My wife thinks shes a fatso?

Question

MY wifes is 5 4 and 110 lbs. what can i do to convince her she not fat?

Answer 1

It sounds like the problem is more about how she feels about herself. Sometimes when people have issues w/ self-confidence, there isn't much their partner can do to convince them that they are just fine the way they are. I would continue to give her compliments with words or gestures to let her know how much you love her exactly the way she is.

Answer 2

This can be a psychological problem she may have been chubby in the past or she feels fat when she looks in the mirror.
The only thing you can do for her is stand by her keep telling her you love her and how beautiful she is keep complimenting her
she may have had this problem for a long time and there is really nothing you can do suggest some counselling this may help offer to go with her this may help watch out for any eating disorders this could put her life in jeopardy bulimia and anorexia
these may also have been problems in her past so watch her
but don't be to paranoid. Its also just a girl thing.

Answer 3

I lie approximately my age for all time. tell her she would be able to be any age she needs. (26 is a sprint one - once I hit 30, there is not any way i might circulate back to my 20's - the 30's have been impressive) i'm 40 4 yet each so often while somebody asks me how previous i'm, i will tell them something ridiculous like 29. I did that final twelve months on my birthday and my boss appeared at me and reported "wow, you're able to desire to have had a puzzling existence". It become hilarious. tell your spouse to get a humorousness. It incredibly facilitates.

Answer 4

there seems to be a self esteem issue. not that she doesn't like herself, just that she doesn't think highly of her looks. maybe it's the way women are shown on TV, magazines, etc. or perhaps she is paying too much attention to the way other women look and thinks they look better. every woman wants compliments from her husband, but can you do it for the rest of your life to make her feel good? perhaps you can or perhaps she will grow spiritually beyond the physical beauty issue. you will never be able to convince her she is not fat. hopefully she will move on to realize and enjoy what she has instead of what she doesn't have.

Answer 5

It sounds like she's very insecure. Any idea why she feels that way? Maybe at one time she was fat or perhaps the realtionship is not quite as romantic as it was in the beginning (normal, but she may think it's because you don't find her physically appealing)
Try planning a romantic evening and make sure you make her feel like the most desireable, attractive, gorgeous woman on earth.Bet it'll do wonders!!

Answer 6

You're right, if anything, she's at the perfect weight. It's your job as caring husband to insist that she is beautiful the way she is and that you love her the way she is now & wouldn't want her to change.
If she becomes more obsessed with her weight, it's best to get her some counseling because if not, the obsession could lead to an eating disorder.

Answer 7

I dont think that you can convice her of this yourself. If she is actually sincere about the comment she makes to you, then is sounds to me that perhaps she may have an eating disorder and needs counseling.

Answer 8

Women are always concerned about their bodies. No way to convince her just always make sure she always knows you think she is hot.

Answer 9

All women think they are fat, just keep telling her how beautiful she is. Women like it too when you tell them exactly what you think is beautiful about them(eyes, hair, nice butt, etc).

Answer 10

Tell her she needs counseling....Hey you can try to agree with her and see her reaction to see if she just wants your attention or compliments...Try That..next time she says it ..say I know..See what she says next..lol