2006-11-19 02:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No your not crazy, you just haven't learned how to move on.
You really need to make some changes in your life......this is unhealthy to be living this way for this long.
Someone could help you move on....friends, church, sports group, club, or even go and find a therapist.....they will be able to give you the support you need....
Make some changes for yourself.....life is too short to be unhappy!!!
2006-11-19 02:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take in consideration what the relationship was with him. Did he have an addiction outside your marriage? If so you probably aquired an addiction to HIM without even realizing it. An addiction is hard to overcome. Especially a love addiction. There are many books out there such as "Facing love addiction" by Pia Melody. This book will help you to understand the vicious cycle. Also take in consideration, how codependant you may have been. By all means hon, when you are feeling like you miss him, try hard to remember all his flaws and why you got divorced in the first place. Always keep the bad things about him in perspective whenever you feel like you cant live without him. It will help you to move on. Good luck to you. You are in my prayers
2006-11-19 14:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you certainly are.... Assuming that you are a lady of average looks, intelligence, job, style, there are lots of nice people --- men --- who would like to meet you, if you are interested. But seven years, hon, is a long time to be living in the past ---- those are years you will never get back, and years you could have used sharing with a man, should you have wished to. Write me if you want to know what you can do. If not, spend another 7......
2006-11-19 14:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to put the matter to rest, to move forward, but there are people we are always going to miss.
Accepting that they are gone will help, but you don't need to forget them, fond memories are a good thing as long as they don't keep you from moving forward. So enjoy the feeling but get busy.
P.S. I have 3-4 people that I miss, including a childhood playmate that I haven't seen in 44 years and an ex-husband that I haven't seen in 18 years. They say it takes a moment to meet someone and a lifetime to forget them.
Peace.
2006-11-19 10:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a long time to feel this way still. Maybe you should see a counselor about it seriously. I mean most would have gone on with there life by now. It's the only thing I can think of to help you to move on with your life. Right now it seems your wasting so much of your life and life's to short for that. good luck to you ;o)
2006-11-19 12:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, to miss someone is OK to still love them is sick get over it and move on , if you thought about it how would you feel if your husband said i slept with 20 women before i met you i miss them all
2006-11-19 10:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by cctucker75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you miss him, if you miss the good things and times when something reminds you of them that is one thing.
However if you obsess about the relationship to the point of it interfering with daily activities and new relationships that is another. In that case I would see professional counseling.
2006-11-19 10:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is normal behavior I would think..Since most partners have a major influence on who we become whether it be in a positive or negative experience...
2006-11-19 10:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy. However, OleMarble's response to your question appears to be the most appropriate.
2006-11-19 10:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy. You still have feelings for him.
2006-11-19 11:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Just Because 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋