Ok, lets say that your ex-spouses' new spouse, worked as a biochemist, at hopital that you had to use to have an important surgery. Do you have the right to ask for that person not to test your blood, because of conflict of intrest. And does the other have the right to upset by you asking that they not do it. Acting as though they would loose their job??
hope i got all that out clear enough..... THANKS ahead of time for everyones helpful answers, and thoughts!!!
2006-11-19 09:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by TamBam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok... more details, between she and I, she cant stand the air that I breeth, and once said that she would put a restraining order on me, because I went over to my childrens home to get our oldest school shoes. He and I have joint custody, week on week off....so on
2006-11-19 09:50:44 · update #1
She will be the one to test the/my blood, and give the reports....
2006-11-19 15:49:47 · update #2
Yes, I would say you would have every right to say no way, and the other person needs to respect that , I wouldn't even want family sticking needles in me let alone my ex's new spouse
2006-11-19 09:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be classed as conflict of interest. I wouldnt want my ex's new partner testing my blood, because of the confidentiality issues and trust issues.
She is acting with little or no proffessionalism to claim she will lose her job if she tests your blood. She can test your blood as she would test anyone elses if you have no objection, she would lose her job if she used the results for personal gain or broke the confidentiality laws she is bound by. So, by saying she will lose her job, does she mean she is intending to break these laws if she tests your blood.
She obviously does not understand the privacy and confidentiality laws that surround her proffession if she feels she cant test your blood without respecting her clients rights to confidentiality.
Write to the hospital and ask that she have nothing to do with your case. Just state conflict of interest, there is no need to share the whole story.
2006-11-19 09:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by kate d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do have the right to be involved with all aspects of something as important as surgery, but you didn't say if you are on good terms with this person, I mean it would take a diabolicle person to mess with labs just cause your her mans ex!!! I think in general she'd be too scared of losing her job, cuz she'd be your first suspect if something went wrong. If I were the lab person I wouldn't want to take your blood, just for that reason.
2006-11-19 09:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one who tests the blood could loose their job if they discussed the results with another or even that the test was done.
If you are uncomfortable with one that might be involved in your case, you need to speak up about it. I think perhaps you might want to look into using a different facility since it seems that trust is an issue with this one.
2006-11-19 09:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the first part of the question, my answer is absolutely yes. And it it a no regarding the other part. Why should someone be upset because you see a conflict of interest. You are entitled to your opinion. End of story.
2006-11-19 09:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do have that right and in this case, maybe you should exercise the right. You don't need to go into any detail. Just, tell them that you request anybody but her. Period. And, she has the same right. And, it would be for the best if she did the same. OK?
2006-11-19 11:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you do not get on with this person then you do have the right to ask someone else to do the tests and the other person really has no right to be upset . to be honest they should not want to do them either.
2006-11-19 09:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to ask and I am sure if you explained that it's because it's your ex's new spouse..they would be more than happy to respect your request.
2006-11-19 09:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care about someone losing their job, all I know is that no one is going to do my blood work until I give my permission. And I will decide who I let do it and who I won't.
2006-11-19 09:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your doctor to have someone else test it,but if she really want to know she will weather or not she is doing the test.
2006-11-19 09:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋