Although it may be painful to follow your gut, Why would you want to uncover what your heart is telling you? The heart never lies, and (as difficult as it may be) you will have to be emotionally stable to uncover what you already know. My question is this...(if you presume that your husband is cheating on you). Why would you want to resort to his level to get answers? A woman's intuition is always right, but remember to keep your dignity. I realize that this is a painful time for you, and you may need substantial proof of adultery to protect your assets. I cannot give you advice, but a civil option to establish his adulterous behavior might be by hiring a private investigator. During your difficult time, surround yourself with love, partake in "feel-good" activities, and never lose sight of your dignity or self-worth.
2006-11-19 11:21:04
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answered by Nut 2
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Call to have all of his cell calls forwarded to your cell phone. I know it can be done. Keep talking to people from the cell company until you get someone that can help you. Don't tell them why you need it done. Make up a horrible lie like he is in the hospital and you need to be able to receive his calls. They'll help you in a heart beat. I can't believe I just wrote that. I'm not normally a devious person. Guess it's the Scorpio in me. :) Sweety... It's not fun being cheated on and the best thing you can do is let it go and move on without your husband. But... If you sit on it for a few days and can't let it die then I'd do what I suggested above. Good luck to you and God bless!
2006-11-19 19:00:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Ok, I have been in this same situtation. First of all it is usually a 4 digit passcode. Many people use the year they were born, last 4 digits of their ss number, those types of important dates. If all else fails....take the phone while he is sleeping and when he realizes that it is "lost" he will have to go without, at least for a while. Giving you some time to snoop and maybe if your lucky the woman will call. Look for prior cell phonebills, anything you can get your hands on as physical proof.
2006-11-19 18:57:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Most cellphone providers have on line billing and call records. If you husband does not use this feature, sign up to his account on line and get all the phone number information.
You will be able to determine call patterns and durations. Start calling the numbers and hope they have voice mail. You can get the names associated with many of the people that way. At least you will be able to determine which ones are women (let's hope it's women).
Try that and report back.
2006-11-19 18:52:21
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answered by Anonymous
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if he is having an affair and you know this for a definite fact, don't worry about his phone calls just have all his stuff at the door, when he gets home.. There is nothing more you can do to him or his amour
2006-11-19 18:48:13
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answered by rkilburn410 6
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Don't worry about his cell phone. Get into the bank account, withdraw what you can get your hands on, and put it in another account, in your name. Then go home, call a locksmith, change the locks on the house. When he comes home, tell him he doesn't live there anymore. And get checked for STDs. If he's messing around, you can't be sure you're safe.
2006-11-19 18:46:53
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answered by Baby'sMom 7
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Phone codes are 4#s most of the time try tell him you want to play the lottery and ask him for his luckiest 4 #s..see if that works gl
2006-11-19 20:04:33
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answered by mrcc33 1
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well try to figure it out, codes are something a person choses, not the phone company, so try to think like your husband and check it.. good luck, or call the store and let them know you forgot the coed and need it reset
2006-11-19 18:46:42
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answered by goodlookin.mama 4
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If you're sure why snoop around....don't ask him if he's having an affair because cheaters will lie.
Tell him that you know he is and then the two of you have to deal from there.
2006-11-19 18:48:09
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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lf he's using your home phone to listen to his voice mail, then just dial redial after he finish his phone call. I did that twice and I caught guys. They were still lying even tough I had proof. You could be surprise and confirm that you are not paranoid.
2006-11-19 18:48:27
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answered by exotica 2
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