Hi.
My partner and I have been together for 7 years. We used to have have a great sex life.
The last couple of weeks that is all I ever want to do is have sex with him. I don't know what's wron with me.
I have never been like this before. Well anyway he doesn't want to sleep with me all the time, yet before he said that I didn't give him enough sex.
Do you think that there is something wrong with me? Or do you think he's cheating?
2006-11-11 15:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by jelly_bean_kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
somethings wrong with him, I'd never turn you down
2006-11-11 15:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by ICEMAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one with so many different possibilities. You said he doesn't want to sleep you all the time so I'm assuming that he still does at least sometimes? Just because he doesn't want to have sex with you everytime you do doesn't mean he's cheating. You said that he wanted sex more from you earlier in the relationship. Maybe he holds some resentment about that time and now he's withholding sex as "payback". That's just a thought. Most likely though, it's just that his libido isn't matching with yours right now. If you're in your 30s then you're hitting your sexual peak, whereas he hit his peak in his late teens/early twenties. Maybe you both just need to spice things up a little and try some new stuff. Be open and honest with him. Tell him how hot you are for him. See how he responds. If he responds cooly, then have a frank discussion. Ask him what's wrong. It's the only way you'll find out and get some much needed satisfaction! By the way...there's nothing wrong with you.
2006-11-12 00:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Emmamart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be so many different things. He may be chating but I wouldn't look for that first. Is he depressed or stressed from work, that could have a diminishing effect on his interest? Also, alot of men say that they want more sex or for the woman to initiate it. Many really mean it, but some actually feel emasculates or pressured when the women follow through. And you may have this increased interest simply because he is backing away, sub-consciously you may be using sx as a means of bringing him closer. Perhaps you two should consider talkin with someone, but try to have an open, blameless conversatin between yourselves first and see how it goes.
2006-11-11 23:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i dont know all the details 2 say hes cheating im married 2 and i can say there is nothing wrong with u. ur sex drive is up because u think he's cheating. that happens 2 the best of us. may i ask u y weren't u giving enough sex b 4?
2006-11-11 23:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by book babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably cheating, you've been together seven years and the new has worn off. He probably feels that he is ready for something new. Just be patient maybe he has a lot on his mind and feels trapped. He probably has the seven year itch just because you still love him that doesn't mean he wants to be with you. Just wait he'll finally tell you and at least he is preparing you for a let down., if there is one.
2006-11-12 00:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You are a woman that has a strong sex drive and needs serviced on a regular basis. If your partner is not willing to do this for you then tell him or her that you are going to go out and find someone who can give you what you need. If your partner does not respond then go out and find that person. Who knows you may run into someone just as horney as yourself.
2006-11-12 08:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are reading way to much into the situation. It has only been a couple of weeks. Give it time and see what happens before you start saying things that you cannot take back.
2006-11-12 00:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple of weeks isn't really a long time frame considering your seven year relationship. Tell him how you feel. Ask him if he's cheating. Keep open communication, thats the key to all healthy relationships
2006-11-12 00:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Honeypai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no love to give u now, because he has given his heart to another , there is nothing wrong with u, it's him. don't base your self worth on him or how he does u, self worth comes from within ourselves. i would honestly say he is having an affair, there are changes in him, and ususally when a man doesn't want to sleep with u, they are involved with someone else. not always but most of the time.
2006-11-12 00:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's cheating. look at his life pattern. is he working more, leaving the house more, using his cell more?
2006-11-12 00:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋