Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2006

How about 3 yrs, and what will I get in case of divorce. I really believe in marriage, I think everybody should be married. But I want to invest my time wisely. What u think??

2006-11-11 16:32:40 · 10 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

2006-11-11 16:22:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to marry another loser, like I did with my ex, and I don't know if my bfr. worth it. he's 19 yrs.my senior, has 3 children from previous marriage, sold his house, and his wife took half whatever he had. But he still has his business and staff. I have to stay with him for another yr and half, so would it be better for me to spend this time as a married woman and see how it goes or I shouldn't bother???

2006-11-11 16:19:20 · 27 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

Please justify your position.

2006-11-11 16:16:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has decided at 36 to get a degree, which I think is great. His career choice will get him a job working with computers. The problem is that his chosen field will start him out making around 20,000 less than he makes now. He is the main source of income for our family. I work full time but don't make anywhere close to what he does. I want him to be happy but I have medical problems and was hoping to cut back on some of my hours at work. I thought that when he finally completed his degree I could dut back and spend more time with my children. Am I just being selfish? How can I tell him to choose another career? Should I even tell him to pick something else? Please HELP

2006-11-11 16:16:04 · 16 answers · asked by cas2173 1

i know that i love him and he loves me and it just feels right but i want to know what peoples opinion of getting one especially at my lovely age of 17 and wanting it for christmas...please be honest

2006-11-11 16:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by ERICA J 3

My dad's just came back from a trip frpm his home country.
I checked his cell phone that he left behind today and found 6 text messeges saying things like "Love u. Love u." from another woman. My dad has been caught cheating by my mom just 3 years ago and we went through a major family crisis. I was really scared when i saw the messeges just minutes ago and i dunno what to do now. My mom's been through so much. From physical abuse to the cheating 3 years ago. But my mom and dad were friendly to each other and looks like they respect one another for the past year. In the midst when i though our family elationship was getting stronger, THIS. My mom and I are very close and i want to go talk to her but what are the right words? What should i say to my dad?

2006-11-11 16:09:10 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Emily 1

Is it common for couples that are married too young to start liking other people? Do you think that being married too young affects how faithful they are to their spouse?

2006-11-11 16:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by h2gj87 4

i know this sounds stupid, and i should feel more confident about my self and marriage. but im almost 6 months pregnant and dont feel like my self. i know that a lot of women find him attractive, so i feel like he might start looking back at them because im growing. My husband and i both are nursing assistans and we both work together..so this women made a comment about him when he left the room (not when i was around). and i had to hear about it.they told him he was married and had a baby on the way...but that makes them want him more...i feel crazy. I'm i the only one out there that would feel upset about this?

2006-11-11 15:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I almost got divorced and got back with him after being seperated for a year. I think he takes thing for granted. He says that I talk to him badly sometimes but I get frusterated when he ignores me and never spends time with me. I work a lot so I ask him to spend at a couple hours a week with me, or at least tell me he loves me or some form of affection.

2006-11-11 15:53:24 · 23 answers · asked by Sonny 2

Im interested in this girl. Her friends are horny (still virgins) but they are always talking about , "Im gunna do this, im gunna do that" and "I'd rape that guy"...... or "hes so fine" but they always tease her for not saying anything about guys and they joke with her calling her a "lesbo" because she doest outwardly show her craving for men. She is somewhat shy tho.

Anyways, My question is, if i were to get with this girl (most prob. marriage) would this change? Im also a virgin, but I can imagine myself doing it several time every day, and I want her to crave it just as much. Or do girls get more horny after they had sex? thanks

2006-11-11 15:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

abortion. I is responcible for at least 5. Most people who are against abortion have never had an abortion. They say dont knock it till you have tried it. I used to be really anti-burger king and then i tried the flame broiled whopper and it was amazing. i mean, what is the flaw in my reasoning???

2006-11-11 15:51:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, you'll probably say it's wrong, but this chick is smoking hot. She's been giving me signs, too, so I think I could hit it on the down low. What do you think?

2006-11-11 15:49:51 · 39 answers · asked by Ben Franklin 1

Hi.
My partner and I have been together for 7 years. We used to have have a great sex life.
The last couple of weeks that is all I ever want to do is have sex with him. I don't know what's wron with me.
I have never been like this before. Well anyway he doesn't want to sleep with me all the time, yet before he said that I didn't give him enough sex.
Do you think that there is something wrong with me? Or do you think he's cheating?

2006-11-11 15:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by jelly_bean_kelly 1

I now have an empty nest and some children have said because i worked all the time, I was not a decated mom to them. Do other moms have this problem?

2006-11-11 15:47:46 · 3 answers · asked by BJ B 1

No i dont care one way or another about gay marriage. but how can people call marriage sacred when the divorce rate is like 50%????

2006-11-11 15:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's terrible. She is always talking to my husband who I've been with for 5 years, married for one. He and I are both 23. He is too nice to tell her, "mom, i don't need to talk to you daily." She called on our wedding night--when we were, uh, busy to say the least. My husband has been hiding his phone calls to her. Erasing his incoming calls list...yesterday, I looked at his incoming call list and he and his mom talked for 10 minutes less than an hour before. I asked, if he talked to her. He lied. He said he hadn't...sad thing is I don't mind that they talk, I really, really don't...I just wish he didn't HAVE to talk to her every day.sometimes 3xs a day. It makes me crazy. I left my family and I'm clinging to him, as the bible tells us to, but why can't he do the same for me? It is begining to hurt my feelings more and more. I would never tell him to stop talking to her, that's just not my place, but how can I teach him that I should be his priority-at dinner, in bed,etc?

2006-11-11 15:36:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance is from colombia. he is not a u.s. citizen. we plan on getting married in febuary. do we need permission first before getting married. is there paperwork and forms to fill out before we get married? or do we do the forms after we are married?

2006-11-11 15:29:00 · 5 answers · asked by rileypeytonw 1

Earlier this year I left my job after 7 years for something I liked better. When I left my job I was unaware that I didn't really have the job I left for. A week later my husband was fired from his job. His was denied unemployment. Then because I have problems with anxiety and depression our mobile home was repossessed. Currently, I am 50 years old, living with my brother and his family, and still unemployed. My husband is living in an old house on the property with no running water. It just seems to me that no matter what I have tried to do in life I constantly fail. I know there are solutions to every problem but why do I even want to get up for more of the same.

2006-11-11 15:26:55 · 28 answers · asked by worried sick 1

a girl asked me if i wanted a hummer. Im not sure if i should say yes or no??? wtf is it?? is it painful????

2006-11-11 15:25:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-11 15:20:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

look at ron jeremy. he has had unprotected sex with thousands and he is std free!!!! everyone tells me that if i dont lay off the hookers i will get something. well i havent got anything yet and neither has ron jeremy.

2006-11-11 15:14:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

things r same in all the womens and girls why man always wants difrent one?

2006-11-11 15:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

...for the good of the kids...

2006-11-11 15:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by september_serenade 1

2006-11-11 15:09:01 · 2 answers · asked by Mai L. 2

My future ex-wife is at church, so I prefer being here, but it still sucks.

2006-11-11 15:01:00 · 22 answers · asked by bystander1212 3

Does it vary by age or religious affiliation?

2006-11-11 14:59:49 · 11 answers · asked by Becca 2

2006-11-11 14:58:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-11 14:56:40 · 24 answers · asked by hoekie 1

I have been married for 4 months. My husband and I NEVER fought (I mean arguing...not physically fighting) while we were dating. Now we seem to fight almost every day. It is usually something stupid. I try to be positive, and make up right away, but he says I act like nothing happened, and that I expect things to go on like normal. He doesn't understand. I don't understand why he needs to stay mad for a while. I just want our marriage to work, and I feel like he gives up too easily. He has gotten to the point that he seems to be down and negative most of the time. When we argue, and I apologize for the part that I played in the argument, and say that I wish I could rewind and undo everything, he says I always say that. I just want things back to the way they were, but I think it might be too late. Please, if you have any good advice, lay it on me!! I love my husband, I believe he loves me too, and I don't want to split up for ANYTHING. Thank you!

2006-11-11 14:33:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous