Are you happy with the person you married, or are you sorry that you married that person and often wonder if you'd be better off married to someone else?
2006-11-19 08:57:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, im divorced. While I loved my husband we had too many issues, particularly his looney family. So unless they were gone, no, i would not marry him again. But, I also would not give up the years we had together, or the beautiful son we have together, for anything.
2006-11-19 09:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will start by telling you that marriage is not a bed of roses.Alot will happen that will leave you wondering whether or not you made the right choice,but not to worry,they are also very wonderful times in marriage.I"ll advice that you make the best out of the worst,as a woman you can make it work if you put your heart to it,don't ever think they's someone out there that's better than your husband,stop comparing and concentrate on making it work.I have been married for 3yrs come december and i'm proud and happy to say "I'LL MARRY THE SAME PERSON OVER AGAIN" inspite of everything. Just keep the fire burning.All the best.
2006-11-27 14:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by WIFEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 35 years and I have a complicated answer to that.
Yes, no, and it depends. I love my husband and think I'm mostly very lucky to have been his wife. However, I sometimes think I made a mistake because he and I don't share many of the same interests. He's simply tolerant of me in many ways and I really don't think he has much interest in my point of view. We are very good to each other and care a lot about each other, but, honestly, I think we would have made better choices as far as being really compatible goes. Could I have known then what I know now? No. I had no insight into the long term relationships. People in their 20's have NO clue what they or the other person will be like in 10,20, 30 years. I think people should wait as long as possible before committing. Even 35's not too old. You stand a better chance.
2006-11-19 17:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by skybear97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately would! My husband and I have been together 7 years, and married 6 1/2. We met online, yahoo chats, and got married 4 months later. It has been the best thing so far. So for me, it's a yes I would do it all over again!
2006-11-19 17:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cody's momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all wonder about our past choices. Did we make the right ones? To answer your questions, yes I would remarry the same person. I have learned many things with the time I have spent with him. It is a journey and has helped make who I am today. To change it would change who I am. The same thing can be said about everything in my past. The good and the bad. I am a better person today thanks to the time I have spent with him. Am I happy? Not really, but I am content. Have I ever wondered what it would be like if I had ran for the door ir never meet him? Of course, I am only human. I would never change it though.
2006-11-19 17:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret getting married sometimes. I guess it's understandable being that I married at age 17. I know that if I was to go back and I chose not to marry my husband I wouldn't have married anyone else either, at least not until I was older.
2006-11-19 17:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your question directly; No I would
not marry the same person all over again be-
cause it would be no need to. She is the love
of my wife and me to her and we will not leave
each other for another because after 20 years
married we can put up with our differences and
still love each other. And for those of u who r
thinking, no we do not cheat on each other.
2006-11-19 17:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 29+ years
5 kids
3 grand kids
Marry her again?
In a heartbeat.
Go to I tunes or an oldies station, and request,or find the Jimmie Rogers song "Kisses sweeter than wine"
2006-11-19 20:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And I don't think I will ever marry again. After 20 years of this !!!
2006-11-19 18:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by pat1268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. I think everyone has times when they think the grass is greener on the other side. My husband is a good person but after years of marriage, we have drifted apart and enjoy different things. I sometimes think what fun it would be to be single again but would it? That's the $64,000 question!
2006-11-19 18:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋