We have 4 kids together.
2006-11-11 05:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by rebeccacmmns 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmmnnn...well if you two have discovered that after two years of separation you still haven't divorced and still have love for one another why not? You have to ask the questions did we get over the reason we broke up in the first place, Will me and the kids be better off with my husband their father home again. I would suggest taking it slow, you know? Go out together first, then try family days...some counseling couldn't hurt. First make sure that this is something that works for the entire family. Good luck
Oh and Lady Bug I want my hat back!
2006-11-11 05:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 years and 4 kids is a heavy investment. In order to get help/advice we need to know why you separated ? Is your husband a violent man ? Is he a drunk ? Did he fulfill his conjugal rights when you were together ? Does he take care of his children ?
2006-11-11 13:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by scarface 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest marital counseling first. you don't want to get back into and it not work and just hurt the kids again. you we're married for a long time before though so i do think it could be worth a shot. however, don't tell the kids that you are tring again until you know that it will really work. good luck.
2006-11-11 13:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by bbydol221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not for the sake of your kids if your husband is willing to try again, it is worth taking that chance to see if you all can work things out that is if you still love him.
2006-11-11 13:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get seperated in the fist place? You don't mention that. It's nice for kids to have two parents (who love and respect one another), but you haven't told us why you got seperated. Why is that?
2006-11-11 13:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, you haven't given enough information to know why you broke up to begin with. Try giving more information and maybe we can help? Good luck!
2006-11-11 13:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends....what led to the breakup any way? Is it something trivial like not slicing the tomatoes in the way he wants it or was it something more serious like alcoholism or drug abuse? and if so, is he willing to make the steps to correct those kinds of things for you and him?
2006-11-11 13:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wait till chickens fly dah!!! of course if u r thinking bout it try it no harm...
2006-11-11 14:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by ness_galvez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋