miss my wife. She left me, we argued a lot but I told her I was sorry for my part but she never said sorry - kinda selfish of her.
However, we had a child and I want her back. Don't want to beg her to comeback - so giving her plenty of space and sometime.
Meanwhile, haven't had sex and I'm dying for some action...
What should I do, we are still legally married during our separation and I do want her back - I respect her and thus turned down 3 ladies that asked me out.
Just want some, if you know what I mean...What's there for me to do??? Any ideas?
2006-11-11 13:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Kickster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
then dude first make her jealous to see if she still likes you then maybe shel'l realize that she still wants you and about the sex part well try some girls in the club there pretty good trust me
2006-11-11 13:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by jake t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay 4 it, my goodness! I would say pleasure yourself why u wait 4 her anything else could push her farther away. I feel 4 u, I really do. I was there once b4, he left but in time he called me askiing me 2 come home. I was so excited but the first question out of his mouth was have u been with anyone else. He knew I wouldn't lie 2 him, I said "No, I haven't, u r the only one I want!" I moved back in with the kids and he told me he just needed 2 c if given the chance what i would chose. I waited, and I think u should 2. It might b something like that and if u don't want 2 lose her, stay faithful 2 her just as if she was away at work or whatever. If u love her as u say u do, hold strong, It's going 2 b hard but hold on!
Good luck with getting her back and staying strong on this, even as a lady we need it 2!
Good luck!
2006-11-11 21:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Gijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I have realized that every man should know. Be the man you were when you met your wife! Go to back then, would you be asking yourself this question then? If you answer is no, then that is the reason why you don't have sex with your wife now. Be the arrogant asshole you used to be. Even if it doesnt work on her, at least you will get laid. Yes, I am saying, be selfish, yes, only think of you. You were much happier then, now you are just whipped. The secret to being married for eternity? Don't change!
2006-11-11 21:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. My wife did the same thing. It's been 6 months and the women are on high alert that a nice male is available!
I have resisted cause its just not worth it if my wife has a change of heart. I love her still more than ever. Just do like I do, fight the temptation and enjoy the attention!
2006-11-11 21:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by HonestGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of Hanna and Jacky Palmer? They can be your best friends for awhile and they won't tell anyone you been hittin that.Just be sure to wash your hands when your through.
2006-11-11 21:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself!! Grow up and use your hand....if you want your wife back then keep going for that and not the other bull sh*t.
2006-11-11 21:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can always pay for it. However, I'd wait to see how long you're able to go without. Are ya up for the challange???
2006-11-11 21:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋