Why do men tell us they want us to do some thing and when we do it, we are wrong for doing what they asked.?

Answer 1

cause thats men for ya.

Answer 2

eek! My ex-husband used to do this but it was intentionally malicious crazy-making on his part. It took me quite a while to figure out it was power & control he was after, not me doing the right thing. I never could. When I did "get it" I was out of there. I'm not the brightest star in the sky but my IQ is over 130. So I felt pretty stupid falling for his games.

Answer 3

They are just testing to see how gullible a girl can be. It is more important to have a personal opinion and moral values on matters than it is to simply comply with other people's whimsical wishes. If you are asked to do something for a man in the future, simply ask him if he'd be willing to do the same for you and see his reaction.

Answer 4

men NEVER know what they want. The reason why they dont do it themselves and ask us to do it is because if it comes out wrong they want to be able to say its your fault and not theirs

Answer 5

It's a control issue,not all men are like this only control freaks.

Answer 6

Better yet, Why is it that I can tell my husband something and later he will say that I didn't tell him. Men!!

Answer 7

could be a case of theres a time and a place.
or he's just a red neck trailer trash bloke that likes abusing his mrs.

Answer 8

We are supposed to know the difference between what they say and what they want.

Answer 9

Depends on what it was- and who he is- and what kind of day he had! Some days there is no pleasing someone (male or female!)

Answer 10

first of all what woman ever does what a man wants without a price tag attached to it. so please tell me what u mean.