Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2006

Me & my ex have 3 kids so yes we have to have contact. My ex is remarried & I don't really have a problem with her. But any time him & I talk my boyfriend acts like I've cheated on him. He says I shouldn't be laughing or smiling or talking for that long. If I call my ex to let him know of an activity for one of the kids or just to tell him something about the kids my current asks me why do you have to tell him? My current has an evil ex & they share 2 kids so she doesn't share anything with him & he basically has to notify her by ceritfied mail with return receipt because she is such an idiot and uses the kids. Me & my ex get along & have no problems for the most part. We had one MAJOR issue that caused us to divorce which in turn had other issues brought into the marriage. He didn't help raise them but has taken in interest in their lives and I want to help him with that so I communicate with him. So why does my current feel it's wrong?

2006-11-11 07:10:23 · 14 answers · asked by tygernside 3

hi, i'm a recently remarried mother of 3. all was as it should be until after a somewhat minor surgery i was dismissed from my job.my husband and i fought and i was able to collect unemployment however we suffered a serios financial loss. despite my efforts i have come up empty in my job search. now we find ourselves comming up empty handed. we are in danger of having electricity turned off, water, phone and everthing. my husband works so hard every day and i do what i can odd jobs and so on but i'm affraid that my girls will have no christmas this year. does anyone have an advice or know of anywhere we can find help? i feel almost unfit and i'm very scared that my mistakes will ruin my girls belief in Santa!

2006-11-11 07:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by esmith_75 1

she has been acting strange and we have been on the way out, i would rather catch her in the act because I know her enuf to know she will deny it. what can i do to catch her?

2006-11-11 06:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3

2006-11-11 06:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by aliciloveyou 1

Six months ago I told my wife I want a divorce. It has taken me years to come to this decision. For years she made me feel terrible about myself. One day I decided I couldn't take it any more and refused to let her bully me and to stop always caving in to her. She had said numerous times that she was unhappy, wanted to leave and leave me with the children-2 sons, that I should find someone else, that it was her and not me. We tried counseling a few years back, but only after I wrote her a letter. That attempt failed miserably.

Two months prior to telling her I wanted a divorce, she told me that it was ok if I didn’t love her anymore and if it was over to just tell her. I guess I wasn’t ready and said lets just wait a little longer. I get up the nerve to tell her I want a divorce and she flips out completely. The next day we talk and she goes on how she wants to counseling and I caved in. Here we are 6 months later and I am still unhappy. I dont feel for her the way she does about me.

2006-11-11 06:47:31 · 23 answers · asked by matt813 1

i am a married 19 yr old and we have a 15 month old baby. we got married when i was 17, but now im regretting it. dont get me wrong, i wld do it all over again just for my little one because i love him so much, but everything else seems to have gone pear-shaped with my husband. firstly on his stag night he wrote an email to another woman saying "im getting married tomorrow but its u ill always love" - i found out after being married for a few weeks, then he asked me to convert to islam (his religion) and stopped me drinking, then he threw out all my clothes he didnt like without consulting me, and now he threatens to have an affair or to hit me when we argue. he says if our son turns out bad it will be me who he blames and if he is not religious enough, he will take him to pakistan to live and i wont c him again, i still love him but i cant trust him and he is very secretive, but if i divorce i will feel like a failure.

2006-11-11 06:46:34 · 32 answers · asked by katie 2

if iwant sex he makes me wait when he wants it its right now so what do u do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-11 06:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by kandie g 1

My MIL is controlling my husband like a little boy he always listen to her and cannot stand up to her. How do i put her in her place and let her know that she is not a part of my marriage and now that her son is married to me i'm the woman of his life and not her?
she is very possessive of her son even though he is almost 35 years old but she always acts with authority and he acts like a little kid. I want to show her that she cannot control him any longer and mess in our lifes!

2006-11-11 06:41:55 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica L 1

I just had my 10 year anniversary. I noticed that every time we go to dine out with my parents he wears his ring, but really that is the only time. So I took mine off and he finally noticed and was insulted and had an attitude. Needless to say things are not going great, but I think a ring and marriage itself should have meaning.

2006-11-11 06:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-11 06:24:16 · 25 answers · asked by Ravi M 1

I consider kissing,sex,anything in that area.
But my hubby was busted by me a couple of years ago and claimed he didn't have sex with her. He kissed her and that isn't cheating.
Do other people feel that kissing isn't cheating?
I feel it is
I am just looking for opinions on this

2006-11-11 06:23:55 · 21 answers · asked by Dana A 3

what am i entitled to, we have a son together, so i know child support, what else?

2006-11-11 06:10:34 · 18 answers · asked by butterfly_eyez 2

If they told you they ended up going to their grown child's house after leaving a bar,...would you believe them?
Would you think they had been messing around with someone?

2006-11-11 06:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by Dana A 3

My wife had a friend who caught her husband in the act and she told my wife that it was just like sheating since he wasn't with her. I thought that was ridiculous. I can understand someone feeling a bit upset but comparing it too cheating is taking it way too far in my opinion. What do you think?

2006-11-11 06:09:35 · 32 answers · asked by E_Soup 5

Hubby wanted a baby, I had 1 grown child and one almost grown, he had none. So i had baby he wanted and i love but now he has become a hunter so he leaves every weekend. So now I stay home with the baby. i am so lonely. This is just what i said i didn't want to happen. I amost had a life but now i have started over.

2006-11-11 06:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by dixiedarling 4

2006-11-11 05:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-11 05:51:47 · 18 answers · asked by annu k 1

I feel so uncertain and sad most of the time that I don't know what to do. I am in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage and I have heard that it is not my fault that it's something within him that causes this. I still feel that if I were sweeter and does what he wants that my marriage would be better. He calls me names, degrades me, doesn't care about my opinions and puts his family ahead of me. He says that I'm nothing to him compared ot his family. He won't even buy me a new winter coat unless I practically have to sweet talk him into it. Then he'll turn around and tell me to give him everything back that he has given to me and that I don't appreciate him. Yesterday he made me give him back the boots and clothes that he has bought me over the past year. Then when his dragon(rage) is napping, he'll be mr niceguy and he throws me for a loop ; emotional rollercoaster. I feel so scared to finally leave. I feel guilty and like a failure. PS, 2 kids 6 & 4. We're 34- 13yrs 2gether

2006-11-11 05:51:31 · 24 answers · asked by Veronique 3

2006-11-11 05:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by ASHA 1

2006-11-11 05:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by annu k 1

2006-11-11 05:47:00 · 2 answers · asked by annu k 1

yet, he is no longer intereseted in sex, only when he wants it very seldom, i came to bed naked last night and rubbed all over him and he did nothing but, say he was tired and rollover, i know that i can satisfy myself, but i want him, we've spiced it up before, but he doesn't even seem interested. I am only 26 years old, hes 29 help!

2006-11-11 05:44:56 · 14 answers · asked by sick of fakes.. 3

2006-11-11 05:36:58 · 21 answers · asked by LivingGod 2

Please tell me how you do it and how long you have been married.

2006-11-11 05:36:21 · 14 answers · asked by B M 1

2006-11-11 05:31:17 · 16 answers · asked by diamond 1

2006-11-11 05:19:54 · 18 answers · asked by Stephen C 1

I was dating this girl i really liked. Well as it turned out she was a complete bit-ch. She constantly started fights with me and did nothing but insult me and treat me like dirt. She then dumped me for no reason. Well i go to college and i met this girl who just turned 21. She asked me if i wanted to go celebrate with her. i ended up getting drunk and having sex with her. Well somehow my ex found out and came to my house and just blew up at me. i'm like wtf you dumped me that means i get to do what i want. Why do women care what the guy does after you break up with him??? I mean what did you think we were going to do, just lounge around in self pity. Hell no were going to go out and make ourselves happy.

2006-11-11 05:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every morning after brushing her teeth my wife rinses with a mouthwash, it clearly states on the bottle to rinse, gargle, then SPIT OUT, but she refuses saying it'll carrying on working if it stays in her body. I need to know is there any danger in this???

2006-11-11 05:14:21 · 33 answers · asked by qcumber man 3

2006-11-11 05:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Vanessa G 1

We have 4 kids together.

2006-11-11 05:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by rebeccacmmns 1