's a child molester.

Answer 8

get a grip! that is a fallacy. What makes you think she hadn't fooled around before your friendship? Besides she is engaged to your grandfather? Wow that's almost child molestation if he does marry her.

Answer 9

Tell the sick dirty old bastard to be happy with the wife he already has. And if others will just read your other posts, they will see you need serious help also.

Answer 10

It doesn't really matter how it happened does it. He should just send her away. At least check her for pork.