Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2006

Last Sept I decided to end my marriage. I had been unhappy for several years, but not for any specific reason. My husband was a hardworking, considerate, smart and decent man. He never cheated, never strayed. Neither did I. But I always felt unhappy, disconnected. I know he loved me and I loved him but one day I just left. He found another woman and now they live together. I still feel just as disconnected and unhappy as I did during my marriage. I've cried everyday since I moved out. I think about him all the time and miss him terribly. He's moved on and doesn't want me back. I hurt him. Why do I still feel so horrible? How do I get over this? I've tried everything from getting a new job, going out with friends, travelling...but nothing seems to work. Please help me. I feel broken and nothing seems to fix me.

2006-11-11 13:16:39 · 19 answers · asked by Emmamart 2

My intentions are to pick up where we left off some years ago and I would like to make it a chance encounter, but sometimes fate needs a little push. Any ideas?

2006-11-11 13:13:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had slapped my fiance in the face, he turned around and punched me in the face

2006-11-11 13:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by wanda h 3

miss my wife. She left me, we argued a lot but I told her I was sorry for my part but she never said sorry - kinda selfish of her.
However, we had a child and I want her back. Don't want to beg her to comeback - so giving her plenty of space and sometime.

Meanwhile, haven't had sex and I'm dying for some action...
What should I do, we are still legally married during our separation and I do want her back - I respect her and thus turned down 3 ladies that asked me out.

Just want some, if you know what I mean...What's there for me to do??? Any ideas?

2006-11-11 13:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Kickster 1

We have 2 kids together. Although he is trying to do better now, I am no longer in love with him and I no longer trust him. We live a comfortable life, and because of this I am not totally miserable and it's easier to put up the happy facade. But I do feel trapped and long to be free. I fear hurting my children and a life of loneliness but I really want to live for myself.

2006-11-11 13:09:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am terrified of growing up. I'm not particularly good-looking, and I don't have an outgoing personality, so I really don't ever intent on getting married. My parents fight alot, and I inherited alot of health problems from them.

Instead, I want to adopt a child when I come of age. Can I do this as a single woman? What do you guys think?:/ I think I was meant to raise kids (I love them :) but also enjoy my life as a single.

2006-11-11 13:09:09 · 14 answers · asked by 2 days after my B day :) 2

and would they admit it or lie (thats a sin to them as well ) and say they never did it by themselves.In my case my woman does it when we have have sex together and I am sure Ive caught her on other(she lies on her- front hand under her) times but she always denies it to me.To me its kind of hypocritical.What people think?

2006-11-11 13:06:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could pick one man and one woman from any time in history to be your parents, who would you pick?

2006-11-11 12:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by Ivy 3

2006-11-11 12:54:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Him and I have been together now 7 years and our first few years together were just wonderful. Now over the last few years sex that used to be frequent hardly exists anymore. When I ask him why all I get is "sex is overrated." and I end up beating myself up when I try and he just tells me "I dunno why you are trying I don't want to have sex," and goes back to playing video games on the PC. All I am thinking is that he is not attracted to me anymore and some times I can't help but cry. And when we do have sex it is like once every month and a half and he makes it sound like its a job or chore....Help please :*(

2006-11-11 12:52:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i filed for divorce then withdre, my spouse filed for divorce and i disagree with some of the reasons and wanted to contest, i asked for and was granted an extension but missed that date. i want to know have i lost or what happens next.

2006-11-11 12:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by pida 1

2006-11-11 12:44:26 · 11 answers · asked by susanfiscus6 2

i have a self destructive past...should i tell my boyfriend?

2006-11-11 12:35:22 · 6 answers · asked by zacksgurl67 1

He would want to live in the same house, but just have us both "see other people". He would tell you that he doesn't have anyone in mind right now. But would like that freedom. He travels extensively. The two of you have one child under 10. How would you handle this?

2006-11-11 12:34:20 · 28 answers · asked by Sweet 3

Due to our divorce, we sold our house for $500,000.

Original price was $450,000.
When we got the house, my wife put a deposit for $200,000.
It came from selling her house she had bought before meeting me.
We got a loan for the remainder $250,000.

Now, the question is this - Does she get her $200,000 back and I split with her only $50,000?
What is mine, in this situation?

2006-11-11 12:32:56 · 18 answers · asked by Kickster 1

I'v been married for only 2 years. My husband and I have suffered 3 first trimester miscarriages and just 10 days ago we lost our stillborn daughter. This morning we had to put our 17 year old cat to sleep. I'v been crying my eyes out and unable to function (make dinner, clean up, engage in sexual relations) and my husband says he's depressed too but he's able to hide it and still keep soldiering on, going to work, cleaning up etc. I feel really guilty but also really angry because he was the one who wanted to keep trying to have a baby and now I'v lost 4 of them and feel like a basket case while he is still emotionally able to function. Today we had a huge argument and I told him he should find a younger woman who can hold a pregnancy, so that at least he can have a child, and he told me it makes him lose his love for me for a day after I get really angry with him. Can our marriage survive? If not, how do we split the ASHES of our stillborn daughter? we both want them desperately.

2006-11-11 12:29:21 · 12 answers · asked by stripedbook 5

How often do you like to hear I love you from your significant other?

2006-11-11 12:21:25 · 23 answers · asked by Sugar 7

2006-11-11 12:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by M&M 2

My husbands away!!! for work three weeks at a time, I work full time, it keeps me occupied during the day, but nights and weekends are a nightmare!, even though I keep occupied but I hate being here by myself no one to cuddle! What do I do?

2006-11-11 12:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by HAILEY B 1

So my husband and I have a three year old. He does not want another baby. This is nothing new, I know he doesn't want more chidren. Lately, I have really really wanted another one. I am not sure what to do? I mean, I know if I really pushed, my husband would say fine. But, I want him to want it too, and I'm not going to put us in that position. I keep thinking there are so many reasons why a second child would be good for our little boy, I mean - he'll learn how to share, he'll learn how to play, he'll learn responsibility (helping me with the baby), and I think a lot of that is what's making me want another one so bad. That and the fact that I know how important a sibling relationship can be. I just don't know what to do. Should I just respect that my husband says he doesn't want one and leave it alone? Should I talk to him about it and give him my reasoning in an attempt to persuade him? I just don't know how I should be handling this. I only want one if he does too!

2006-11-11 12:16:29 · 23 answers · asked by Jax 4

I have raised my now teenage son without any help from his father, physically or financially. He owes over $20,000. I have just found out he and his wife are getting over $200,000. I am not expecting any money, it is very clear they will not be sending any. What should I do? I have a court order but do not have a child support case.

2006-11-11 12:15:23 · 10 answers · asked by aleiah126 1

MY wifes is 5 4 and 110 lbs. what can i do to convince her she not fat?

2006-11-11 12:15:04 · 16 answers · asked by OSO 1

we had the talk and we are broken up he said he is tired of the lies and people running his mouth about them and that he needs to be a kid for now and that hes tired of women and stopped loving me 3 months ago and asking me to marry him was a mistake and hes not going to care about anyone but himself from now on and the only chance for us to get back together was if i got a job and finished school and showed more responsibilities he also said that he didnt want to have kids anymore or wife just a family period wtf? why has he suddenly changed his MO?

2006-11-11 12:06:58 · 11 answers · asked by jinx 2

Do u ever feel that there is so much in life that's waiting for u than whats happening right now. Like there so much more planned so much bigger stuff planned for u in life? I don't know if u feel like that but I know I do all the time?

2006-11-11 11:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-11 11:58:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh yeah... I need to give dad gift ideas for mom and vise versa

2006-11-11 11:50:33 · 16 answers · asked by pineconepik 2

a) should I go and screw a new guy every other day?
b) don't have sex for a year
c) eat 3 donuts every morning
d) ?your opinion

2006-11-11 11:44:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husabnd forgets to delete the history after he uses the computer.so when i look i always see porn.he says he didnt look under it but its in the history.or when we go to the store hell look at every pretty girl its making me feel bad about myself what should i do?

2006-11-11 11:39:25 · 47 answers · asked by babyphat.1984 2

No hitmen, no killings, no sex, no pain just simple dna

2006-11-11 11:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by concorde 1

If not, would you like him to have one?
Was it his choice or yours?

2006-11-11 11:37:16 · 28 answers · asked by S K 7